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please help
Ok im 13/f and my bf and i are really close weve been dating for 2 year now and we are pretty sure were in love with each other...For REal...and its so weird because when we are just hangin out with all of my bf's friends we are like allways fooling around with each other and like kissing and hugging and i feel sorta..turned on...and i like wanna touch him and stuff...but then when we actually wanna take it a little further he starts putting his hand down my shirt and feeling my boobs! and i chicken out...what can i do to make my boyfriend feel that i want to be like sexually involved with him but i dont wanna be like all the other girls and a "whore" and just do it all at once?
please help i rate fives!
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talk to him about it.
just be like,
i think we should take this relationship to the next level.
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you can just be upfront. tell him you want to be intimate but you want himto me patiant with you and take it slow. that way you'll get what you want without feeling like your a whore and a whore is a girl who sleeps wit er body. And you fare away from that.
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take it slow . u shouldnt feal pressured to do anything ur not ready for . have a convo with him about boundaries. and chill out in public cus that seems like a tease to us.
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Ok, this is ANOTHER case of a 13 year old girl getting in over her head. First, at 13, you're not in love. You believed in Santa Claus 5 years ago, you're not in love. Second, it's normal to be turned on when you're kissing your bf, he's prolly pretty turned on, too. When you say you "wanna touch him and stuff", what do you mean? His dick? Sex? Hand job? Blow job? You're nervous b/c you don't want him to think you're a ho, and you're not if it's been two years. But you're also nervous b/c you know at 13, it's too young to mes around with shit like that. Just enjoy being a kid.
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well this is definatly not what you want to hear but you need to hear it. dating at ages 11-13 is not real. if you can't communicate and everything, you aren't ready to do anything. do do it if you don't feel comfortable doing it. next time make sure you are ready and he'll stop if you want him too. you are still really young and if youre really in love, theres no rush to what you do right now. <3
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TALK TO HIM!!!! Honesty is always the best way to handle most situations like this cos then everyone knows what's going on. Next time he tries anything you're comfortable with relax and if he tries anything you're not comfortable with tell him he's going too fast. Anyway you don't know if he'll go any further anyway- maybe he doesn't want to go too far either. Lets face it you have been together for 2 years and after 2 years you should be able to honestly tell him how you feel. Just remember don't get too caught up in all this- only ever go as far as you feel 100% comfortable with.
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