I don't know why, but it seems like my friends always seek ME for advice on pretty much everything. I can't do anything for my own life, but apparently I do well helping out others.
I try to do serious requests as much as I can, but silly questions in need of silly answers are fun, too :D
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I've always had this question. If you put a plant in a microwave will it grow larger or faster? (link)
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Actually, it'll do the complete opposite. You will KILL it.
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What do you do if you find yourself more and more each day, liking a guy who does not believe in God? I am a christian and I have my morals, standards and beliefs and he doesn't meet my number one standard which is believeing in God and having a relationship with him but, on the other hand, I am so drawn to him I can't help it.He's a really great guy but should we just stay friends and nothing more? (link)
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If the situation was reversed - Would you want him to give up on you on the sole reason that you are of a different faith than he is? If the answer is no, that you would feel hurt, then you should definitely give him a try.
Just because he is an athiest does NOT mean that he doesn't have morals, standards, or beliefs.
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does it look silly to wear a pink and white tank top with juicy couture ivy league pants and light pink ugg boots if its like brisk spring weather? thnx! (link)
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Nah. I'd lay off of the Uggs, though. They look like snowboots, and will probably give you a wintery image, and would look odd with a tank top.
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I got my prom dress todaii and its strapless...do you think it would look better to have my hair in an updo or styled down? (link)
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In my opinion, putting your hair up is best because it brings attention to your shoulders -which is probably what you want, since you went for a strapless- and makes you look more elegant and graceful. It will also be better for an updo if you are planning on wearing earrings and/or a necklace.
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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
will rate (link)
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You could try using a different shampoo.
Like, I use Dove and I have to wash my hair everyday or it'll look greasy...but when I use White Rain, I can go a day without washing.
I also once read in a magazine that if you sprinkle some baby powder throughout your hair (just a little, not enough for a colonial wig) it reduces the obvious grease shine.
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HOKAYZ SO LYK WAT KEN I UZ TA MAK MII HURR SOFTTZ AND UN PURDY AH DA END OF DA DAY WHEN I SEEZ MII bFZ?!
k, just kidding.
Are there any like, homemade things that I can use so that my hair will stay soft and untangly all through the day? =/
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MAYB U SHULD JUS KEEP A BAG OVERRR YO HED YA TRIFLIN HOBAG!!!!!
Muahaha, I love you morrrrre.
I researched:
http://www.pioneerthinking.com/conditioner1.html
http://www.kidzworld.com/site/p3939.htm
http://www.longlocks.com/hair-care-recipes-cookbook.htm
http://www.stretcher.com/stories/01/010212b.cfm
http://beauty.about.com/cs/haircarerecipes/qt/mouthwash_rinse.htm
Some of their ideas sound really wack, but I bet they work
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hey, im meeting with my girlfriend today, and prolly a few other friends, what are ideas that we could do outside, like putt putt or somthing, im up for anything! (link)
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Picnics are always fun, and they don't always have to be the standard romantic-episode-complete-with-a-basket, either! My friends and I usually raid leftovers from our houses and all come together and sit around on a blanket, eating and having a good time.
Playgrounds are fun, too. Or you could walk around outside your neighborhood to places you've never been before, get lost on purpose, and try to find your way back home. It sounds really stupid, but it can be really enjoyable =)
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ok, well i'm an 8th grade girl and i really like this 7th grade guy, and he asked me out and i said yes, but i'm wondering if that's weird or not.. idk, i'm just confused, please help me!
~mandy (link)
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Definitely not!
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well i've decided that im getting certain dri, because of my problem,if its obvious.i just dont know how to tell my mom, i know its not that hard and i shouldnt be embarrased but i just cant for some reason.can you please tell me a way to tell my mom? (link)
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I use that stuff, it's fabulous! Just tell her casually, or don't even tell her at all. You can get it OTC for about $7. She really probably won't even think anything of it...a lot more people use it than you think.
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thongs are like really in and i was wondering if anyone who has used one can give my pros and cons of wearing them since at this rate i'll never where one myself (link)
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Thongs really aren't "in" anymore...boyshorts are. If you want to be trendy and remain at peace with your mother, definitely get some boyshorts instead. They're cute, comfortable, and like most thongs, they get rid of the pantyline problemo.
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I live in Georgia and around where I live the gas prices have gone up so much in only a few week. The cheapest I have seen near me is $2.06 and thats if I go out of my way to get it. The gas station closest is like $2.10. I am in school and don't have a job, I am looking but it's hard to find a part time job. Does anyone know when the gas prices should start to go down or if they are going to go up...?
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Unfortunately, they're probably going to increase at a steady rate =/
You may want to check this out: http://frugalliving.about.com/cs/savinggas/a/savegas.htm
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My mom smokes, and I get second hand smoke from her, obviously.. When you're around someone who is smoking pot.. If you get the second hand from that.. And then have to have a drug test for like sports at school or something.. Will it show up as you smoked pot, even though you didn't, and it was just second hand??? (link)
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I'm quite sure that you have nothing to worry about, unless you're constantly leaning into her and inhaling every bit that you can manage =)
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im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help! (link)
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Well. I'm going to be honest as kindly as I can.
...You called your FRIEND ugly, you put her down, and it seems like you think that outer appearance has everything to do with dating. Maybe, just MAYBE, you need an attitude adjustment, especially in the rules of being a friend department.
Please realize that you're also only 13 years old; most 13 year olds haven't even entered the dating zone yet and you have LOTS of time. Stay young and innocent while you still can. Seriously.
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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If you don't feel as if you are 101% ready, then DON'T. I'm not trying to preach, but five month old relationships in high school really aren't too promising. If you have ANY doubts in your mind, then you are clearly not ready for this type of committment - which isn't necessarily a bad thing.
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How should i go about asking a gy i really like back out? It's been about 2 years since we went out. (link)
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If you haven't really been keeping in touch with him that much, I suggest that you try little things to make you closer and closer, especially with frequent hangouts and such.
If you're close to him and ready to go, try acting as if you already are going back out (minus the obvious makeout sessions) and hopefully he'll catch the vibe and his body language will show if he approves. While taking the plunge to ask the big question, first ask him how he feels about you; if he'd give you a second chance. Drop little lines about how you miss him, how he was the best you ever had, etc etc.
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Amy, can you tell me how much you love me? (link)
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"I would die for you
I would kill for you
I will steal for you
I'd do time for you
I would wait for you
I'd make room for you
I'd sail ships for you
To be close to you
To be a part of you
'Cause I believe in you
I believe in you
I would die for you"
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Give me some insight on how to not feel so shitty when I break up with my boyfriend whom I love. =(
and also give me advice how to stop bawling.
k watching jawbreakers now but ANSWER. (link)
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=(
-Bubblebaths
-Naps with soothing music
-Shopping (new stuff always boosts moods, woohoo!)
Maybe tomorrow you should try to get together with him so you guys can talk about it?
iloveyouuu
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Why is that you when you're there for people they can NEVER be there for you? I mean honestly, I know your life is busy, but I listen to your problems, why can't you be nice and listen to mine and actually try to help?
I also have a friend who calls all the time to talk about her problems, wants me to do her hair/make up for prom, but never calls me to hang out. Wtf? (link)
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It looks like YOU are going to have to do the stepping in to get through to this apparently somewhat self-absorbed friend. The next time she gives you half a second to speak, jump in and suggest a movie or a mall trip; and if she says she can't make it, try to shoot for a later time.
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this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help. (link)
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Wait for the perfect moment, of course.
He's probably just mad because you won't kiss HIM.
Besides, you can't go around making out with everyone...STDs aren't reserved for just sex!
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Ok, so theres this kid that says he likes me. He talks about to my friends like 24/7. He won't ask me out. What's he waiting for? What's he afraid of? Should I make the first move and ask him out? We already made out like 12 times but never dated. HELP ME PLEASE!!! ty (link)
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Most likely, he's too shy to make the first move, even if he doesn't act shy.
If you're brave and willing to make the first move, go for it! There really isn't much to lose.
Or, you can get a friend involved and make him/her do the talking, since apparently your admirerer is comfortable and chummy with them already.
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