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ok so my boryfreind came into work today to introduce me to his best freind...i was excited about meeting her, till i saw her. She was gorgous, exactly how my boyfreind used to explain how i looked wen he first met me...tall long black hair, tan, skinny...spet shes prettier then i am...least i think she is. I know he would never cheat on me, cuz he loves me, and i love him..blah blahl blah,...but now that i met her i feel completly uncomforatable with my boyfreind bieng around her...ahh i hate bieng jealous..what should i do?
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Heh yeah. Well for a start, (nice big cliche coming up) bauty's in the eye of the beholder and the difference between what girls think is attractive and what guys find attractive is often huge. Secondly presumably they were friends before the two of you got together in which case if they didn't date then, there's a reason for it and it's unlikely that reason will disappear (i.e. they don't find each other attractive).
If she's friendly to you be friendly back. Sounds like the last thing in the world you'd want to do, i know, but it should help- especially if you can get to the point where you can tell how intimidated you felt by her at first. And bring it up with your boyfriend if you can. Not accusing him of anything, ust telling him you feel insecure and he sshould be able to reassure you. The worst thing you can do is keep it to yourself and let it fester.
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ok trust is a major foundation of relationships if you love him you should trust him whatever you do dont make him choose you or her he will be so mad and probly dump you on the spot get to know her and become friend s with her that way you will end up knowing what she is doing and what your boyfriend is doing without looking like your sping
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lol. That happens all the time with girls when there boyfriends has a best friend thats a girl. Like you said, you can trust your boyfriend so dont fret. Maybe get to know this girl and she could actually be a nice person. You probably will be a bit jelous but thats ok, just dont hang out with her if you continue to be jelous. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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okay well if they are best friends that probably means that they have been friends for a long time, and i think that if they were going to do anything, it would have been done already. guys usually hate when their girlfriends get all protective, because they would feel like trapped. maybe you should just get to know the girl more, you'd feel more comfortable if you were good friends with her too. hope i helped. =]
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He is with you. She may be gorgeous, tall, skinny, beautiful....blah, blah, blah, but remember, he is with you. If he was interested in her, I don't even think that he would of introduced you to her. Boys with girls as bestfriends can make you nervous....and jealous, i know. But if this question keeps nagging at you, ask him, if he ever wentmout with her, how long has he known her, you know? Like wheremdid you and so and so meet? She seems like a really rad girl. Use the first level of communication- Which is information iving...bring up any topic, and slowly work your way to his best friend....you will soon learn he loves you. She is just a friend. And then everything will be okay. Good Luck.
<3 nikki
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Guys dont keep really hott best friends. Sorry. Be scared, he probably doesn't love you, you only think he does. If you're only like 16,then no you're not in love and if this really hott girl offers him pussy,hes takin it. Sorry,life's a bitch.
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Dont care about it.
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Your being jealous sounds like a normal reaction!
If you guys love each other though you just have to trust.VERY hard sometimes but necessary.
Sometimes it can be good I guess,keeps you on your toes! If he described you the same way you are seeing her I wouldn't worry about it.She may be one of his best friends but, so are you! And,he isn't dating her.:}
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It is natural for you to get jealous.. that is just what women do! don't batter yourself for it! I know if it a bad feeling.. but it happesn!
hope I helped!
Dani3ll3
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Jealousy is a feeling that will eventually go away with time. Obviously your boyfriend only likes her in a friend way, because I am sure if he could date her, he would have or would be doing so now. If you have faith in your boyfriend, then you have nothing to worry about. Trust him when he says that he likes/loves you. He was thoughtful enough to introduce her to you. He is obviously proud of you, and wants everyone that is close to him to know how he feels about you.
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well sit down with him and have a talk on how you feel besides if he didnt like you he would have already dumped you for her!!
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