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HELP!
im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
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omg... why would you sae that about ur friend? well.. no offence hun.. but if i were a guy.. i wouldnt care if you were the hottest thyng ive eveerrr seen.. i would NEVERRR even talk to you.. you sound like a stuck up little... girl.. and you need to grow up.. and.. believe it or not.. you can be gorgeous.. but if you act like that.. youll never get a boyfriend!
sorry hun.. but.. its tru
:) andie
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who cares if you have a bf? u have plenty of time for that! live day by day and have fun and just see what happens! who cares about guys? and as far as your friend goes...i dont think she would apprectiate you saying that about her...and if you havent noticed guys also look at your PERSONALITY!
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omg thats such a mean thing to say to your friend. =o(
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some people are blessed with beauty on the inside and some are blessed with beauty on the outside. some people arent blessed at all! at least you got one side of the deal....always look at the bright side!
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This might get me a low rating but o well. Who gives a fu*k !
You are conceded and so full of yourself! Im not trying to be mean or anything but what the he*l! Not all guys go for looks they also look for personality also. You will find the right guy. Meet other guys then the ones you already know. Why are you talking about your friend like that? She is yourfriend and thats just ignorant for you to say that. She might not be as pretty or w/e as you but ugly girls are easier to do stuff with. That what most guys say. They dont go out with them just because they are ugly they want something. Sorry if I was mean but dont say that sh*t about people like that and no one is perfect no matter what you think. x0
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Looks aren't everything. Personality and what you have in common with someone matters too. And who are you to say your friend is "really really unattractive" and ugly? Don't be so conceited, and try to actually find something in common with a guy. Getting a boyfriend will happen in time, just be patient.
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(1) FUCK YOU! im not a fucking bitch! your a bitch how about you go fuck your mother! i dont act like this im just sad about being lonley! i am not dissing my best friend shes actually not that ugly, i just exaggerate! so....why dont you go kill yourself and havea nice day!
That's the feedback you left my friend, Renata. (xglam0urx) See, and this is why you dont have a boyfriend, girl. You're so immature. WHo the hell tells some to go kill themselves, and 'go fxck ur mother?" thats so old girl. I for one, am a guy. I know some guys go for looks, but nowadays personality is more important. And by the way, you're 13, youre still going thru puberty. dont talk shit about your own friends, what goes around comes aroun karma. and other girls are probably NICE and SMART thats why they have boyfriends, you, on the other hand, have a lot to learn. stay in school kiddo.
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wow you are a bitch...that is probably why you dont have a boyfriend!!!!!
Most real guys dont date you because you look good...they date you if yall can get along and have common interests...
you havent had a boyfriend because you are mean and conceited and guys dont like that...unless you can get over these facts then you will never have a boyfriend because if they know you at all they know what you are like....rude, mean, conceited, cocky...which are all turn offs!!!!
and you say this girl is your friend and yet you say so much shit about her...maybe guys like her because she is nice and doesnt make fun of her friends.
I dont really give a shit on what you rate me because i am speaking the truth and people know it...the people that answered nice to you only want good ratings but i dont care!!
you are a bitch and i would feel very sorry for anyone who had to go out with you!!
Sarah
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This is why i hate skinny lil blonde barbie bitches.. ha ha funny i thought.. and you can think of me as a big bitch or whatever i could really care less.. but yea guys dont jus go for lil cocky bitches with bad ass attitudes that are stuck on there fuckin looks.. yea looks are always good but so is a fuckin attitude.. well girl your only 13 too sounds like you arent ready for a relationship anyways sounds like your jus going to be picky anyways since you dont like ugly people.. some of the ugly people actually have better personality and arent dicks like some guys.. sorry for tellin you some real shit so go cry now.. Much luv dez x0x0
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Um.. beauty is more than skin deep! You may be a barbie clone, but if you lack a good personality and good loving soul, you don't have anything. And, The "ugly girls" they arent attractive, or popular, but they aren't single...like you.
Sorry to be harsh..it's nothing personal... it's just i'm sick of all the pretty people getting relationships. and then complaining
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Im just gonna say what i said to the other people who are full of themselves.. THEY DONT LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE FULL OF YOURSELF!! Quote "Im 13, 5'1" 128lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want!!" YOU PRISSY DUCKSUCKER!
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Whoa first of all thats kinda harsh..its not all on the outside either maybe you need an attitude adjustment..guys like a girl with a good personality too. So just stop thinking all about your looks!
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You need to face the fact that guys only go for "ugly" girls because they are easy and they can get them to do stuff with them which is bad, in my opinion. You need to think positive about yourself because one day, a guy will like you for you and having confidence is something that all guys love. If you think your friend is unattractive then you are probably pretty and just start realizing that. You probably hear this all the time but you're only 13 years old, you have your whole life to get a boyfriend and there are 18 year old girls who still haven't had a boyfriend. Don't worry about it, you will get a boyfriend.
-Karen
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i really dont care how low you rate me on this. but sweetie, you just answered your own question. the way you can just treast a friend so poorly and to talk about her behind her is just so dreadfully horrible. if any guy knew you did that baout your friends, why would they want to haveyou as a girlfriend. xO ali
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That was a totally mean thing to say about your friend! How would you feel if she said the same thing about you? And maybe you should take a look at what you just wrote and then see why guys don't like you. Your personality isn't the greatest. Despite what some of the most shallow guys in the world say, guys do like a girl with a good personality, too. Someday you'll have a boyfriend, you just have to wait. Some of the best things in life are worth waiting for so slow it down.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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If I was 15.. or you were 15.. I'd go out with you >.> But too bad im 17.. that makes you WAY too young for me.. sorry
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most guys go for the personality and not the looks. So thats probly why your friend has boyfriedns and you dont. I htink it is rude for you to say that about your friend too. If you want to change all that, then flirt with guys more and talk to them more and let alot of guys get to know you, and then maybe someone will ask you out soon. hope this helped.
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your a fxcking bad friend. go die. and i hate you already. no wonder no guys like you. your a fxcking bitch. 128?? DUDE YOUR FAT! 5'1 your short. yeah go stand in front of a train or something.
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ha wow i fell the same way about one of my other friends. just answer this for me
1. do you flirt? somethimes thats the key to a guyy liking you. if you are just all uptight about being with a guyy and are more comfortable with your friends he'll think your shy. just be more outgoing and all. im the EXACT way. good luck!
~natt~
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Well. I'm going to be honest as kindly as I can.
...You called your FRIEND ugly, you put her down, and it seems like you think that outer appearance has everything to do with dating. Maybe, just MAYBE, you need an attitude adjustment, especially in the rules of being a friend department.
Please realize that you're also only 13 years old; most 13 year olds haven't even entered the dating zone yet and you have LOTS of time. Stay young and innocent while you still can. Seriously.
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This is a little rough. Its really bad that you would say all those bad things about your friend. Some guys truly do look for personality over looks. You sound like you may be too secure with yourself, which can be a major turnoff to some guys. I wouldnt downplay others and why she has a boyfriend and you dont. Just be happy that she has a boyfriend. I wouldnt worry tho, the right guy will come along sometime unexpected~ Just dont spend your time wondering why you cant get a boyfriend, and have fun!
♥Emily
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well maybe some people dont like your personality.. and that maybe they think your concided because you think that your friend is unattractive.. the guys prolly go for her because of whats on the inside....try and be nice and not try so hard.. your time will come
Hope I helped
Jamie
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you might not like this, but you just have to wait. the right guy will come at the right time.
i hope i helped.
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Maybe they are looking for a good petrsonality and not what's on the outside. (not trying to be mean). Please rate.
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Well, maybe it's time that you ask a guy you like out. That is what I would do. they might not like your personality though I don't know but that might be it. Some guys don't really care about your apperience they care about the person inside. Some don't like the outside like uglyness but the inside is what they fell in love with. Hope I helped I am always here if you need me. ~Chrissie
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Hey, look guys just go for those ugly girls because their easy to do stuff with. You are pretty and you'll find someone that will like you for you and everything. Your just so young and still have plenty of time to have lots of boyfriends and stuff. just wait it out and one day, when you least expect it..you'll have a boyfriend you deserve and love. So for now, flirt like crazy and have fun :) good luck!
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