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ok well i have a boyfriend and i like him a lot we talk on line and sometimes on the phone (i always call him he never calls me) and at school we don't talk at all. i am his first girl friend he has ever had but i can't stand not talking to him. i want to talk to him at school but i'm shy and hes shy not good not good at all. i was just wondering what i should do? i rate high
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yea...guys can be shy sometimes...and i hate it! mabee he is shy becuz he thinks that he might sound weird and you might think he is stupid...jus try to explain to him that u like him a lot, and him talking to you will make u like him even more!....i hope i helped!
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Um..no offense and I know you are shy and stuff, but I mean, why would you guys start dating if you're not going to converse ya know? You have the right to talk to him. Don't feel awkward, I mean..he's your BOYFRIEND.
And don't worry, obviously if he hasn't broken up with you by now you must mean SOMETHING to him. I mean I know sometimes you can get nervous and stuff, but if you both aren't comfortable around eachother then you should really get to know each other as friends and hang out as friends before you start dating.
Either that or just go up to him and say "hey"..and ask him how he's been doing and stuff...or ask him if he wants to go to the movies (could be with a group of people too if it's more comfortable)...
good luck.
`jessie
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If you want to talk to him, then you just need to walk up to him and talk to him in school. Once you start talking to him more, your shyness will go away and so will his. Communication is the key in a relationship and since you are your boyfriend's first girlfriend, it's normal for him to not talk that much to you because he's nervous. You just need to talk to him more, that's all.
-Karen
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just.. go up to him and start talking.. if you act like your not nervous.. and its no big deal.. then it will ease thyngs up with yall!! good luckk
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Boys, up to a certain age (usually college) are completely freaking clueless about how to converse with a girl. They have a lot of pressure to get one, but once they do, the very great majority don't have the self-esteem or social skills necessary to have a normal relationship. In fact, you'll be hard-pressed to have a normal, two-way relationship until the end of highschool. Girls mature first and their brains develop much faster than boys', and their social skills are pressed upon them by society--boys are encouraged to be physically active, not to learn how to make a damn conversation. Have you noticed?
Pretty much, this is just going to be an awkward and unsatisfying period in your life. It is for everyone. The best I can suggest is going somewhere with a group--boys are usually a little more relaxed if they don't think you're paying so much attention to them. Less pressure. Just be cool with it and don't expect much.
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Someone had to make the first move or you wouldn't be bf/gf. Which one was it?
Whoever needs to get over the shyness and start hanging out with the other.If not then you have no relationship except in your heads!
Just get brave and go hang with him.If he doesn't like it then find a new guy! Tell him to call you!
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I thin that you should be the first one to talk. You guys are now dating, so talking would help make your relashionship grow. Forget about that your shyness, because if you want this relashionshp to work then you have got to have the courage to get over this obstacle if he can't do it himself. Couples should be comfortable around eachother and be able to talk to eachother to help eachother out. Talking on email isn't enough. You guys should get through this hurdle together, because there will more than likely be more tougher ones on your way through life. I hope I helped!
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it is hard when you are going out with someone who is shy. you should go up to him at school and just talk to him. of course it will be hard to get him to talk a lot back to you.... but if you do this sooner or later he will be more comfortable and he will start calling you! i hope i helped in some way!
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Okay, relationships where both people are shy, are not good. One of ya'll need to come out of your shell, other wise its just going to stay like that. And since it seems like you have the problem maybe you should be the first one to make the move, and maybe he will fill more comforable and lossen up too.
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Reality check, he probably isn't that interested. If he doesn't make the effort to call you, or even talk to you at school, it doesn't seem like he's really into you. You're probably real nice and everything, but you might not be what he really wants.
Or, maybe since you're his first girlfriend, he just doesn't know what to do. This means you gotta be more assertive, and wear the pants in this relationship.
Good luck.
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Welljust go up to him, hes your boyfriend. how are you even going out if you dont talk to him in person? How about cracking a joke or reminding him of something funny you talked about on the phone or online..to ease the tension. Good luck !
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i used to be the same way .. but its ok. I mean, yall do go out so just walk up and talk to him!! It might be hard, but i know you can do it. Once you do it, you'll be glad you did. hope it helped!
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