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Can i get pregnant..............read plz
hi its me again okay i have a question well me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he says he can't have kids . well we have been having safe sex and i am not scared of it i am just wonderin can i get pregnant if he say's he ant have kids and he doesnt wear a condom when we have sex again?i mean should i trust him on him saying he cant have kids or should i ask someone like his sister? i just dont know if i should believe him and plz answer my question here it is again. Can i get pregnant if my boyfriend says he cant have kids?
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well just to be on the safe side keep having safe sex!
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I'm glad your using a condom. Keep using it. Nothing else - and I do mean nothing - protects you from STDs during sex. Most people with STDs _don't_know_ that they have them, so it's not like he even has to be lying to you about it.
I would not leave it at "I can't have kids". Ask "why not"? If he's had a vasectomy, he still needs to get checked up periodically to make sure his sperm count stays at 0. Also, keep in mind that it's very unlikely that any man under the age of 25 has gotten a vasectomy. I can't think of anything else that would allow a man to have sex and not be virile, but ask him, them look up more info.
You may also want to consider going on hormonal birth control. I suggest the ring if it's available for you - that way you don't have to remember to take the pill at the same time each day, you just replace your ring once a month.
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yes!!!!!!!!!! he is only saying that because he wants to get it in boys will tell any girl that its gonna b safe because they want to be pleased so i think that you should just get on birth control.
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Assuming he is telling the truth you cannot get pregnant, but I'd doubt that personally.
Like everyone says, always use a condom and if you want, consider going on a birth control pill.
In short - be safe and use a condom.
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Well, peRsonally I wouldn't feel comfoRtable having unpRotected sex on acount of him *telling me* that he can't have childRen -- I would need to have it confiRmed by a doctoR, no matteR HOW much I tRust I have foR the man. And sometimes even if it *IS* confiRmed to be tRue by a doctoR that he indeed can not pRoduce a child, it's always entiRely possible that he might end up doing so. It's unlikely I'm shoRe, but medical miRacles do occuR, and anything is possible. Just consieR those facts and give it some thought on whetheR it's woRth it oR not. And you shouldn't feel bad about appRoaching him asking foR confiRmation fRom a doctoR, because it's involving youR body and you have eveRy Right to know. If he's any kind of a human being even in the slightest bit, he'll accept and Respect wheRe you'Re coming fRom on this matteR. I wish you the best of luck! Stay safe; hope I helped!!
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Alot of guys will say that they are incapable of helping concieve a child, just so they don't have to wear a condom because it feels better without one on. You should ask his sister about it but also, just to be on the safe side, wear a condom because odds are with most women's luck, you'll end up pregnant. Talk to his sister about it just to get things straight but I'm not guarenteeing that she's going to know about it unless him and his sister are very close. No matter what you should always wear a condom. My cousin's fiance was with this guy that said he wasn't able to have kids. Now she has a daughter (she had a son but lost him to SIDS). So, you can never be too sure.
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well even if he cant get you pregnant that doesnt mean he cant give you STDs. so just be safe. <3
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y3w cant always be sure!
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Never trust a guy. Ever.
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Umm. No. Definitely would not believe a GUY if he said that. Some of us will do anything for good sex, and I'm afraid this sounds to me a bit obvious. He might say he's 'fireing blank shots', but if your teens, I seriously doubt he's sterile, unless someone decked his testicles with iron boots or something when he was young.
I'd ask his sister or someone who could confirm his claim.
<3 EJ(ST)
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dont trust him at first he may be pulling your leg, ask why he cant and talk about it
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Well did he explain why he cant have kids...? um to be on the safe side til you absolutely know id wait and see.. and i'd continue to have safe sex.. he could be lien so you do get pregnant and have his kid guys can be assholes like that.. much luv dez x0x0
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this is a tricky one, if ure close with his sister just say how come ure brother cant have kids.. whats wrong wiv using a condom neway? u can get ones that he doesnt even know hes wearin one, hope i helped let me know if u need any more advice.xx
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yes i wouldn't be that stupid as to not use protection. yes he could be telling the truth but also he could be lying.
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He could be telling you the truth or maybe even a lie. Though I am sure he doesn't want you to have a baby. If I were you ask his sister. Still use a condom for safe sex all the way. Getting the pill or shot would be good too.
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YES. Even if he has had a vicestomey it is still possible for you to get pregnant. (In that case extremely rare, but it has happened.) Only if his balls are completely gone can you believe he's not capable of getting you pregnant.
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dont believe what he says,you should ask his sister.Alot of guys say different things about that.
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If you have to ask us if you can trust your boyfriend, then you probably can't. Insist he wear a condom regardless, otherwise get on the pill.
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