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How do i tell?


Question Posted Saturday March 26 2005, 12:23 pm

I like this guy, like SOO much and no matter who i date or how much i try he's the ONLY guy on my mind. The thing is he's a popular sophmore, and im a not so popular freshman. but he's different from all the popular guys i've known though, like hes really caring and REALLY easy to talk to ..
I told him i liked him a long time ago but he said he didn't really no me well enough to like me.. so its been like a month and half and hes started to act different towards me like in gym we had to carry really really heavy boxes because we were doing reconditioning, and he offered to take my box, but nobody elses. and just like it came up in convorsation who he liked but he wouldn't say like it was a HUGE secret (my friends said its beacuse they think he likes me, but i dunno).
And yesterday when we were gettin out of school he was behind me, and he threw a nickel and it hit my back pack, but i didnt even realize anyone threw it so i kept walking. and three other times he threw pennys and i didnt do anything. and after he threw the last one he's like "Hey" and i turend around and "he's like im trying to get ur attention here and" and im like so why r u throwing stuff at me like kidding around and hes like b/c i can. then he asked how i was and then got on his bus .. but i dunno its just weird .. maybe im being to hopeful or could this possibly mean something? ... how do i tell if he might possibly like me .. or if he's just friendly ..


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Miss_Lily answered Saturday March 26 2005, 4:04 pm:
From what you have told me here, it sounds like this guy really does like you. You can tell by the subtle hints that he keeps throwing you. For one, he takes he time to show you extra attention at school. Secondly, he does little weird things to get your attention. Third, he offers to do polite things for you. It seems that his statement in the beginning, <b><i>'I don't really know you.'</b></i>, is changing to <b><i>'I want to get to know you.'</b></i> I suggest that you remain friends with him for a few more weeks, and ask him for his phonenumber so you can get to know him even better. Then once you are really comfortable with him, just asks him how he feels about you. Tell him that you feel that you and him are connecting besides just being friends and you want to know if he feels the same way about you. Let him know that you are willing to give him more time to get to know you if that is what he needs. There is a lot of flirting going on, and I think that a relationship here could be possible.

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heykris10 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 3:33 pm:
Ignore him for like a day (if you can) and if he wont quit bugging you then thats how you no !!

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Deanimal answered Saturday March 26 2005, 3:29 pm:
Don't get your hopes up. Guys around his age have a way of flirting with a lot of people.

If you want to know what he thinks, you've got to observe how he acts around other girls. If it's totally different, THEN there's a major chance he likes you.

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RambunctiousRel answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:54 pm:
Well, there's one thing for sure! He's flirting with you. He obviously likes you enough to pay that much attention with you. I'm not trying to get your hopes down or anything but don't get too high hopes. THis kinda thing has happened to me before but i think that you should try flirting back or get to know him a little better and who knows...something could happen.

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coolpool0509 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:38 pm:
he's definitely flirting with you and it sounds like he really likes you... just flirt back and see how it goes from there, but make sure that he's not just a big flirt who does this with everybody :)

much <3
donny

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Lovedoctor answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:19 pm:
Throwing the penny at you was a way of flirting. Trust me, this guy LIKES YOU! Get to know him a little more, then things will move a little faster. Trust me. Try to talk to him more and more. Tell me what happens! Good-luck!

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