This guy and I were going out in the beginning of January and now we are just friends. We hang out as friends… but we do stuff like a couple would. He told me he got grounded from his truck and phone about four days ago. Today I was with him and he showed me his keys and when I asked where his phone was he said he won’t get it back till later. I was hanging with him this afternoon and reached in his pocket and found his phone. I got pissed and ran away with it and found out he had sent a message to another girl. I threw it at him when he came back and he told me that what he wrote in his advice column was true. (He wrote that he “hearted” me… which I guess means I love you/something of the sort) and then we texted during the next class. He said he was sorry and that that was the only thing he has ever lied about to me. I feel like he’s been with a lot of other chicks, but he told me he hasn’t done anything with any other girl since we started “dating”. I was really mad at him in class and I told him that he should just leave me alone and not talk 2 me again. He texted back that he did care. So now I feel really weird. I still like him as more than a friend and I’m not sure what to do now that we just went through that big fiasco! I told him to text/call my phone later… but I’m not sure what else to do! One girl on my bus that knows him well says he’s a really confusing guy… I agree... but she said that he flirts with everyone and gets paid to give younger people rides. I don’t know what to think of him anymore because I’m not sure if he’s with anybody else or not??? Any ideas?!
psychoreactor answered Monday March 28 2005, 5:32 pm: Okay, I'm going to be honest and say that I don't understand a THING you typed. I'm going to be slightly more honest and say that I only read like half of it.
BUT from what I understand you're acting insane and that guy will most likely call the police on you. You sound a hundered times more confusing than him. Police are usually pretty easy to avoid. If they come and want to ask you questions make sure you have a blunt butter-knife in your hand and hide it behind your back. When the cop finishes his first question, spit on his pants. When he looks down at what you did, lunge at him with the knife and stab him repeatedly in the eye while yelling "STAY TUNED FOR A FRESH EPISODE OF GILMORE GIRLS." Police will give mad respect and props to stuff like that.
Oh and 'he flirts with everyone and gets paid to give younger people rides' eh? I'm not too sure what that means but it sounds like something I'd like to get in on. [ psychoreactor's advice column | Ask psychoreactor A Question ]
twstandshout32 answered Monday March 28 2005, 5:11 pm: ok this guy is messed up and confusing....if he lied to you and texted another girl in a flirtatious way than i would "dump" him for awhile and see wat happens...sorry this guy really is messed up a little to confusing if you ask me but if i found out he flirts and gives younger people rides then i would "dump" him...he sounds to confusing to trust..but its really what you feel.
Sherry answered Monday March 28 2005, 5:10 pm: Forget about him, he lied and only God knows what he has lied about before and will lie about. If he says he "hearted" you and didnt put "I love you" then he doesnt mean it. He's just trying to sweet talk you and get you back. If you do go back to him, he'll think its okay to lie again because you'll take him back anyway. Dont let him think like that ! Break it off and get over him. i know it might take a while to get over him, but you deserve so much better and you'll find someone knew soon! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
RaeKay answered Monday March 28 2005, 5:09 pm: well this guy does sound really confusing. with all the stuff that he does its hard to keep it all straight. if you cant trust this guys then hes not worth it. it sounds like he lies alot (even though he tells you he doesnt) and thats not somebody to trust. you obviously cant talk to him and expect he truth because you've already seen him lie to you. i think that this guy just isnt worth it and you two should be just friends. [ RaeKay's advice column | Ask RaeKay A Question ]
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