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Question Posted Saturday March 26 2005, 12:05 pm

My boyfriend of over a year used to treat me really bad, he'd ignore me and barely talk to me in school, but when id threaten to break up with him he'd be like do it do it and i would and he'd be the one gettin mad.. i dont understand how he'll let me do that and he wont care but after he gets mad becuase i did it. A girl wrote i love you on his hand and he acted like it was nothing but he wont let me write something on his hand. I do get jealous fast and he knows it, and i feel like he takes advantage of it. What should i do to make him appreciate me and make him say sweet things like he used to. I tell him to just break up with me if he doesnt care but he doesnt b/c he says he cares. I wish he would show it more ut how?

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XOCaliHereWeComeKayXO answered Saturday March 26 2005, 8:07 pm:
Hey i hope this helps it sounds like he does take advantage of your jealousy and I think you should try and talk it out with him one on one about it without threatining to break up with eachother cause that will take you nowhere if he says he cares tell him that you wont to see him caring more because it's hurting you hope that helped feedback please

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heykris10 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 6:51 pm:
sit down with him and have a long talk!! tell him that you think that yall realationship is mising the love it use to have and tell him what you feel! maybe will start to like you or he will dump you and you gett another boyfriend that will treat you better.

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karenR answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:12 pm:
If he tells you to break up with him do it.
Next time though don't give in to his whining and take him back. He knows how to push your buttons and he's doing it.If it's been a year and he can't treat you better than he does, call it quits.

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Lovedoctor answered Saturday March 26 2005, 1:10 pm:
I think you should break-up with this guy. Don't ever let someone treat you that way, EVER! If he really cares about you... then he'll ask you back. Tell him, if he doesn't start caring more about you, then it's over for good. You can do so much more than that. Good-luck!

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Miss_Lily answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:51 pm:
Saying he cares and acting like he cares are two different things. Your boyfriend sounds like a jerk. You can't make someone say sweet things to you if it is not in them. You said so yourself that he treats you badly. Well, if he treats you so bad, then why do you want to remain in a relationship with him? It looks like you and him need to break up for good, and you need to find yourself a new boyfriend, someone who will love you and <b>show</b> you that he loves you. How dare he allow another girl to do to him what he won't let you, his girlfriend, do to him. There is nothing that you can do to make him appreciate you better. Your best bet is to leave him alone and open up the doorway for someone more deserving to come in.

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PeppErminTtEaiSgoOd4mE answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:31 pm:
WTF GRL!!! i would brake up with him and STAY broke up!! dont get back together!! a man needs to appreciate you GOD DAMN IT!! if he doesnt appreciate you then he obvisouily is a PIG!!!!!!! gosh! i would have broken up with him a long time ago and stay broke up with him!!! GOSH WAT IS THIS WORLD COMEING TOO!! i kno im mean about it but it's the truth!!!
Hope i Helped!
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BreTTChezzey20 answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:19 pm:
Hey im really sorry about your boy friend first tell your friend to ask him if he likes you if he says yes then go up to him and say i love you so much... If he says no then telll him i thought u liked me and say i like you and y r u alaways so mean to me

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mylinhthan answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:17 pm:
anonymous -

Why do you put up with this?

Just break up with him. He's an ass for not considering your feelings when he behaves like this. I know you've been with him over a year and you're probably emotionally attached to this guy, but it's not worth it. If you stay with him you're only going to experience deja vu all over again.

And if he gets mad, kick him in the genitals. That oughtta show him. :)

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mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 26 2005, 12:10 pm:
I dont think you need him! you could do better than him i bet your beautiful and could have any lad. Break up with him! tell him that he treats you like shit and your so nice to him and get nothing in return.

luv roxie

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