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Pressure
I have been going out with my boyfriend now for 3 monthes. I am 14 years old. Last night, we went to a house party. Ther was this game were we had to give head. I didn't want to give his bestfriend head, but all the girls were doing it. The game was called "rainbow."
I feel so guilty, and gross, what can i do to feel better?
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I can understand pressure, but since you went along with the crowd, you deserve to feel guilty and gross. You need to quit going to house parties to avoid these situations. Doing what the other girls do doesn't make you better, cooler, it only proves to people that you're nasty enough to give any guy head. Heres a tip: Do not do what you don't want to do no matter how much people want you to. I am wondering if your boyfriend of 3 months knows, because if he doesn't, you can wash out some guilt by telling him.
-TheTeenGirl
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well i dont want to be religously inclined but being a catholic i would go to confeational becuz that always makes me feel better when i do somthing that i didnt want to do!! and next time dont do it who care what they think becuz if u ask me i think thats pretty slutty to give head!!
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That doesn't sound like a good game to me.I wouldn't play it again.Sex is not a game it is serious business.
By the way, any boyfriend who would approve of this is not a boyfriend I would want.He also has no feeling for you.All they want are girls to give them head they really don't care who they are.
Don't do it again OR associate with those who did. There is nothing you can do about feeling guilty except learn from it.Remember that sex is between two people who love each other, or at LEAST two people who care about each other.Save orgy type behavior for perverts.
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There is nothing that you can do to feel unguilty. What you did was disrespectful to your boyfriend and very disrespectful to yourself. You shouldn't be pressured into doing anything sexual because everyone else is doing it. And <b>IF</b> your boyfriend was there, what kind of person is he to let you do that? Your feelings of grossness might go away with time, but for now you have to deal with the consequences of what you did. I guess tasting the <i>"rainbow"</i> wasn't so fun afterall.
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There isnt anything really that you can do to make you feel better, You shouldnt have really done what you were asked to do if your boyfriend was there and he might feel a bit uncomfortable about it. The best thing you can do is say our sorry.
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ew...what the hell kinda gameis that...did ur boyfreind just whatch you give his best freind head...thas not right...just dont do that shit anymore and youwont have to feel gross...
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First of all it's good that you didn't do everything like the other girls because that is just wrong, I mean giving your boyfriend's bestfriend head.. Talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he thinks and everything about it. Don't feel bad about it you didn't do anything wrong at all.
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ok thats sick! be glad u didnt do it just because everyone else was. <3
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Thats not right for your boyfriend to Make you do that, you should never be forced by anyone like that to do something. I don't know what you can do to make yourself feel better, maybe dump yourboyfriend, But don;t let him make you do anything like that again its your chooose. IM sorry this happened to you IM me anytime IHIH* KAitlyn (itsallkaitlyn)
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