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Hymens and Virginity
I'm almost 35 years old, and I've never had a sexual relation, therefore I'm a virgin.
However, I'm not sure if I might have already ruptured my hymen.
Because when I was 17, I was once exercizing (quite moderatly), and all of a sudden I felt something rupturing.
It didn't hurt AT ALL...
I just felt something going through my vagina...
I can't tell if I bled because of this, since I was in my period.
(But there was a piece of unknown matter to me on the sanitary towel...)
So, I would like to know if this might have corresponded to the rupture of the hymen, and if I might bleed if I ever have sex.
(Furthermore, I've been a victim of some serious calumnies in the past, and I would be glad if I could prove my virginity if I ever have sex with a man...)
Thank you very much for your reply.
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This is an odd question. You realize that I am younger than you and I`m not even a virgin anymore? You are 35, go out and enjoy the world you`re too old to be worrying about this stuff, this is kiddie things!! Go relieve your stress!!!
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dude have sex your like 35 thats old and sad you should already b a mom by now go do it wit sum1 GOD youll love it...
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Thank-You Soo Much, At last not one women who had sex when she was 15!!! You should be very well pleased with yourself. You are one of few.... GOD BLESS YOU YOUR MY HERO!!!
-Xo-Meg-oX-
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Your hymen can break without you even knowing and sometimes you cant even tell. It can break just from going cycling or riding a horse. If you have ever used a tampon during your period then it will have broken. It is pretty likely, being 35, that is has broken. Proving your virginity with somebody-there is no physical way to tell if someone has lost their virginity or not, and when you decide to have sex let him know. I hope I have helped a little, let me know if there is anything else I can help you with
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OMG. a 35 yr old virgin. anyways um yea it could have been your hymen. And a womens hymen being broken doesn't inform someone of he virginity.
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go fuck someone!!!!!
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Your hymen can break while exercising, you're quite right about that. If that was the case, however, you should not have felt any sort of rupture. And if nothing was in your vagina, again, that sensation of something being in your vagina was probably not related to your hymen.
I will say that hymens, when unbroken, start to naturally disintegrate in the mid-teens. It's not uncommon for a 19 year old virgin to have no real hymen left. Chances are that you've not got the idealized version of a hymen - a tightly stretched piece of skin that will 'pop' when you have sex. This isn't reality at all.
As for proving your virginity, if you decide to have sex, have it with a man who would need no proof other than your word. If your partner does not trust you, then he's probably not the best person to sleep with.
Finally, I will point out that you need to be having regular appointments with a gyno. Regardless of whether or not your've had sex, there are still tests that will be done to detect cervical cancer and other problems with your reproductive organs. These tests should be done yearly, and that time will give you a good opportunity to ask a specialist any questions you may have about your sexual health.
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Icey0990 realy got this one down. Go Icey ;)
Chances are that unknown matter was the hymen after being ruptured. If you ever have sex, you won't bleed, because it's already been ruptured! If you still aren't sure, you can see your Ob/Gyn about it and ask them.
The hymen is practically /the/ way for a guy to tell if a woman is a virgin is the see if during intercourse, they break the hymen. Other than that, they just have to have faith. If they don't, send em out.... Guys, I think, the only way to tell if we're virgins, is to see how uncertain we are the first time in bed, eyh? :P
♥EJ(ST)
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OK, it sounds like yes you might have ruptured your hymen. To be sure, the only way to check being that you cant check for bleeding of course, is to feel over there . See if you can feel a piece of skin stretching over the vagina. Its not very big..but if you feel down there and there is nothing, then you definately ruptured it.
As for the second part, if there is no hymen and its gone because its ruptured, there is no way to prove your a virgin. That piece of skin is your proof that your a virgin. But then again, there is no way to tell if a guy has had sex. The guy yyou lose your virginity to will have to believe you when you say your a virgin. IF he doesnt, then he isnt worth giving it up to.
i mean there is always a lie detector test..but if it comes to that point, where is the trust in the relationship?
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