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There is this woman at work who really is being rude to me.
The managers all like her, and I tried telling one of them that she was really being rude, and they all jumped on me.
what do I do? Should I just ignore her? obviously I can't go to any of the managers because of the extreme favoritism. help!
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Ignoring her would be the best thing to do. Sometimes you have to be a little rough to get the person to stop. But the best thing to do is either tell the manager that she is very rude to you and that you would like her to stop. If they don't listen then talk to the woman yourself. Using words like, "I'd really appreciate that..." and "It hurts MY feelings when you do that." That should get on her soft side and maybe she'll stop, or you girls can turn out to be good friends.
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i had this problem in werk too.what i did is took her to one side and sed "what the hell is your problem?" "what have i ever done to you?"
it werked she had nothing to say now we understand eachother.she might just be try to big herself up just dont rise to her bait just ignore it but if you cant then confront her.whats the werst that could happen.hope i helped let me know what happens?xxxxxx
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Either you should find yourself a new job, or try talking to the managers again and say "I really wouldn't try getting her fired on purpose, but is she ever rude to you guys in any way? Because she treats me like she doesn't like me at all." or you could ask her what problem she has with you, and if your managers don't believe you, get one of them to watch, and after that if its still not working out, I say get a new job, its not worth all the trouble.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ignore her, after a while it will all stop.
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Evidentally this girl has got a serious problem with her self, or she just knows she can get away with just bein mean to you. Just suck it up, dont let her know she bothers you, sooner or later she will knock it off. Dont quit because thats exactly what she thinks you'll do once you've had enough of her bitchyness.
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Keep a low profile. Try to be nice to her, and if she continues to be rude to you...ignore it.
Meanwhile, look for a new job.
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Next time she says something rude to you, tell her. "That was awfully rude what you just said." By being clued in, she should get the picture and hopefully stop. She might not realize she is doing it. If that doesn't work, keep a record of the things she does/says, and then present that to your managers.
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Try to ignore her. Also be nice to her and she'll probably be nice back. Hope I helped XOXO Michelle
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Just ign0re the stupid w0men is she w0nt be nice t0 y0u 0r y0u c0uld try t0 be nice t0 her maybe she will be nice back t0 y0u but if y0u have tried that then ign0re her.
x0x m0rgan
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Yes, you should ignore this woman and she probably will stop being rude to you. If you ignore her and only speak to her when there are people around, she will then stop being rude to you, once she notices you that you don't care, since you are ignoring her. If other co-workers have noticed that she is rude to you, gather them up and then talk to the managers at your work.
-Karen
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Replace her office Apple with a cheap PC, perfect payback...bwahaha.
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you should try ignoring her. and u could try being nice 2 her maybe she'll be nice back. she is probely mean2 u because you are new give her time. hoped i helped! please rate
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