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I'm having problems with my mother
Hey well i am like having all these problems with my mom and i love her very much but she just yells at me sometimes for like nothing and im really freaked out because she gets me mad and depressed i feel like killing myself or like cutting myself!
signed
Depressed little gurl
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cutting: always on the thighs. It's very hard to see, but you'll feel it every time you walk somewhere. If you want to really hide the scar, follow the contours of your legs and use a very sharp, very clean blade. Always wash the cuts with hydrogen peroxide afterwards - it has a wonderful burn and will prevent infection.
killing: Killing yourself (or anybody) is pretty permanent; I'd only consider this if you think that the problems are permanent. I don't think anything with your parents is permanent, really; they'll die on their own soon enough.
Hope this helps!
.-=paenian=-.
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Dont ever think about doing that!! Your mom is probablly under some stress and maybe she just takes it out on you sometimes. Dont worry about it because she loves you and its normal for moms to do that! x0
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Whatever you do please don't consider suicide or harming yourself...I know someone who has pretty much the same problem as you, and i care very much about her and would be upset if anything happened to her,so my friend talked to me and others about what she was going through and we helped to get through.. so it was best for her to talk to her friends..if not, maybe you could go see your school counselor, but please don't do anything harmful because people truly do care about what your going through and want to help you.
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stop with this nonsense, find a real reason to feel depressed and suicidal. you clearly weren't beaten as a child, now were you? let me tell you, thats a good reason, if I was a sniveling coward looking for an easy way out, i guess that would be a good reason in my suicide note, shape up, and maybe you'll become an excellent marine.
-hitler
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All teens and their mom's have problems sometimes. I think it's because they know you are growing up! That can depress mom's sometimes!
Sit and have a talk to her ( when she's in a good mood) and express your concerns.
Do not start cutting or killing yourself.You are not alone in feeling this way, and can be helped.
Talk to mom, or another adult you trust and get some prfessional help for these feeling you are having okay?
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well first off you really should tell your mom that she's making you feel inferior and insecure. and that she makes you feel like she doesn't need you. your mom loves you. and i`m sure she wants only the best for you!! so just tell her you need to talk to her about it, without her getting mad and have her just listen. don't come off offensive, or mad. just tell her calmly and patiently EXACTLY what she's saying and doing that makes you feel mad and depressed and that sort of thing. and babydoll, try to think of better things to take your emotions out on! like listening to music, crying, excersing, eating.. i dont know. anything is better than cutting or thoughts of suicide. you can always talk to your friends about it too. just be safe! <3 hope i helped <3 u can message me if you need ANYTHING else! *britt
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Whoa, that's very serious. You shouldn't stay in a place or with someone that could bring danger to you by your will. You said that you feel like killing yourself or commiting suicide, or cutting yourself. Find another place to live whether if it's your relatives or a friend. If you love your mom, you should do what's best for her and move out because if you stay with her then you might end up in a serious condition that could lead to death, and that would just bring too much pain for you to handle. Talk to her about this so that you guys can find a place to live. You can even get her into a good center for treatment where she can change her acts towards you so that maybe when the time is right and the behaviors have changed, you guys can live with eachother again. Remember, you are doing if for the benefit of you and your mother. I think that this is the best solution right now, so talk to her quickly so that you guys can develop a plan. I hope everythigns works out for both you and you mother. I hope I helped!
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dont cut yourself or try to kill yourself. it doesnt help or get you anywhere. try talking to your mom and telling her how you feel. it might not work at first but maybe your mom is under some stress or there is something that is a deeper problem. just talk things out with her and if at first she doesnt listen keep trying. also talk to someone about how you feel. someone will understand and things will be okay. good luck!
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damn, you dont have to take that kinda shit. Your her little girl she shouldnt treat you that way, let her know that. Tell her how she makes you feel, but do it camly and respecfully, and if she still doesnt treat you right, then talk to a counsolor about it maybe, and maybe they can help ya'll out. ..goodluck
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Killing or cutting yourself is never the answer, to any situation no matter how bad it may seem. You need to talk to your mother when both of you are calm, cool and collected and tell her how she makes you feel when she yells at you for no reason at all. Tell her that you love her, no matter what, but that she should take your feelings into consideration. Let her know how her yelling affects you emotionally, because if you don't, she will only keep yelling at you and the situation will on get worse.
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hey-moms do that, and maybe when she's yelling at you, it's for something? just try to think about it in her point of view. but don't hurt yourself because of her-don't hurt yourself because of you either-just don't do it because that's just a stupid thing to do. it's okay moms yell and if she's trying to discipline you then it's probably because she loves you.
SaRaH
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Ok, wow, don't kill yourself, think for a moment, isn't that a little extreme. Your mom gets mad so you want to end your future. Talk to your mom and ask why she's so mad, but don't try to make her look like the bad guy. Maybe she's stressed out, offer to help around the house, or ask about what she thinks of what your wearing. Things like this let parents know you care what they think, something most parents have to question while raising a teenager.
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