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please help out im seriouse
ok im 13/f and i dont know if im bi or not cuz like sometime si catch myself wanting to "do" things with girls and like i think gurls bodies are cute or "hot" and when i was 12 a girl hit on me went to kiss me and i DIDNT back away...please i dont know if im a lesbien or if girls are just like this please help me i rate REALLY high..thanks so much!
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everyone kidna grows through a stage i went through it i was so scared that i was a lesbion but you intrested and you like to look at grown girls bodies to give you somethign to go on kinda liek a person you look up to you look up to girls bodies becasue they come in so many diffrent forms your intrested sorry if i didnt help good luck
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Yeah, lesbians are hot. A+
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Hmm. That's a tough one because on the one hand, you are experiencing the "classic symptoms of discovering bisexual tendencies" (Doctor fancy language for realing you're a lesbian), but on the other hand feelings like that are often normal for girls around your age. Try talking to friends or just people in general who are homosexual. They might be able to help you sort things out. Talk to your parents, too, if they aren't too anti-gay. Try and decide wether you just admire other females or if you actually feel attracted to them. And, most importantly, if you do come to the conclusion that you are bisexual, remember- there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that. Be proud of who you are!
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First of all, ur not alone i'm having the same problem, but i cna help you. Your just thinking about your opinions and all. That doesn't mean your a lesbian. From my experiance being with another girl is a great experience. It gives you a chance to explore out of the male needs. If you do love males more than girls that's okay. Your only 13 and thinking these things are natural. It's good that your very curious. But once you get involved with somone and you don't like it don't just say to them i don't want to do this anymore. That just makes them made that they had to be with a person they like that is confused. Don't put such a label on yourself it doesn't help you at all. Please don't tell everyone about your business of how you feel because a lot people might not understand your feelings. This is a natural thought and you should explore it like a lady with maybe a person close to you that's willing to try it with you (that's not in the family!). But before you do that you should look up on the internet about bisexuality and bring a lesbian and read on about it. It helps to know what your interested in and know more about it. Because you don't want a person to trick you into something that you have know clue about so. Just look into it. Trust me this is a natural curiousity and it's fun if you have a best friend who's willing to try experimenting with you. So if you have any questions or need further help IM me at AIM. My screename is Mega Hot Mama7 (just as it's written with the spaces). Hope i helped!!!!!
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Just because you think that you are attracted to gurls don't mean that you are a lesbian. It could just be a faze that you are going through. I remember when I went through that faze. So don't woory about it. And if you have anymore questions give me a write.
Bye ( hope it helped)
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you could easily just be curious about other girls and relationships. you could be bi, but you dont just turn bi or lesbian.
ALiCiA ♥
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Well it could be a faze but then you could actualy be a bi but im not positive so0o ... yeah !! sorry if i didnt help at all !!
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this doesn`t mean your a lesbian..You might be bisexual hun..It sounds to me you are.. Since you find them attractive and you`d do sexual things with them.. If you only like girls and not attracted to guys in the way you are girls then Yea you might be a lesbian.. But experiment before makin that decison hun.. this can be normal also for girls to look at other girls like compare themselfs and kinda figure out whats wrong with our own bodies you could catch yourself doing that too.. ♥ Dez
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This is quite a common phase that girls can go through especially at your age when they're trying to work out who they are and who they're attracted to. Therefore, thats all it may be- just a phase and in a few months you may feel 100% differently. However alternatively you may be bi and therefore these feelings will stay with you. At the moment who knows?? But relax! Who cares? It doesn't matter at the moment- you're you and nothing else is important. In time you'll work out your true feelings but until then don't worry about it- it's a confusing time for everyone and I'll bet that thousands of girls are feeling EXACTLY the same as you- they just don't want to talk about it!
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well, you probably are, but dont be scared or anything. you might just be going through a stage in life where you get attracted to people you normally wouldnt. it's nothing to worry abut. if you'd like to talk more, my sn on AIM is PrettyInPinkkx17
Hope I helped!!!
Kate
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