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Q: this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help.

wait until you find someone you really like. dont waste your first kiss on someone just because you dont want people to think you are prude. you can never get your first kiss back so dont waste it

Q: ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused

no not at all. i'm in 8th grade and the guy i like is in 7th grade. its only one year. as long as he is him, what does 1 year matter? it shouldnt matter at all!

Q: Is there anyway to get bigger boobs besides breast implants? I'm 14, and have no boobs what-so-ever. Please don't tell me to wait. Im desperate here.

okay well drinking milk doesnt help at all. usually your breasts start developing 1-2 years before your period. and then when you get your period, you usually notice a big difference.

Q: thx for helping me with my, i think i still like him question. i think your right...i dont like him i just miss the feeling of being in love. i think i just miss having a boyfriend. so i should just keep my self occupied? thx again....

yeah keeping yourself occupied will stop you from having the chance to think about it.

Q: can you tell me how to play football?? lololol i need seriousss help..i rate high if you can help!!

um yeahh. okay well basically when the quarterback says hike, you run forward, catch the ball, and run to the endzone. there are 4 "downs" meaning that the quarterback can throw the ball up to 4 times. you need to get at least 10 yards to get another 4 downs. there are also 4 quarters, and each quarter is 15 minutes. (it might be different for powder puff). a blitz is when the defense runs and puts pressure on the quarterback, and a "sack" is when you tackle the quarterback and she falls. i hope i helped. if you need anymore you can ask me.

Q: Ok my school has their first powderpuff game on thursday and I'm on the team and I have NO CLUE how to play...can anyone give me any tips on what to do and what not to do and just the genernal guidelines and positions? oh and also how to play?

haha football rocks. dont you go to the practices? usually they help you there but if you're a receiver, make sure you catch the ball with your hands and not against your body. if you are quarterback, throw the ball using your index finger on the point, and your pinky, ring and middle fingers on the laces. hope i helped

Q: i am finding that my hair is taking longer and longer to do, with less of a result and usually dosent stay clean for more than a day... i have tried switching shampoos (i seem to do it weekly now) and cutting my hair, i let it grow, i died it, i put stuff in it! nothing seems to work!

everyone's hair is different. usually when you go through puberty, your hair starts to get oily. you just have to get used to it. my hair doesnt stay clean for more than a day either. you just have to wash daily.

Q: I dyed my hair yesterday and i always straighten/flat iron my hair and i was wondering if its safe to flat iron it after i dyed it? would it dye it out? my hair is well conditioned so it doesnt look or feel dye but i was just making sure. Thanks!

yeah you can straighten your hair. do anything you want to it. i do and people actually have started noticing my highlights more now, even though i got them in november? but it doesnt affect them at all

Q: so im planning a sweet 16 and i made a guest list and came up with 66 people so far. This was without crossing off the "questionables." what i mean by that is those people who you dont really talk to..but you dont hate either..and the couple of people who had a sweet 1 in september but didnt invite you..and now it seems we are a little more friendly. Hope i didnt confuse you guys..any tips on what to base who you invite on? anyone ever been in my place before? how did you decide who to cross off? i dont usually talk to the "gangsta" group..but i figure inviting them would spice my party up..is this the wrong idea? i need help lol so dont be afraid to critisize
5's for everyone who isnt obnoxious

i think that you should keep all the people that you talk to daily, keep people that you are pretty good friends with and cross off the ones that you dont talk to. because what is the point of inviting someone that you arent friends with?

Q: Kay... well there is this guy and he and I started talking about 3 weeks ago at a track meet and now we flirt a bunch at the track meets.. he is in some of my classes and like yeah I always catch him looking at me and then he always like brags about how good he is at trfack and how much i suck in a JOKEING way... but Iono if he lieks me or what.. and I am really confused plese HELP!

he is obviously flirting! good sign.. well do you like him or not? because if you do, you should tell him. if you are too afraid to tell him, then have a friend talk to him and see what he thinks about you

Q: im in student gov and we have to plan the spring dance. does anyone have any ideas for a theme? plz no under the sea or hawiian. thnx!

okay well i know that all my friends LOVE THE 80's i think it would be such a rad theme. you have to love 80s music. seriously its like the best era! hope i helped!

Q: i made my friend a cd with 'happy' 'upbeat' music..does anyone have a catchy title i can label the cd.It could rhyme..as long as it's cute..Thanks!

rad jams

haha i love it. its def. the best name everr!

Q: My boyfriend acts like he doesnt care when i talk to guys, but one of my guy friends gave me a ride to My bestfriends house for wings. and i told him it was my mom driving me because iknew he'd be super mad and break up with me and he found out and he did and i told him why but he didnt care we got back together two days later and weve been togeter for over 13 months, and he sits next to girls in all of his classes ex. one and alomst 3 classes are next to a girl i dont like very much and he refuses to move when i know he could. I dont get how he can flip out when i talk to a guy that he claims to have tried to break us up when the girl he actually has classes with and talks to tried the same just diffent ways i guess and he even made me stop talkin to him because of it. I wouldnt make him stop talkin to girls if hes friends with them but i feel like they are above me, how do i get him to relize what he has, cuz i wont be around forever, he doesnt think ill leave him but i have dumped him 1 time before and he got so mad, so i dont know what to do to make him show affection twards me and accept that i care if he leaves..ill rate high

if you really love him, you'll trust that he wont cheat on you. my friend is going out with a guy and they are like super protective and its causing both of them to stay away from like all of their friends. even though you are his girlfriend, i dont think you should tell him who he can talk to and what he can do. the same goes for him. maybe you should tell him that.

Q: what happens when ur best friend likes you and u like them but going out might ruin the friendship??

one of my really good friends went out with her best friend and even though they broke up, they are still best friends. i think you should go for it. because if you dont, you might regret it later.

Q: ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do?

okay well if they are best friends that probably means that they have been friends for a long time, and i think that if they were going to do anything, it would have been done already. guys usually hate when their girlfriends get all protective, because they would feel like trapped. maybe you should just get to know the girl more, you'd feel more comfortable if you were good friends with her too. hope i helped. =]

Q: i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help?

i dont think you like him but i think you want the feeling back of being in love. maybe you should workout or do something to keep you occupied. and maybe you'll meet another guy to give you the same feeling

Q: Ok there is this kid at school and i really like him and he likes me. But im afraid to tell him that i like him because i think ill be imberrassed. Plzzzzzzzzz help me.

signed in love but confused.