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prude?


Question Posted Sunday March 27 2005, 6:04 pm

this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help.

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buttface101 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 3:38 pm:
wait for the perfect moment and the perfect time!! your frist should be the BEST!!!

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xoxomisterious1993 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 5:24 pm:
ok what you should do is find someone that you fell comfortable with

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karenR answered Monday March 28 2005, 1:19 am:
Perfect moment, perfect guy.Why not make it a pleasant memory?

Really doesn't matter. But, when you are ready you will do it.Until then don't worry about it:}

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Miss_Lily answered Monday March 28 2005, 12:47 am:
Wait for the perfect moment and the perfect guy hon. These are your memories, not someone else's, and you are right. Your first kiss should be saved on someone who you care about. Let those guys keep calling you a prude, sticks and stones. Obviously they are not worthy, because if they liked you enough, then they would wait.

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passionx0x answered Sunday March 27 2005, 8:24 pm:
A kiss is just a kiss, unless it's with someone you really like. If you wnat to wait for the perfect first kiss, then wait. It's your decision not his, and what he thinks of you shouldn't matter, just tell him to shut up and to leave you alone. If you wana wait for the perfect kiss, you may be waiting a long time, plenty of people come and go before you find the *perfect* guy.

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vchicka15 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 7:46 pm:
same situation here.. ive liked a guy for 2 years but i havnt gone out with him.. ive dated another kid but i couldnt kiss him or anyone because i wanted the kid i liked to be my first kiss.. and i still do.. i dont know about other people but i want my first kiss to be special with someone i truly like.. its ok to wait for the perfect guy but dont set your standards too high now.. if your comfortable with the kid kiss him :-)

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PINK_PANTHER_PIMP213x answered Sunday March 27 2005, 7:24 pm:
For most people a kiss isn't really that big of a deal. I know the first girl I kissed I couldn't care less about her. But it seems like it is important to you. If you want it to be special wait for the right guy. You shouldn't just kiss someone if you don't even care about them. Wait for the right person. I know that I wish my first kiss wasn't with that girl.

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sweetxtragedy answered Sunday March 27 2005, 7:18 pm:
wait until you find someone you really like. dont waste your first kiss on someone just because you dont want people to think you are prude. you can never get your first kiss back so dont waste it

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XoXoLizabefXoXo answered Sunday March 27 2005, 7:12 pm:
no! kiss someone that you really like dont waste you first kiss on some lousy guy you dont like at all! you want your first kiss to be good and memorable. becasue you will remeber for a life time! just trust me!-liz/feedback

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lorelei answered Sunday March 27 2005, 7:09 pm:
Men are assholes. They say things like that because they have no concept of a really important feminine value...self-respect.

Don't listen to them at all. Do what's comfortable for YOU!

♥ Lorelei

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LiSaxOBaBii answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:39 pm:
Forget him, if he's gunna go around name calling he's way too imature for you.A kiss is something that should be special.Especially your first kiss.I say, save that kiss for a guy that's worth it and not someone who doesn't have respect for you.

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MissAmy answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:31 pm:
Wait for the perfect moment, of course.
He's probably just mad because you won't kiss HIM.
Besides, you can't go around making out with everyone...STDs aren't reserved for just sex!

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redxroses answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:27 pm:
You should wait for the perfect moment and guy, because you might regret it later. =D

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knoxcheer answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:26 pm:
yea wait for the guy dont care what that guy think he just probably mad becasue he didnt wait for the right moment !! good luck

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:26 pm:
oh course not! keep your pride! i waited nd i just ignored what other people said. After patiently waiting, the perfect guy at the perfect moment gave me my first kiss. maybe he could just like you and want you to just kiss him lol xO ali

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XOCaliHereWeComeKayXO answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:19 pm:
hey i say you dont listen to them and it's your choice if your waiting for that perfect guy and the perfect moment just tell those guys why do you care if im waiting for the right guy cuz dont you think i would have kissed someone already if i found him? my right guy is obviously not you so back off or soemthing like that but it's your desicion i hope i helped feedback please-KaYyLa

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passionatewolf answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:18 pm:
You show that you respect yourself by wanting to wait for the right person, the right time, don't rush. When you find that special someone your wait will be worth it, and they also will be willing to wait. Anyone not willing to wait for you to be ready is not truely intrested in you, but more what they can get from you.

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xosweetiepiexo answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:18 pm:
you should definetly wait ... no one should wanna just waste their first kiss.. you have your own opinion so don't let any1 call you a prude... cauz in the end... they'll regret that their first kiss stunk and yours was perfect

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TR0PiCALX3 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:15 pm:
I think you should wait for the perfect guy and the perfect moment. If you rush yourself you'll probably regret it as an adult. But, thats just my opinion..Hope I helped! ♥

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hopelessnlove answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:15 pm:
your still young...wait for the perfect kiss...i didnt and i still regret it!!

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Sherry answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:14 pm:
Yes, you should wait for the perfect moment. Your not prude! You just dont wanna be an easy slut. Which I give madd propz for that! Just tell him your not the kinda girl to give things away like that. A first kiss should be special and with someone you really like! Not someone completly random!

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Karen answered Sunday March 27 2005, 6:12 pm:
You should keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy when it comes to your first kiss. Your first kiss is something that you will always remember and you don't want to kiss someone just to get it over with. If you want, then you can, no one is stopping you. You're only 14, there are going to be so many other chances to kiss a guy so don't worry.
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