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hey!!! i am here because i really just want to help people out with their problems. i think everyones main goal should be just to live life to its fullest! so... if you have any questions i would love to help out and give you my advice.
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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?
1 word: cucumbers.
ok im 13/f and i dont know if im bi or not cuz like sometime si catch myself wanting to "do" things with girls and like i think gurls bodies are cute or "hot" and when i was 12 a girl hit on me went to kiss me and i DIDNT back away...please i dont know if im a lesbien or if girls are just like this please help me i rate REALLY high..thanks so much!
Yeah, lesbians are hot. A+
me and my freinds have been discussing having sex and what it feels like. NOT that any of us have had it. and than my freind who is a lesbian asks how will she be able to have sex with the same sex. i mean neither girl has a THING. and now my freinds only want to talk about sex. i mean we are 13 hello. just so you know i am not in a slutty group or whatever. these are just my really close freinds from elem. i mean it is REALLY gross. all they want to talk about is what an orgasam feels like. i mean not that i am not curious, but talking about it in school.
Sex is good - Do it as much as you can, extra points if you do it with a hobo.
lately my gf has been having stomach aches that she has never had b4. we had safe sex and i rarely bust while im in her. i think she might have a strain..wat else could it b?
Quit touching yourself at night.
me and my boyfrend have been going out for 2 months and anytime we kiss i feel an urge to jump ontop of him is that normal
No. You're a freak.
were can you find really cute bedsets for a teenage girl? ((bedsets as in comforters?)) please help!
PB Teen is like the best place ever!!!! Pottery Barn for Teens has the cutest things....just go to potterybarn.com and there will be a section for teens. my whole room is decorated with its stuff...i hope you find what your looking for!!!
Ok well i like this guy and he told my friend that he has feelings for me last night, but then today he told her taht we were "just friends" and i respect that. Should i try to move on, or jsut let it go?
pls help!!
confused, 14, female
i think if you like someone you should keep going for it! he seems like he is confused whether he likes you or not because he says he does then out of no where he doesnt. boys are confusing!!! just keep talking to him, drop hints every once in awhile...i think you will get him if you keep on trying! i hope you tell me how everything goes!!!!
ok....i REALLY liked this guy....maybe not like... i think i even loved him... and he said that he might of gone out with me if he would of known me better... so we were getting to "know" eachother and the next day....he got another girlfriend........ i have never been so heartbroken in my entire life...i cant stop thinking about him...before i go to bed...i always think of him....i cant move on...its so hard....please help
it is always hard to get over the guy you really like.....especially if he gave you hope like he did. i say that you just forget about him and move on...even though i know it will be hard. i am sure that you deserve better!!!! actually i know you deserve better!!!! i know i didnt help much but i hope everything works out......get back on that horse!!! ♥
lol its maddie. i saw duckys thing and im like "thats fucking awesome i wanna say hi too!!" lol this is so cool! i want an advice column, but id probably suck lol. so are you psyched about camp! i am! we are definetly gonna be in the same cabin! no doubt about it!
i love you and ducky!
~mads
maddie maddie maddie.....many memories. i am sooo excited about camp!!!! we are all going to be in the same cabin....with weird girls who think that school sucks and soo does their life! man i just loved last years cabin!!! this year i wont put a love letter in my pillow....i also wont steal your pillow, as long as you dont steal my dog! i miss you soooo much!!!! i cant wait....
ok so basicly i have a bf hes cute and all the guys love him and stuff but he like dosent talk to me and all his friends just say hes nervous so im always like ya know what screw it ill dump him this isnt working but whenever i see him im like ahh i cant do it. i just cant dump him...im just like bad at dumping ppl. i think it may be because i just want a bf just not him . ok so how do i dump him. i mean we barley even talk regularyly i cant imagine what breaking up will be like
its really hard when you are going out with a shy guy...you just have to make sure that in your heart you dont have feelings for him anymore. if you dont, then you should break up with him like you said. if it is hard to break up with him in person then you should call him or im him. tell him that he isn't talking to you and that you would be better as friends. i know that you want a bf...(every girl does...even some guys do...gross!) just get out there and find someone who is not so shy and that hasmore of your personality. just dont rush into finding the perfect guy.... it will happen on its own. i really hope i helped!
hey court i dont actully have a prob but i just wntd to say how sweet this is and how wonderfull you are i love you so much and cant wait till camp!!HOPE ME YOU AND MADDIE ARE IN THE SAME CABIN!!!
xOxOxOxO*
dUcKY!
ducky i love you soo much!!!! i cant wait till camp either! we are going to be in the same cabin no matter what!!! never forget about our great times during siesta.....soo many memories and sooo many more to come!
do girls want guys to be all over them or just kinda ignor them ?
well every girl wants to be noticed by guys. but the only guys you should be worried about are the ones you like. some guys ignore you because they are nervous and they want you to take a stand first and the guys that are all over you are just more confident. if u like a guy you should worry about if they are all over you or not. if you dont like them...then just dont be worried about it and live life! hope i helped a little bit! ♥
im so sick of not having a bf. im 13, 5'1" 128 lbs. blonde perfect teeth, no braces. anything a guy would want! the thing is i have NEVER had a bf. my frend has and she is really really unattractive. she has hideous crooked yellow teeth and puffy frizzy hair. i dont mean to be mean but i really hate the fact that an ugly grl has had 7 bfs and i had none. please please help!
some people are blessed with beauty on the inside and some are blessed with beauty on the outside. some people arent blessed at all! at least you got one side of the deal....always look at the bright side!
ok well i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot we talk on line and sometimes on the phone (i always call him he never calls me) and at school we don't talk at all. i am his first girl friend he has ever had but i can't stand not talking to him. i want to talk to him at school but i'm shy and hes shy not good not good at all. i was just wondering what i should do? i rate high
it is hard when you are going out with someone who is shy. you should go up to him at school and just talk to him. of course it will be hard to get him to talk a lot back to you.... but if you do this sooner or later he will be more comfortable and he will start calling you! i hope i helped in some way!
I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55
i go to private school and my best friend goes to public. me and her still are best friends... but i also have a best friend at private school too. so i am kinda in your situation. i have learned that you can have more that one best friend! dont be worried that you have a new friend....your being blessed! i hope i helped a little!
Lulu* and I used to be SUCH great friends. Then Sam* became friends with me, and eventually Lulu too. We were like inseperable, until Sam and I got in a fight. Then Lulu was stuck in the middle. She would like have to " switch off " between Sam and I and I hated it. She would hang out with Sam more, because she didn't have any other frineds. I was talking to Lulu online and told her that i was jeolous. She told me to apologize Sam so we could all be friends again. So i did. The thing is, that even though we're still all friends again, Lulu still hangs out with Sam more!!! Something that really ticked me off was when Lulu told me that she was sleeping over at my house, and then canceled and slept over at Sams! I don't know what to do!! I really want it to be like old times. The thing that bothers me is that I think Lulu likes Sam more than me, but I'm angry because we were friends first!! Sam kinda like "stole" Lulu away from me. Help... I don't know what to do. Really complicated situation! Please help!!!!
Signed Jealous :(
i think you should just talk to Lulu because she is your friend and you really have to get this off your chest. you shouldnt be jealous though because like you said...she hangs out with Sam more because she doesnt have any other friends. at least you have a variety of friends! always look at the bright side! but you should talk to Lulu on this one...just ask her why she blows you off to hang out with Sam. also ask her if you and her are as good as friends as her and Sam. i really hope i helped because this sounds difficult. good luck!
I really like this guy and he likes me but we live really far away.. I want to tell him how I feel but I dont really know what to say.. I have a few ideas.. but if you could help that would be great!
well...this is a hard one. i think it will be hard to have a long distance relationship. but if you really like each other then you should go for it! you should just tell him the truth. ask him if he would be willing to try a long distance relationship. if he really likes you...how can he resist?! sorry i didnt have better advice...but i hope i helped!
I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house.
marriage is about honesty first. so you should get in there and tell him the truth. you should confront him about what you have been hearing. he'll understand you are just trying to be there for him and you are trying to help him because you love him! i hope everything works out! ♥
sorry if this is long, but there is this guy that i like and we used to go out. he now has a girlfriend but i dont care, i still like him. This one girl likes him, so someone asked if he would ever go out with her and he said no. but then this girl asked if he would ever go back out with me and he smiled nad said "umm .. i gotta get to class" so the next day the girl asked again and so he was like "umm .. i gotta girlfriend" so he didnt say yes or no. Do you htink i still have a chance?
i think he might still have feelings for you! but dont get to excited because he does have a girlfriend. if you like him but you dont want to ruin their relationship..you should just wait it out. but if you know you are meant to be together you have to get in there and get your man! i hope i helped!
ok...so i know this guy named "brownie" lol and he is soooo nice!we talk on the internet 24/ 7 to eachother and we say hi to eachother but it seems like i cant talk to him in person...i get all tonguetied...we go to diff. schools and he is one grade below me!!i also told him on the internet that i liked him...now im super embaressed!!!
first of all any guy named brownie is at the top of my list! just kidding...dont be embarrased about talking to him in person. i think you are just embarrased because you told him you liked him and its hard to see him with out remember that he knows you do. the more you talk to him the better it will get! i hope everything works out!