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please help!!
ok, after everytime i masterbate, i feel really, really guilty...i wounder what my girlfriend would say if she had found out, i feel like it is a complete sin, and after everytime i do that, i feel that God punishes me, but he doesnt seem to punish other people i know do it... what should i think? is it ok, or should i try to stop?? HELP!!
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I think masturbating for guys is totally normal and natural, even if you're dating someone. There is nothing wrong with it and your girlfriend shouldnt have such a problem with that and neither should you because it's totally normal!
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masturbations is completely natural and there is nothing wrong with it.ps. your gf probably does it too
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wow you should not feel guilty at all there are so many people that do it that you would be surprised. and it is healthy for people to masturbate anyway. Don't stop you are not commiting a sin.
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okay WOW Stop Feeling guilty eberyone dose it you mom dad god even did it be glad you can do it for some it dont work but not alot you will go blind and if you got a girlfriend you should not have to! do you like your hand more or something?
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you know wut?!!! Gods not gunna punish you if you do that! I think he loves everyone even if you are a perv/freak that worries about things that are no problem! so if you want you could go goth and masterbate all day long and God will still love you!!! and if you don't believe that god loves everyone that is really kind of going non cristian or cathlic or any form of god believing religion!!!
MUAH
Miranda Potter!
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ok im a girl but i tlk to guys alot and mastebating is normal and all girls kno guys do it so you girl friend wont care one tim ei was talking to a boy friend and he was mastebating and it didnt bother me when he said he was. Its not a sin and if it was then every boy sins alot
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its supposed to be a private thing so i dunno how you think your g/f would find out. lol i think most girls would be ok with this. i really dont think God will punish you but i guess the guilt would. in society, its a very normal thing, its part of growing up and maturing. if i found out that my b/f does, then so be it, hes normal...the only way i would be mad is if hes beatin off to some1 else (eww). yeah, then things could get ugly. if you want to stop, then pray that god will help you. hope this helps! <3
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if you are scared or whatever it is or currious enough to ask, then you probably do regret it and waht to stop! :) your a smart kid! :)
well, i know that it is a sin, and just dont tell your girlfriend but if she asks you, tell her. uh.... pray to God for forgiveness because its a sin. and just try to stop, maybe not all at once because that will be real hard. try to gradually cut back on it! it should be real easy that way!
thanks for letting me help you!
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i know you've already gotten nearly 30 responses so i'm sure anything by now seems overwhelmingly redundant, but i felt i had something to add. A vast majority (though not all) of the postings you received gave you generalizations about how "everyone does it". who cares whether everyone does or if you're all alone? if you feel guilty, then don't do it. But there are medical benefits from masturbating, and your girlfriend would probably notice through your moods and behavior if you ever stopped, even if she didn't know what caused the change. Not having ever masturbated, or been a guy, i can't tell you whether or not you should stop, and what the effects will be of either decision. but i can tell you this, my boyfriend told me he masturbates a few months ago, and it didn't really bother me. i'd rather him do that than be an angry uptight jerk all the time because of sexual tension or...whatever. but if your girlfriend is helping to relieve some of that tension, and she doesn't feel like you need to masturbate because of what she's doing to help that situation, then not stopping is somewhat of a slap in the face saying "yeah...you're ok, but my hand's better." so, consider your individual situation...ignore whichever advice doesn't make you happy, including mine if that's the case...and do whatever you think is best. <3
*edit* i read deuteronomy 23:9-14 out of curiousity, while it does say a man should relieve himself, context clues (yay for third grade!) tell us that its referring to bodily wastes. (like peeing)...but good advice anyhow...er something. <3
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the Bible says that a man should releave himself. reffernce if u want to look it up is Deuoteronimy 23:9-14
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okay i think it is okay nd im sure ur g/f does it to if u trii to bring up see wat she says bout it
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there's nothing wrong with masturbation, i can almost guarante that she does it too
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Everyone masterbates, well at least A LOT of people do. Theres nothing wrong with it, and I'm sure God doesn't mind too much. If you think it's wrong, try to stop. But there's really nothing wrong with it.
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Well its your choice hun , but if you think god is punishing you , then ask for forgiveness.. its the way he FORGIVES you !! , hope i helped ♥Vic ,, if you have any questions , FEEL FREE TO ASK !!
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What is there to feel guilty about? Why would your g/f get mad? No its not a wet dream a wet dream is where,u have a sexual experieance* in your dream and u cum in your sleep.well umm. if u and your girlfriend arent doin it some1 has to. But if you want to stop.ask your girl if she'll do more sexual things with you.
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What you have to understand is that every guy masturbates- you are not the only one and it is not wrong. You don't have to tell your girlfriend if you don't want to and as long as you keep it private she won't find out.
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MAsturbation is totally normal. Healthy, even. If your girlfriend found out? She does it too. Everyone does. If you're sexually active with her and she found out, all for the better. She could find out what gets you going the most. It may 'not be your body, but God's.' But in my opinion (im not religious, by the way. ) God stuffed your soul into the bag of meat, so you can use it how you please. You won't go to frigging hell just for relieving yourself.
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It's okay. I masturbate all the time. In fact, I'm masturbating right now. You could try to stop but I bet you anything you won't succeed. I've tried, it doesn't work. Once you start, you are a slave to the devil's work and through your horny little actions you will be consumed by Satan and probably become the antichrist. So yeah, you're doomed to hell, buddy. I'll see you there. *finishes wanking*
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masterbating is NORMAL!! everyone does it...and people who dont admit to doin it...well they just suck...i mean damn its a totally natural thing...everyones gotta get off sum how...whether they are doin it or sum1 else is doin it for em..its natural....not a sin!
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ok..im a girl and im going to admit, i do it too. you're girlfriend would just probobly say it to your face that its gross but she probobly does it too so you shouldnt feel guilty..you wont go to hell for it lol.
hope i helped if you need any more advice you can ask* hope i helped
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michelle <3
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Statistically, more then 95% of people masturbate or have masturbated. You are not in a minority here, your hormones are going wild and you feel the need to relieve them. Don't let people tell you that you should feel guilty when they aren't angels either.
Also, if you don't masturbate, you body actually builds up the excess and will excrete it in your sleep (which is yes, a wet dream) and you can't control that. Wouldn't you rather have control over when you excrete then having to secretly change your sheets in the morning so your mom doesn't see?
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um, you SHOULD feel guilty! that's cheating! and yes you should try to stop. i personally think you should tell her and ask for her forgiveness. and God probably does punish other people, just in different ways. hope i helped!
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It is simply a way to regulate hormones in your bloodstream, if too much androgen builds up, then you become a creepy little bastard eager for any form of sex. i would reccomend your continued masturbation, as this may very well keep you from making a bad choice, like sleeping with an ugly girl.
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listen you punk ass bitch quit being such a girl and just tell because it's a perfectly normal thing
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Jesus christ man...are you like high on PCP or some shit??? you think god punishes you for masturbating what the fuck is wrong with you??? also you don't tell people that you masturbate its kind of like a private thing you know??? and for the love of god man get urself fucking laid, and get some like professional help man see a damn psychiatrist or something..cause your fucking crazy
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Isn't it a lot like a wet dream? Not really. I'd hate to break this to you kid, but know one (probably not even God, though I can't speak for him)wants to know what you do, nor do they care. Do what you want. If it makes you feel guilty, knock it off. It's really all about what you think.
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It is perfectly normal. Stop beating yourself up about it. No need to tell girlfriend, it is a private thing. :)
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It's a natural part of being male. It causes certain chemical reactions in your body that keep you happier and healthier. Try not to feel too bad about it, because, as long as you aren't doing it 20 times a day, it is a perfectly natural thing.
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OK - lets get rid of the word 'Sin' and the rest of the religious trash. I'm not having a go I'm just not the most Christian of people, I'm a white witch. The answer to the question 'is it wrong to masturbate' is NO! Unfortunately your religion has taught you to carry a lot of guilt - drop the guilt and don't worry. What you are doing is something EVERYBODY does / has done, is perfectly normal and nothing to feel bad about. Derfel xx
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It is not a sin. Most guys do it. If she found out, she would think you are a normal guy. You have nothing to worry about. xO ali
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hey...dont worry about it! masterbation's normal..and gods not gonna punish you for it..everyone does it..well alot of people do anyways..so i guess just keep doin it and enjoy it if you're gonna do it =)
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