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My boyfriend acts like he doesnt care when i talk to guys, but one of my guy friends gave me a ride to My bestfriends house for wings. and i told him it was my mom driving me because iknew he'd be super mad and break up with me and he found out and he did and i told him why but he didnt care we got back together two days later and weve been togeter for over 13 months, and he sits next to girls in all of his classes ex. one and alomst 3 classes are next to a girl i dont like very much and he refuses to move when i know he could. I dont get how he can flip out when i talk to a guy that he claims to have tried to break us up when the girl he actually has classes with and talks to tried the same just diffent ways i guess and he even made me stop talkin to him because of it. I wouldnt make him stop talkin to girls if hes friends with them but i feel like they are above me, how do i get him to relize what he has, cuz i wont be around forever, he doesnt think ill leave him but i have dumped him 1 time before and he got so mad, so i dont know what to do to make him show affection twards me and accept that i care if he leaves..ill rate high
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if you really love him, you'll trust that he wont cheat on you. my friend is going out with a guy and they are like super protective and its causing both of them to stay away from like all of their friends. even though you are his girlfriend, i dont think you should tell him who he can talk to and what he can do. the same goes for him. maybe you should tell him that.
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wow you sound like your ranting
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its high school drama
talk it out if you love eachother, just sit down and talk it out over a meal or ice cream or seomthing along you'll figure it out
hope i helped
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Ive gone through the same thing before and what you should do it talk it out with him and say what you just said in that question that you dont see how he can get mad over you hanging out with your friends when he does the same thing which is very hypocritical just talk it out with him and see where things go from there good luck
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This sounds like a sticky situation. And what I am about to say may not make much sense, but this is exactly how guys think. (I asked a male friend about this not too long ago.) Guys don't mind when they talk to another girl, because they know that they don't want to be with them because of who they have in their life right now. (Meaning you.) But guys do get jealous when a guy talks to their girlfriend because they know how a single guys mind works. He is insecure that whatever guy you are talking to might impress you more, therefor changing your feelings towards him. (See, I told you that would be confusing.)
You need to sit down with your boyfriend face-to-face and have a talk with him. Reassure him that the only person that you want to be with is him, but there is nothing wrong with you having guy friends. Let him know how you feel when you see him talking to another girl. Tell him if he wants you to show him respect by not talking to guys that tried to break ya'll up, then he should be willing to show you respect and not talk to other girls that tried to break ya'll up.
You should never feel like another girl is above you in your relationship. Explain this to him also. Tell him that you realizes that he loves you, but you don't like his jealousy. Tell him what you need from him, (affection, love, etc...). If after this talk, he still doesn't change, then leave him alone where he needs to be, and find a guy that will show you all of the affection you need.
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