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I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house.
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Well sometimes after years of marriage things can get a little boring..try some new things..make plans to go places youve never been or do new things to excite things up a bit! but if theres any other problems yes u should talk to him
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Definitely talk to him!!! Your his wife so I'm sure you 2 can work things out. You guys have been married for 7 years and have 4 kids so definitely try to work things out. I'm sure everything will b fine. Your husband and you should be able to talk about anything, so I think that's exactly what you should do.
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marriage is about honesty first. so you should get in there and tell him the truth. you should confront him about what you have been hearing. he'll understand you are just trying to be there for him and you are trying to help him because you love him! i hope everything works out! ♥
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The best thing for you to do is talk to your husband. Let him know how you are feeling. Seven years is a long time to be married, (CONGRATULATIONS!), and sometimes romance and communication between spouses can come to a standstill. It is not just up to your husband to keep the spark in your relationship though. There are things that you can do to show him that you love him. One day, hire a babysitter to watch your children, and take your husband to a nice resturant. One that has a dress code or one where you and him can't wear jeans and a t-shirt too. When you talk to your husband, let him know that you feel as if he doesn't love you like he use to. Explain to him that you feel that your marriage is in a romantic rut and that you want to try something new to spice it up. Something new could be regular dinner dates, or days that you and him spend together alone on the couch cuddling and watching a movie. I am sure that with four children, things do get pretty hectic around the house and it could be hard for you and him to find alone time together. Therefor, you have to make a lone time with him. Communication is the key in any relationship. As long as you talk to him, you will maintain an open relationship with him.
I suggest that you talk to him on another day, a day different from your marriage talk, about what his coworker said. That way, he won't forget about the conversation about your marriage and focus all of his attention to the rumors that are going around about him. It is important that you tell him about the workplace rumors, so he can go to his job and get them to stop.
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Marriage like everything else has to worked on everyday. Put on the makeup for him,wear a sexy nightie etc. You also need to go out alone sometimes on 'dates'.Make special time for just the two of you. I know with 4 kids all that is going to be hard to do, just do what you can.
The most important thing in any relationship is to communicate with each other.Tell him your feelings and make him work on it with you.Trying to support a family as large as your today is a big job to have.I am sure he is under stress and if he communicates this to you then you'll be able to help him too.
As for the coworker, you might mention (no names if possible) the rumor he told you about so he can get the talk stopped at work.I wouldn't just assume it is true. He needs to know what is being said though.
Good luck.
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dont be a doormat, confront him and tell him what others have been saying and how you feel. remember, honesty is the best policy
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Sit him down and talk about it, im only 14 so ill try my best anyway, Tell him that you love him but you feel that your marriage isnt going as well as it was. Dont mention anything about stealing until you have told him everything about the relationship, Then when you do get to the stealing say that there has been some rumours and you were wondering if there true, even if they are you can still work through it because you have a great marriage and four children that you both love and look after.
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Well, you should approach it just like you'd approach any other problem ya'll have had in the last 7 years. Sit him down, tell him your feelings. Nothing gets better if it's always locked up inside. Let your feelings spill, be honest and respectful of his feelings too. Honesty is the first key in a relationship, and he should be honeset with you about what his co-worker said, and you should be just as honest with your feelings.
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