so im planning a sweet 16 and i made a guest list and came up with 66 people so far. This was without crossing off the "questionables." what i mean by that is those people who you dont really talk to..but you dont hate either..and the couple of people who had a sweet 1 in september but didnt invite you..and now it seems we are a little more friendly. Hope i didnt confuse you guys..any tips on what to base who you invite on? anyone ever been in my place before? how did you decide who to cross off? i dont usually talk to the "gangsta" group..but i figure inviting them would spice my party up..is this the wrong idea? i need help lol so dont be afraid to critisize
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BLONDE911 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 9:10 pm: sounds really fun! umm i would go with how much money your planning on to spend. If i was like super rich i would invite everyone i liked. If ya dont care of the money, the more people the better your liked! :) I would definitly invite my closest friends. Im not really familiar with the *gangsta* group but from what i heard there pretty harsh. So i would just be careful who i would invite. For instance if i guy is known for lets say *bad* things, i wouldnt invite him. lol well have a GREAT sweet 16
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LexybelNLisa answered Sunday March 27 2005, 3:21 pm: HAPPY SWEET 16!!! Well i've never had a sweet 16 before, lol obviously im only 13.. but I've heard they are pretty big. The most important thing you need to find out is is your limit. Ask your parents about that maybe or maybe the place only fits enough people.. you need to find that out. For who you invite though, I'd invite people you really want to be there, lik your closest friends and everyone in your "Group". ALso, include the people you arent really frends with but they are friends with your friends, MAYBE, idk like for example if your friends with Sally and Sally is friends with Natasha, but you're not too good friends with Natasha, but Sally will talk about your party and NAtasha will feel bad. but w/e just a thought. Basicaly, invite as amny as you want, because gaurenteed some people wont be able to come. [ LexybelNLisa's advice column | Ask LexybelNLisa A Question ]
rememberxforever answered Sunday March 27 2005, 2:11 pm: well i dont know if you just have alot of close friends or are really social. personally i would invite pretty much only my close friends so it didnt get crazy but that might just be my personality....just make sure you dont invite people you dont like/dont trust! =]
SweetStarx89 answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:10 pm: Happy 16th Birthday! for me i would think about who is worth coming and who isnt. if you know the gangstas well enough then invite them. i'm not sure how many people you are allow to invite but think about it. you want to have fun and not have anyone say things like maybe the ones that had sweet 16 but didnt invite you would be like yeah mine was so much better at your party. i'm not sure if they have that kind of people if i was planning it i think of it that way. but you dont have to do the you didnt invite me so i'm not going to invite you thing. but if some people are nice to you and you like them then keep them on. hopefully i helped! take care. x3SweetStar. [ SweetStarx89's advice column | Ask SweetStarx89 A Question ]
goMango answered Sunday March 27 2005, 1:02 pm: just invite who you like, dont bother with anyone else.. and maybe dont invite the gangsta group, the party may get a little to spicy [ goMango's advice column | Ask goMango A Question ]
siozeegreat answered Sunday March 27 2005, 12:57 pm: First off, happy birthday!
It really depends on how many people you think your house can hold, without getting the place trashed.
First on your guest list should be your core group of friends, and then maybe people you talk to in class or in the halls. You should invite people you aren't really friends with anymmore, just so they don't feel left out. They normally don't come, because they know that they're not friends with your new friends. But at least they know you thought about them.
Of course, if you have a crush or something, you gotta invite him.
sweetxtragedy answered Sunday March 27 2005, 12:57 pm: i think that you should keep all the people that you talk to daily, keep people that you are pretty good friends with and cross off the ones that you dont talk to. because what is the point of inviting someone that you arent friends with? [ sweetxtragedy's advice column | Ask sweetxtragedy A Question ]
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