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Hey Yall!!this is stephanie and i want EVERYONE to know that i am here for them! ask me anything and i PROMISE that i will give you a wise answer...i hope i can help!!

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ok...so there is this girl that i like...but shes a freshman and i'm a sophmore....she's in band with me but she has a boyfriend...i really like her and think she is my highschool sweetheart...but i don't even think i have a chance with her...she's great (link)
well...tuff luck i don't think she'll ever go out with a loser like you...

xoxo stephanie


Hey,
okay so me and my girlfriend have been having sex on and off but, lately she just hasnt been her usual self. She is afraid of getting pregnet but i mean im a man and i have needs and sometimes i just have to have sex. So the other day i had sex with this girl because my girlfriend wont anymore. Now the girl is pregnat. How should i tell my girlfriend? im lost!

HELP! (link)
wow....well i've never had sex or been in a situation like that but i'll help you ok....sit your girllfriend down in private and tell her calmly what you did and see if she understands make it clear that it was a mistake and that everyone makes mistakes. If she doesn't understand then break up with her...thats all i can tell you.....hope i helped...

xoxo stephanie


OMG!!! Im a NERD!!!! what do i do???
*LUv Ya*
~*ApRiL*~
Hahaha Steph i need ur help!!! (link)
ok april....face it....everyone hates you...its not your fault that your such a slut...OMG I LOVE YOU APRIL AND YOU KNOW IT!!

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*STEFO*


hey what do u think likes better on gurls short hair /long?d ou think a gurl look sprettyer with short or long hair..and what makes ur ''chest'' biiger (link)
its all shallowness there....it doesnt matter what you look like and im not trying to be rude i just think that if you just be yourself your inner self will shine towards everyone. And ....appearance is just a word...hope i helped

xoxo STEPHANIE


o k ihavents seen ma crush in like 2 months and i used to see him like all th time..what do i do!!u now everythign happenes for a reason well what can the reason be?is it tat we nned to stop liking each other or wat i ned help wat do i do? (link)
ok....plan a little get together with you him and a few of yalls good friends...if the vibe is still there then GO FOR IT GIRL lol well i hope i helped.....

xoxo stephanie


what do u do when you say your sorry to a friend? (link)
buy them something....

bad ass MC


k so ive liked this guy for a while now and at first i thought he liked me too but then he did something that made it very clear he didnt like me but i still really like him and i dont know if i should talk to him about it or not (link)
wow..ive been in that position before....i think that you should talk to him about it...and see where it goes from there!!
HOPE I HELPED!!

xoxo STEPHANIE


ok so i like this crush i got tyred of him not telling me how he feels and he seeems so shy..and i havent seeme him 4 like a month and i wont see him probably till another month..i decided tat i was gonn amove on becasue hes so rude..but ocasisonally i see him stare at me at the movies ....but he told me in the aol tat im wasting my time and i got rereaally major mad ....but i dunt understand why we used to see each other everyweekend at the amll/movies..even tought we never talked...but now we dunt see each other as much /what do u think this means do u think it means tat maybe he will start missing me and tat he will appreciete wat he had now tats gone..cause i kind of moved on..or wat does it mean?should i move on helpp (link)
well...one thing, the internet is NOT a good source with guys i am telling you that much.i think that you should confront him in PERSON and tell him how you are feeling about this and whee is can go from there....i have faith that yall will do fine...hope i helped.

xoxo stephanie


hey what does it mean wen they tell u r insecure? (link)
Main Entry: in·se·cure
Pronunciation: "in-si-'kyur
Function: adjective
Etymology: Medieval Latin insecurus, from Latin in- + securus secure
1 : not confident or sure : UNCERTAIN

hope i helped!!

xoxo stephanie!


i know a gurl and weel we r like only going on dates becuse we live kinda apart but i don t know if she wasnts commit ment we make out and other stuf but hat i f she wants commit ment or wat i f i mess it up (link)
it doesnt matter if yall live apart....it matters if you really love her...i think that you should confront her in person and ask her if she wants a comitted relationship...if yall make out and whatever than yall should have no problem in being in a comitted relationship..hope i helped!!


xoxo STEPHANIE


heyy stephhh!
ok..well like i like this guy..and like a week ago he acted like he liked me like and he acted like he was about 2 ask me out then i went on vacation came back and everything was diff..i was only gone for 4 days.. annd now iv fallen for him..and i feel SO led on and i hate it i really do bekuz its like i could like him and he wouldnt give a #### wat so ever and its like it always happens and i just like i dont know what to do..

lovve.. (link)
you should confront him in person and talk about it...and tell him how you feel in this kind of situation...and if he doesnt unerstand..he is not worth your tears or pain...go on to another guy who actually cares.... hope i helped..

xoxo STEPHANIE


i need help im so comfused .....i liked this guy for like 2 years he acts like he likes me but then he acts so rude and mean and says he doesnt care what i do on the phone..i went out w/this guy tats his friend but i broken up w/him becuse i couldnt stop thinking about the other guy...but ma friends say i need to move on and go bakk out w/ma ex which he does really like me..and then other friends say i shouldnt cause what if the guy i love come to me...so i duntnow wat to do should i move on or stay hucked on the other guy?friends say maybe the other crush might notice me cause ill go out w/his friends but wat if it makes it worst? (link)
i think that you should keep on going out with your ex..because he actually cares about you...i also think that you should forget about the other guy because if he is going to act that way about this....he doesnt deserve such a great girl like you...so move on and i bet you anything that when he sees that youve moved on...he will start liking you and have some kind of jealosy going on...hope i helped

xoxo stephanie









When you have a crush on a guy your always afraid to let go because your scared that when you let go he'll finally catch on


ok so i found out ma crush died her hair like blonish from being a brunett and he look sreally hot ..i dunt now why he didi it..but im scared tat gurls satrt liking him more and he gets a girlfrined i hope i see him this friday and im sad he might ignore me!!!wat should i do do u think hell het to much proud and think hes the best casue he lokks better now.i was planing to say hi this friday and not be tat shy but now i dont now..what should i do..or do u think he idid it to maybe impresse me? (link)
can you restate the question


i have this really good friend and she hates this guy that is also my good friend and she thought that i liked him and she was so mad. shouldnt your really good friend be happy for who ever you like even though you dont like the guy? (link)
a friend is someone who listens to you and understands you in any choice that you make....she shouldnt be so skeptical on who you like.....follow your heart...hope i helped...

xoxo stephanie


Hey! I like this guy but he broke up w/ one of my best friends a little while ago and I dunno if that would be mean to like him. sry I'm just very confused lol so i guess just respond back if you have time lol thanks,
Anonymous (link)
ok....i think you should ask your best friend first to see what she feels about this....not ask her permission...ask her if she would be hurt in any way if you ever went out with him or liked him...shell understand...
xoxo stephanie


Ok What should i do?? Ok i like my really good friensd and we went out and now i like him more then i did when we were going out!! hes going out with some new girl and i dont no her!! and the thing that confuses me is that we flirt alot and during art he stills my markers and i when i try to get them back i have to lik tackle him and sometimes we end up face to face were we r going to kiss but i pull back what can i do to get him back??

By the way its Kristen Ambriz from Art and A&E (link)
i think you should talk to him....express your feelings and tell him how you feel....he will understand!!

xoxo stephanie


okk i have this feeling l;ike i feel really close to ma crush ....like a feeling i dunt ussually get liek butterflys in ma stomach like different what do this mean? (link)
i think it just means that you like him alot and that when you think about him and your too scared to talk to him you get butterflies....so i think the longer you wait to tell him you like him...the harder its going to be....so just go up front to him and tell him how you feel!....xoxo i hope i helped


wait so i should wear jeans and a skirt?dont u thing tat looks weird? (link)
no...only a skirt

xoxo


ok so wat do u think will atract ma crush more a skirt or jeans ?will people think im a hoe if i weare a skirt? (link)
no...if you wear a really rally short skirt then yes...people will think you are kinda sluttish...wear a skirt that is mmoderately long enough...maybe fingertip length

xoxo STEPHANIE


ok so im going tot hte movies this friday and i bough tthgis new shirt its green and white i havent seen ma crush in a long time what do u think i should were a jean skirt or jeans?and should i straightened my hair /i want to impresee him (link)
i think you should go with the skirt and jeans....so you look nice when you see him..straighten your hair and wear a nice purse...he will not get his eyes off you then!!

xoxo STEPHANIE




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