I'm 30, look like I'm still in my 20's, single again for the first time in 5 years and enjoying it. I have a wealth of life experience, and have been through alot. I am very diverse, I have survived on the streets and brought myself to a great career.
E-mail: passionate_wolf@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: New Mexico
Occupation: Area Manager
Age: 30
MSN: passionate_wolf
Member Since: March 27, 2005
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im petrified of dying,evry time i think about it i have butterflys in my stomach and i feel sick. i usally think about it wen im about to go to bed then i carnt sleep.how can i stop feeling so scared of dying?i dont wana see a therepyst.is this normal?
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It is perfectly normal to be scared of dying. I don't know what your beliefs are, I'm not religious but I am spiritual. That time will come for all of us, and we don't know when, live your life to be the best person you can, and realize that when that time comes, you have been a good person, and in the end you are brought peace.
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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help. (link)
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You show that you respect yourself by wanting to wait for the right person, the right time, don't rush. When you find that special someone your wait will be worth it, and they also will be willing to wait. Anyone not willing to wait for you to be ready is not truely intrested in you, but more what they can get from you.
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At school I sometimes feel I am too mean. I joke a lot but lately I have been feeling like the jokes are too mean. I don't want people to be insecure about themselves around me. If my friends and I joke around I'll say something a bit harsh and I'll feel like I hurt the person's feelings. Even if I say "Oh, but that joke doesn't work because you're skinny," or something I still feel bad.
Now, don't get me wrong. I am not a mean or horrible person. I am very caring and kind. I just feel I can sometimes get too witty and make a rude, unkind joke. Can someone just help me try and be less mean? Thank you. (link)
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First step, if you have said something that you think offended or hurt someone apologize immediately, thier response to your apology may let you know if you did go too far.
Second step, it takes 2 weeks to make a habit, to help you think and avoid slipping, if a joke comes to mind, take a deep breath, this will make you pause and think, you will really have to pay close attention to this the first couple of weeks to make it work, but after you get used to it you should be better able to avoid slips
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I can't take this anymore! I'm suppose to be going on a cruise with my cousin and we really don't get along! We just got into another fight because she thinks that she is better than me! Don't tell me to "talk to her and tell her how you feel!" She always thinks that she knows more than me..maybe because she's older?? Also, if she can't get her way, she automatically gets pissed at me...I rate high if you don't give me crappy advice.. (link)
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On the upside of going on a cruise is the ships are huge and there is alot to do so you don't have to sit there with your cousin. Unfortunately there are people out there that think they are better than everyone else, you can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends. I don't know if she tries to help you by sharing her experience because she is older, leading you to think she acts like she knows more?? She may just be a brat and not worth your time...
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