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Q: ok im 13 female and i started cutting because family and friend problems and i stopped 4 like 2 weeks and then i got so mad and deprest i cut again and now i want to really bad but i promised myself i wouldnt do it again because im scared someones going to find out about it and send me to a mental home or something beause of it and i have thought about killing myself one or twice but i havent gone threw with it yet but i trie to hide it from my mom and my teachers so i dont wear shorts or anything and i wear a jacket most the time so that no one see the scares but i really need help and i was going to tell someone about it but im to scared so can anyone give me advise because i could really use some right now??? please help

I know you might not wanna hear this but if you have a really close friend that you know you can trust with anything.. it might not be a bad idea to talk to her/him about it. I have before and it sometimes relieves the stress inside me and they always tell me good things like " i'm here for you" " i love you" " you know i'm always here" so it makes me feel good so if that works for me then it might work for you. Its helped and i've pretty much stopped and its because of the support of my friends. I didn't tell my family myself only because i couldn't trust them. But that maybe different for you. They won't send you anywhere. Just try talking to someone it might help.

Q: okay, for all you iditos who anwser questions with rude anwsers..go away now..because you arent wanted..
this one i would probaly like a girl to anwser..but hey, i dont care

okay, im 6th grade(girl of course)..corny but hey, and i like this guy..everyone says that we would look really good together, and i know him well. this is my 3rd year of being in the same class as him, we hang out together sometimes, and we basically sit next to eachother. well, his gf just broke up with him, althogh it wasnt a real relashonship..they never really liked eachother..well, i don't know if he likes me or not..we get along great and all..and well, i really want him to ask me out! he is so nice and funny, caring also..i always said that i would never have a bf until like 7th or 8th grade..cuz the relashonships are never real..but how can i clue him to like ask me out? or how can i get clues as to if he likes me or not? i really need help on this one..sorry for the length
signed..
need help!

My sister know how you feel.. she's a 7th grader so she gave me some answers:
If you want him to ask you out maybe you should try talking to him more make him know you like him and maybe tell a GOOD friend that you can trust and maybe she can bring it up to him if they're really good friends. Or step up and ask him yourself ( theres nothing wrong with a girl asking a guy out ). Try flirting but not too much.
Well i hope i helped you a little bit

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I'm a prunk ( lol ) a preppy punk ( best of both worlds ) i'm a complete girly girl but i also have an edge. I love hanging with my friends! I lvoe giving advice, although there might be somethings that i cannot answer i will always try my best!