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i wanna stand up but never find a chance


Question Posted Monday April 25 2005, 3:02 pm

Ok there's this grl at skewl and i HATE her so0o0o much. Well our Principal called us both down to the office once to talk to us...he asked us if we had ever gotten along and she said "Well at one point we were good friends" I was like WTF!?!? (not out loud of course) But anyway wenever she is mean to me (she is only wen shes with her friends and im not) i want to stand up to her but then i never find a chance or im afraid ill get in a fight and get suspended or something. Anyone kno wut i could do? Plz help...i rate good!

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XoxAndRea answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 7:44 am:
Hey!
I am very sorry! Just ignore her! Or tell a teacher or go back to the principal! I hoped i helped!

XOXO AnDrEa XOXO

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meggybou022 answered Monday April 25 2005, 11:17 pm:
i know what this is like..i've been through it before and i took all the stuff people told me and i never fought back and i regret it now...stand up to her and tell her to get a damn life and leave yours alone...if she hits you, hit her back..you might get in trouble..but you won't have to put up with her anymore...

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xXAnOn_ChiCkXx answered Monday April 25 2005, 9:49 pm:
Don't let her intimidate you! You won't get suspended just make sure you dont hit anyone, unless she hits you first then just say it was from self defense. If you stand up for yourself you will feel sooo much better believe me! If you don't this will keep going on, and do you really want it to? I wouldn't think so. Just tell her to get an effing life (ok you prob shouldn't say effing) if her and her friends bother you again just say "Wow you really need to get a life if all you do is this, thats just plain pothetic if you ask me...then walk away and they will be speechless.
ok i hope i helped!
plz give me feedback on what happens!
xXAnOn_ChiCkXx

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mylinhthan answered Monday April 25 2005, 6:24 pm:
anonymous -

When she tries to be mean to you, poke fun at her stupidity.

"Oh, were you trying to sound SMART there hun? Cuz it really isn't working."

"What kind of an insult is that? If you must make fun of me, get some GOOD material. Even I'm disappointed."

"Did you stay up all night to think of that one? Or is your head really that far up your ass?"

"I find it amusing how you make time to insult me with your petty remarks. Where you being pathetic just leaves me at loss for words."

"Are you really that narrow-minded to resort to using obscenities that you can't find a better way to express yourself?"

Usually I would be against this kind of behavior, but keep in mind this is only a fellow columnists ideas. I encourage civility (meaning play nice), but if you must, here ya go.

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zapreth answered Monday April 25 2005, 4:09 pm:
The only reason for a person to be mean to you in front of other people (thier friends) is to get a reaction out of you that will make them feel in control and better than you. Regardless of what she says, it's all for show to make her look better. Ignore her, or just walk away. She's not worth your time and effort so treat her that way. Look at her like she's a clump of shit on your shoe if you look at her at all. Be polite if she is, but don't give her the time of day if she's not. Don't play her game. I know it's frustrating, but she really isn't worth bothering yourself over. Good luck!

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heykris10 answered Monday April 25 2005, 3:47 pm:
ok this sounds like somthing i have been in before!! see i think you shouldnt care about her friends being there. alot of ppl cant help but be a bitch to some one when there around there friends. i think that you should go up to her and tell her what you have to say then see what happens. catch her when she is not with her friends i bet ya she has nothing to say.

Kris

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LoveNJstyle answered Monday April 25 2005, 3:41 pm:
if its just that you hate her, dont fight her unless she initiates it. that really sucks but violence isnt the answer and its just another one cat fight. please hold back, i know how hard it is. <3

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LinDsx3 answered Monday April 25 2005, 3:39 pm:
next time she does it just be like bitch grow up and get a life, you think your cool teasing me infront of people? and she'll probably be shocked and if she does anything just be like ew dont go near me your grosse.. haha<3 but if she hits you, hit her back and hopefully ull beat her up and she realize she acts like shes 10.. but tell the school she hit you first

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