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Jealous
Lulu* and I used to be SUCH great friends. Then Sam* became friends with me, and eventually Lulu too. We were like inseperable, until Sam and I got in a fight. Then Lulu was stuck in the middle. She would like have to " switch off " between Sam and I and I hated it. She would hang out with Sam more, because she didn't have any other frineds. I was talking to Lulu online and told her that i was jeolous. She told me to apologize Sam so we could all be friends again. So i did. The thing is, that even though we're still all friends again, Lulu still hangs out with Sam more!!! Something that really ticked me off was when Lulu told me that she was sleeping over at my house, and then canceled and slept over at Sams! I don't know what to do!! I really want it to be like old times. The thing that bothers me is that I think Lulu likes Sam more than me, but I'm angry because we were friends first!! Sam kinda like "stole" Lulu away from me. Help... I don't know what to do. Really complicated situation! Please help!!!!
Signed Jealous :(
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i know how you feel! If i were you i would sit them both down and talk to them and jus tell them how you feel...Honesty always helps. And if they dont understand then they weren't your real friends in the first place. Oh and you should tell Lulu how you felt when she totally canceled her speep ova with u to go to sams house!!! wel, i hope i helped...keep me posted!
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i think you should just talk to Lulu because she is your friend and you really have to get this off your chest. you shouldnt be jealous though because like you said...she hangs out with Sam more because she doesnt have any other friends. at least you have a variety of friends! always look at the bright side! but you should talk to Lulu on this one...just ask her why she blows you off to hang out with Sam. also ask her if you and her are as good as friends as her and Sam. i really hope i helped because this sounds difficult. good luck!
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well, it sounds like maybe you like lulu more than sam, so maybe sam felt like you were stealing lulu from her, so she tried to have her more then you. or maybe you just need to find another friend to add to your 3, so you will always be a four-but your will also be 2 pairs. Don't try to hard or it will bother both of them, just go with the flow and don't be fake.
Jope i hwlp
-dorinflower55
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i know its hard but try talking to lulu again. tell her that it hurt when she ditched you and tell her that you want to be included more like old times. if this doesnt work try hanging out with sam one on one without lulu. maybe sam has something wrong that only lulu knows about so try getting to know sam more since you havent been friends for a while. if sam doesnt want to talk then just keep talking to lulu and telling her how you feel. good luck!
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