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Q: so im having a sweet 16 and im inviting 64 girrls...but only 40 guys or something like that. a lot of those guys are guys i dont talk with often so im guessing more guys (like 20 ) wont show up. should i invite other guys just so i have a good amount of guys at the party?

If you don't talk to them much, they might not show up, so Iid suggest inviting some more guys, just to be safe.

Q: where are some good places where i can download music onto my laptop?(it doesnt have to be free)and how does this work? if i want to listen to downloaded songs do i have to go on the website or do i not have to be on the internet? im asking because for my sweet 16 im thinking of doing the music from my laptop. is it continuous play or do i have to manually click the song? can i plug big speakers into the laptop? thank you for your help...5's to everyone somewhat helpful

To download music to your laptop I suggest iTunes. It's $0.99 per song, and they have virtually any song you would want. For free songs I'd suggest Limewire. To download them you will have to be on the internet, but once they are downloaded you won't have to. You could also download music with Limewire and play it on iTunes. In iTunes you can also create a playlist to play the songs you want continuously, or use the smartplaylist and party mix features. Party mix will randomly pick songs from the iTunes library and play them, you can also remove any upcoming songs that you do not want to play. Or choose a certain song you do want to play. And you can get speakers depending on what type of laptop you have. Hope I helped. :-)

Q: Do you know how you can get a website for free?? MY friends all are telling me to get a website but I don't know how!! I would love if you could give me some ideas on what type of website (other than xanga and piczo...). Thankx so much!! mAdDiE age 15

To make a free website try geocities.com or myspace.com.

Q: Today i really have to go to my grandmothers becasue their are some people that i want to see who live across the street from her. The only thing is my mom wont go anywhere today and the big problem is she doesnt want me hanging out over there. What can i do to convince her to go today right now?

Tell her you want to visit your grandmother and/or stay the night. Ask if you can get a ride or call another family member up and ask them to bring you. If you have no one to take you, I'm assuming its too far to walk, so maybe you can take a cab or a bus. But that might be expensive and your mom might not let you. I really don't have any other suggestions, but I hope I helped.

Q: Hey. Today is my friend's b-day. He's turning 16, and we've been friends for about 12 or so years. (yeah, it's a lot lol) Well, I kind of don't know what to get him. I'm not sure what he likes. My friend and I have this suggestion. There is a pic of me and him when we were about 4, and since I have doubles, we were thinking about getting a nice picture frame to put it in. Is that a good idea? I'm pretty sure he's the kind of type who would think it's cute. He's kind of a ladies man lol. Do you have any other suggestions? Thanks.
x3 Erin

I think that's a great idea, or you could try making a scrapbook. Also try buying a disposable camera and going ut and doing something with him and a few friends, and take pictures. Get them developed, and make a pig poster with all the pictures on it, sort of like a collage but a big one. Or you could make copies of any pictures you have now and do the same thing.

Q: is there a site where i can get free music and put it on a cd without downloading? because i only like certain songs from different bands so to buy the cd would be a waste so if you could help me out.. i would greatly appreciate it

No you can't really do that without downloading. But for something you have to download you can try Limewire or Kazza. I suggest Limewire. It usually won't harm your computer. Mine is fine, just be careful and it should be alright.

Q: im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin?

Every teenage guy jerks off and most look at porn too. Completely normal, don't be offended.

Q: ok, after everytime i masterbate, i feel really, really guilty...i wounder what my girlfriend would say if she had found out, i feel like it is a complete sin, and after everytime i do that, i feel that God punishes me, but he doesnt seem to punish other people i know do it... what should i think? is it ok, or should i try to stop?? HELP!!

Everyone masterbates, well at least A LOT of people do. Theres nothing wrong with it, and I'm sure God doesn't mind too much. If you think it's wrong, try to stop. But there's really nothing wrong with it.

Q: I wasnt really sure what to put this under, sorry. I need people to give me alot of ideas for fundraisers because my church is trying to raise money for our teen group to go to church camp. We need to make alot of money in a short amount of time. thank you very much.

Try having a car wash, if you charge about $10 a car and people now its for a good cause you'll probably be able to raise enough money, depending on how much you actually need.

Q: What kind of dog would you reccomend that is small and you don't have to worry much about its hair?

A Chiwaua or however you spell it.

Q: ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused

No that's only 1 year a difference, no big deal. I know a 14 year old girl who goes out with an 11 year old, now that's wrong.

Q: i'm 15/f. i was at my aunt/uncles house today. me & my cousin were in the basement. her dad came down to look at his cellphone, then went back upstairs. once he left, my cousin said "i think my dad is having an affair." she opened up the text messages on his cell & they were from the same woman. they said "yeah what we're doing is so wrong i hope no one finds out" etc. my aunt & uncle have always had marriage problems, but as of now, me and my cousin are the only ones who knows about his affair. I asked my cousin if she's going to tell her mom and she said "NO WAY I'LL GET IN SO MUCH TROUBLE FOR LOOKING THRU HIS PHONE AND I DON'T WANT TO CAUSE ANY PROBLEMS!" She doesnt seem to care tho, but i'm so freaked out and my question is, what should i do, (should i do anything at all...?)

First off, make sure you're not jumping to conclusions. Really it's more of your cousins business but your's. But if you are postive that he is having an affair, your aunt needs to know. She might get hurt but it's better for her to know that to be keeping it from her. If you don't say something, you'll have this big secret on your conscience. In my opinion you should tell her and save her from a lot of pain now. She has to find out eventually. Or if you think your cousin will get mad and think your trying to break up the family or something try to persuade your cousin to tell her mom.

Q: Well, i was wondering. It's dumb. And gross. Whats cum??

It's seamen that comes out of a guys penis when he has an orgasm.

Q: I am a swimmer and I get most of my excersize. I was wondering how I could keep in shape when it's over. I don't have the money to go to the gym.

There's a lot of things you can do at home. Eat right, do cardio such as running. Do crunches, yoga, whatever interests you. Also try those workout band things there cheap and really effective.

Q: this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help.

For most people a kiss isn't really that big of a deal. I know the first girl I kissed I couldn't care less about her. But it seems like it is important to you. If you want it to be special wait for the right guy. You shouldn't just kiss someone if you don't even care about them. Wait for the right person. I know that I wish my first kiss wasn't with that girl.