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Ok well My name is Kristen and i play softball. I love bands like Greenday, the used, oasis,
blink-182, Simple plan, Brand new, papa roach, the Killers........Etc..
I play ShortStop, 3rd base, pitcher,and outfield.
My reason i signed up for advicenators is because i want to help people and try to help save peoples life s and make them feel bettter. ask me anything and i will answer it (if its somthing like a joke then umm no i wont)
I hope i help make a diffrents in some ones life.
*KRIS*
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E-mail: ambrizkristen@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Occupation: Student
Age: 13
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How do you start a conversation with a boy? Say if you were at a Arby's and it was just you and this boy you liked, how would you start a good conversation with him. Now keep in mind, he doesn't know I like him. That would be some other nice advice, how to tell him that I do like him!!! Thank You Very Much! (link)
what ever you do dont talk about the weather!! ok!! And if you no some of his intrests ask about that idf he plays sports ask about that!! GET TO NO THE GUY!!
kRIS


im 13 female,
i found out one of my friends REALLY likes me but i always have thought of us just as GREAT friends not really bf and gf but now im starting to JUST a little like him back but i kinda like this other guy and im getting REALLY confused wat do i do i mean i no if we go out and break up we most likely won't be as good of friends if friends but if i say no he will be really embarrassed to talk to me
im confused and don't no wat to do i REALLY need LOTS of help im not the best when it comes to this stuff pleaz help (link)
Well, Make it straight with your friend that you want to be ask good as friends as yall were before yall went out when or if yalls relationship as gfand bf is over!! and if he cant say that then say well then i dont want to risk it!! if ya wanna risk it then go ahead!! and i no one thing if ya dont then stick to the other guy!! really this kind of advice is all i can give you !! i mean i cant really tell you what to do because i dont no these people and i dont no you !! but all i can say is try what i said and GOOD LUCK
Kris


hey kris this is taylor i dont no how 2 choose b tween 2 guys i likme and i dont no how 2 ask 1 out considering i asked the other out but hasnt checked his mail yet 2 no that i did and so i dont no if i should keep him from reading it or telling him b cause of the other guy the other guy doesnt no i like him and havent done anything about trying to get him 2 like me and i guess i was just wandering how i choose and if he doesnt have like im how m i supposed 2 ask him out cause im shy and im is how i handle alot of things with my friends cause i no that once u send it u cant take it back !!!!plz help
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Ok Taylor i told you this before but just act your self!! Dont have other ppl ask b/c you never no that he wants to see if you can do stuff by yourself!! And what ever guy you like the most go for it!! well for the guy that you sent mail to i am sorry but you cant take that back!! and it think you should just try and stick to one boy!! and Taylor your 12 or 11 and i think that you should just have fun with out having to deal with these problems as long as you can because once these things actually start to count thats when you wish you didnt have to deal with these problems!! Believe me i would no!!
So good Luck and See yeah later!!
Kris


im 13 female,
i found out one of my friends REALLY likes me but i always have thought of us just as GREAT friends not really bf and gf but now im starting to JUST a little like him back but i kinda like this other guy and im getting REALLY confused wat do i do i mean i no if we go out and break up we most likely won't be as good of friends if friends but if i say no he will be really embarrassed to talk to me
im confused and don't no wat to do i REALLY need LOTS of help im not the best when it comes to this stuff pleaz help (link)
Ok well If you want to go out with your friend then do it!! but make it clear to him that if you say yes whatever happens you still want to be as good as friends as yall are now!! and if he says that he cant promisse you that then say you cant promiss him your heart.

Kris


Someone told me that washing your hair every day can damage it. Then someone else told me that it wasn't true unless you blow dry it everyday (which I don't so)
So which person is right?
I've been washing my hair everyday for ages because there's nothing better to do, haha. I don't want to damage my hair from it though! (link)
Washing your cant damage your hair. it helps it grow and get some of the oils out!! Blow drying can though it can make it all dry and then you will get split ends
kris


i really REALLY like this guy patrick in my 6th period that everyone says is kinda a nerd but i think he is really cute! i dont know why because i dont really know him but he found out a while ago and now its been really akward when im around him. i know he likes this other girl courtney but i really want him to just get to know me without seeming to weird. i think if he knew me better he would maybe start liking me (the girl he likes now is kinda flaky if you know what i mean, and im not trying to put her down or anything but she kinda is!) haha! but how can he get to know me better without me having to seem despret or weird?
p.s. (13/ female) (link)
I think that you should just be his friend at the moment. then start to get some details and give some details. then you dont no he just might fall for you.
kris


Im a 13-f. I've had my period for queit a while now. But the last time I got it was in the middle of February. I used to get it every single month. But all of a sudden, it just doesn't come. Anyone know why? (link)
If your athletic you periods can be iiregular.


Ok there's this grl at skewl and i HATE her so0o0o much. Well our Principal called us both down to the office once to talk to us...he asked us if we had ever gotten along and she said "Well at one point we were good friends" I was like WTF!?!? (not out loud of course) But anyway wenever she is mean to me (she is only wen shes with her friends and im not) i want to stand up to her but then i never find a chance or im afraid ill get in a fight and get suspended or something. Anyone kno wut i could do? Plz help...i rate good! (link)
ok this sounds like somthing i have been in before!! see i think you shouldnt care about her friends being there. alot of ppl cant help but be a bitch to some one when there around there friends. i think that you should go up to her and tell her what you have to say then see what happens. catch her when she is not with her friends i bet ya she has nothing to say.

Kris


okay i need some exersies that can help flatten my belly and tone my thies(sp?! so any ideas?? thanks

XO0X* (link)
Ok well crunches and sit ups. they will help with ur tummy.
kris


hey! my dad told me that if i get a 92 or above on my report card at the end of the year, then he will get me a new cellphone. but see, i have a problem..softball has started and so that is what im worried about. and i havent been finishin my homework at home and i havent been studying. i need some tips to start buckling down. my lowest grade is a 78 and my highest is an 89(?)..can someone help me? i only have about 4 weeks left of school... (link)
I know that softball takes up alot of time but you need to no if u want to be a good athlete you cant let softball get in your way of studdying and stuff!! now i think when you have time dont ask to go some were stay home and studdy and when your watchn tv work on your homework. because if you really want that cell phone you will work for it.
Kris


i was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend being mean to me all the time when a certain guy came to school, well he was so nice to me today and the day before ever since i talked to him he has been nice to me and actually tells me he loves me and holds my hand and kisses me in public.. he told my friend he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me.. does this mean he is chaging his ways (link)
I think that yalls talk helped him realize what a jerk he was being !! so yes i think he is changing his ways
KRIS


13-female
there is this guy who is REALLY popular that i like (im not very popular), but i NOOOOO i have no chance with him but i can't convience myself i don't like him cuz i do but y waist my time liking him when i have no chance but how do i STOP liking him
i am SO confused i need alot of help i ain't good with guys
CAN U HELP ME?????????
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Ok well never say you dont have a chance !! becasue you dont no that!! ok i think you need to get to no this guy
who care that he is popular then you can do whatever you want from there!!


Hey, i'm a 15 year old black girl and at my high school if your a certain color, you are expected to like certain things and listen to a certain type of music.Well i'm not like that i listen to "other" music.And when i say other music i mean stuff liken green day and maroon5 and stuff like that.Also some of the stuff that my caucasion friends talk about i can identify with and some of the more preppy clothes they wear i like.i'm afraid to tell my friends this because i am afriad of their reactions.what should i do? (link)
For get what they think be you and only you no how to be !!! and if you like somthing you shouldnt let anyone to hold you back!!
Kris


I need help. The other day i met my friend and her boyfreind. And her boyfriend has been trying to get me hooked up with his friend lets call him 'bob' for a while now well a week or so. Me n Bob went out last yr but i dunno it just didnt work out. Now i might be starting to have feelings for him again. N anyways when i met them the other day we went over there house. N my friends bf suggested we go upstairs (me and bob AND him and my friend, in different rooms of corse), so we did. Me and Bob made out, and some other stuff, not that far though, i wouldnt do that, especially cause we're not going out. I think Bob kinda likes me but hes a little hard to talk 2. He asked me to be friends with benefits (fwb) with him but i said i dunno n we just left it at that. I had fwb's before and their ok but right now id rather have a relationship but bob had long relationships before but i guess maybe doesnt want one right now. N i remember saying to him that night "Bob whats gunna happen is this like gunna be it or what" n he said that we cud be friends with benefits n i said theres no point cuz were not gunna go out n he said how do you know. So i think im gunna see him tomorrow and deffinatly over the weekend a few times. What should i do?

14/f `xo ms.confused (link)
I think that you should try the fwbs and see what that leaves yall. and to see if you really like this guy and if you do then do what everyone says not to do ask him out or say u want to be more then fwb!!
Kris
(mis texas girl)


ok this is a stupid thing to say but yeah, i've been under alot of stress here lately for the past year or so now.I've been starting to think about cutting I have once before but dont know if I want to again last time I did my parents found out and said they were going to put me in a hospital if i ever did it again.But I can't think of any other ways to relieve my feelings in a way only I can control. (link)
Get a punching bag orgo to a gym that has boxing and take a few classes or go to the batting cages it works for me when i am stressed!!
Kris


hey! im doing a project for school and i need to collect some data about things some teens do that they realy dont want to just to fit in. if u could tell me all the things that u did just to fit in, it would help. thanx

ps: annyone who ansers will get a 5 rateing unless they r joking or being rood or whatever (link)
well some girls give head to fit in and some have sex to fit in


My computer is having some issues with right clicking, and clicking links that create a new internet explorer window to open. When I right click on a link, all the options come up, but when I select "open a new window" nothing pops up, and the original window just freezes and then I get annoyed and close it. Even my msn is acting screwy, it tells me I have however many new emails, but when I click on it, nothing pops up.

I've run a virus scan, have a firewall, and ad aware, so none of that appears to be the issue. Any help? (link)
Maybe you need a new Mouse


13/f
there is this guy he is popular but im not and i really like him i don't want him knowing cuz his gf broke up with him which means he might still like her
i don't no what to do i like this guy but i think he still likes his x gf (link)
well does he no you?? if he doesnt then get to no him or get him to no you or w/e and then tell him!! or if he nos you Flirt and give it all u got bu allow time to go by becuz u got to remeber that he got dumped!!
Kri


this might be long,
At a recent school dance i danced with this really cute boy. That whole night i totally obsessed over him and couldnt stop thinking about him. After the dance i went online and talked to my friend hailey and told her i felt something for him. We talked about it and said "i have no chance hes way out of my league. ill probably never talk to him again" and then the next day at school at lunch hailey came up to me and said " i talked to shane" and i was like "whhattt!?" and she says " i asked him what he thought about you looks wise and he said veerry good" i was really happy about it. I started to get to know him for about a month and when the next dance came he asked me out. We started going out but i felt really weird...not so much the first couple of days. He would come over my house and we watched movies and stuff (and thats it) . then the next weekend he came over again and watched a movie and i got so fed up with having him around and the next day i dumped him. Well to get to the point. I like guys that i cant have. Once they start to like me i totally change and dont feel anything for them. I just want someones oppinion about it. I keep dumping totally sweet boys that girls at my school are dying to get their hands on for no reason!
sorry if it was long
i rate high (link)
well maybe instead of dumping them tell them that you need space and you time with out them every now and then!!
kris


im in student gov and we have to plan the spring dance. does anyone have any ideas for a theme? plz no under the sea or hawiian. thnx! (link)
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