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I was going out with brian but he randomly wouldnt call me and my computer was broken. so i asked him online when i was at my friends and he was like im sorry i forgot. (mostly because he smokes everyday, i hate it) we wopul hangout on sundays and it sucked, i didnt want to hangout with someone once a week when he lives down the street. but hes different, hes the only guy im shy around, i dont know why. but he called me friday and told me he couldnt hangout because he was going to his friends. he called me latr and told me he went to the mall (why couldnt he of asked me?) so he called me saturday morning and said hed call me later to hangout he did but said he couldnt because his parents were out ( why couldnt he ask me over) so i sad my mom culd pick him up and stuff and he didnt seem intrested and was like lets just hangout tomorrow so i was like no, its not working, sorry an he said alright. he goes to my friends school so he was like i really like her i dont know why she dumped me so i talked to him yesteday and h was like ell i cant ay i liked you a wicked lot because we didn really talk alot but i dontknow why im so shy around you but i definetly like you an what i know s far, so i uess we're going back out. what can i say to tell him i dont like how he smokes so muc and we need to hangout more? and how can i not be so shy and what should i say on the phone? thank you<3
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I think you were right the first time, to break up with him. you try hard to get him to even hang out with you, and he makes up excuses? and thats not tha tbad, but he ALSO smokes and that bothers you. but if you really like this guy and you wanna stay together, then you should tell him you dont like him smoking. dont say it in a mean way, just like, when hes smoking, be like, "that is so gross" as for the talking and phone and stuff, how about dont talk to him on the phone! :D talk in person and online, so you wont have those awkward silences. uggg i hate those. good luck
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ok i didnt completly understand that, but i will try my best..lol Ok so if you really dont like him smoking, let him know and if he wont cut down on it for you then hes not worth your time, and you just have to keep inviting him to do stuff...plan ahead so he cant get out of it on shortnotice. and the whole shy thing...thats kinda hard to get over...but you just have to come out of your shell be yourself and have fun, hopefully that will make things less akward wen ya'll are round each other. also for the fone, its hard to find things to talk about if you dont do it a lot, espeically with someone you dont no that well, just find soemthing you both have in common and talk a lil about that, ask him questions about his past, and just stupid lil questions that will help u be less shy around him in public.other then that he sounds like he likes you, so just be yourself and things should work out.goodluck let me know if i can help you out anymore.
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Well first to start off, now that your goin back out with him do you REALLY like him or are you just back out with him because you felt bad that he really liked you. If you really and truly like him and you want to tell him that you dont like him smoking .. ask him why he does it, if he answers with a dumb answer say its wrong and you dont want anything to happen to him because he smokes that you dont want him to go into trouble and that would prevent him from seeing you alot if someone found out. I think by talkin on the phone with him more you will become less shy and become more open with him and more open to talk to him about things. When you guys want to hang out, tell him that you miss him and that you want to see him for a lil bit even if its only for a few minutes that you would still like to see him, and when he goes to the mall and stuff, tell him that you are bored and would like something to do then he will probably invite you to go with him. If he doesnt and he goes with his friends then he is not a good boyfriend and is more intrested in his friends. It is okay if he hangs with him friends some times but if he blows you off and doesnt let you hang out with him then you should dump him ! Well i really hoped i helped you with this! <33
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hi wow...thats a lot of stuff there...lmaoo :) but its alright...thats what i'm here for :) anyways, from what you told me...hmm it seemed a little weird to me to that he didnt ask you and he didnt chill wit you all those times that he could...but he might be shy 2...and he might have feelings for you that he doesnt know how to deal with...the thing is when you talk to him, tell him how you feel, and everything, tell him that you dont really like it when he smokes...and that you would love to hangout with him more and get to know him more because u really like him...if i was you...i mean me, in relationships, i usually tell the guy whatever i feel and whatever its in my head...if i was you i was even going to tell him that "i dunno with you i feel different because i'm not usually a shy gurl, but with you i've feelings that make me shy and not knowing how to act" now if you say that it will flatter him ofcourse, and it will kinda break the ice between you 2...i dunno thats what i do...i always tell them how i feel...if they understand me and so on..they're worth going for...if not..then :) hey there's plenty of guys out there who could understand you and everything...but if you really like him and you just wanna stick to him...i guess just talk to him,open up and tell him what you feel :) alright hope i helped xoxo effy
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