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Horny lil boy
ok so i have this boyfreind...and i love him with all my heart, weve been on and off for about a year now. Ive been in love with him since the first day he asked me out.I love everything about him, but theres one thing that he just started doing that really bugs me. Ok he's your average 17 year old honry teen...but he like talks about it a lot. He always tries to talk dirty to me, and i used to think it was cute, but after some of the things guys have done to me...i dont like it anymore...at all! even him, and sometimes he gets to the point where i have to tell him to stop...but i feel really bad telling him that. I know this is a weird situation, but what should i do?
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a lot of guys do that! if he doenst stop when u ask him to, hes not worth it. <3
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Tell him that the way he talks about sexual things bothers you, and it would make you more comfortable if he didn't talk like that around you. True, the average seventeen year old boy is horny, but that doesn't give him a right to be perverse with you. Alot of his bad habits seem cute at first, but after a while of redundancy, they can become very annying. A year is a long time (in teenage years) to be with someone, and if you want the relationship to last, then you should talk openly about problems between ya'll as soon as they happen. If he can't understand why you don't like the way he talks, then tell him what has happened in your past that has made you that way. Give him a little understanding, because I am sure that he will be confused about your sudden dislike of his bad habit.
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Okay well if it bugs you and you are really close just say you can be horney all ya want i just dont like it when you do/talk horney to me it just bugs me. I am sorry but that is what in my heart. I am sorry and I love you. It might hurt him a little. but its the truth and u r just leading to ur hart. maybe he acts horney becasue he thinks you or girls like it. good luck e-mail me back and tell me how things went.
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Well, I think the fact that you have lasted a year says a lot. Obviously y'all have something that seems to be working for you. I think the best thing to do in this situation, hard as it may be, or uncomfortable for you, just try talking to your boyfriend about all of this. Tell him exactly what you stated above. Let him know how you are feeling. To talk like that sometimes is okay, but all the time isn't right. If he knows how you feel about this and he stops, then great. If you talk to him and he doesn't change, then he obviously doesn't respect you. Just communicate and you'll be fine! :)
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