ok theres a birthday party tonight.. this one kid (john) likes me alot.. hes nice and really cute but he can be obnoxious and makes up stuff alot.. theres this other kid(tom) who i like as a good friend.. and he doesnt like john and him finding out that i hooked up with john will make him mad.. i might like tom more than a friend.. and john wants to do something tonight with me (make out).. ive never kissed a guy before.. and i dont know which one i want to kiss.. and i dont know how to kiss! please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? annka answered Friday February 25 2005, 4:55 pm: hmm..your in a sticky situation..
1)you need to take a deep breath and stop panic...if you relax your herat might open.
2)our hearts are very tricky... you need to really look deep in your heart and see who you like more...who was by your side in your time of need...look at all the positive and negative sides of each boy
3)since you are not sure who you like more it might not be a good idea to make-out at the party...john might think that you like him the most ...then tom might back off beacuse your taken
4)it would be a great idea to see who u like more then date the person then you will worry about kissing but not rght now..
shake answered Friday February 25 2005, 4:51 pm: Well, im not really all that sure how to pick who you should kiss cuz, well, you havnt explained anything about you, barely anything about them and we dont live your life. Your an idiot to ask such a dumb questoin. Tard. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
jcpennypanties answered Friday February 25 2005, 4:45 pm: First, you got so much to learn in your life. Kissin is just something you learn over a lil practice, just go with the flow. But dont let nothin serious go on with you and the guy who is obnoxious. Just have fun. [ jcpennypanties's advice column | Ask jcpennypanties A Question ]
xoih3artyouxo answered Friday February 25 2005, 4:25 pm: y0u need t0 pick which guy Y0U like best. 0n h0w t0 kiss y0u s0rt 0f let the guy lead y0u 0n first then y0u f0ll0w in. Just f0ll0w what the guy d0es.
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xForeverxForgottenx answered Friday February 25 2005, 4:24 pm: i've worried about kissing too. like my friend told me"it just comes to you" i never believed him and worried about it anyway. it really does just come to you. just dont worry about it and try not to act nervous so he cant tell that you are. good luck and dont worry. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
toastnbutter answered Friday February 25 2005, 3:59 pm: you shouldn't worry. i think you should go wit john because then if you and tom break up it would be a lesser risk of friendship. whichever 1 u pick the kissing shouldn't be a promblem cause if da guy really likes you he will start it. so it's not a promblem. please dont rate me low lol and i hope i helped [ toastnbutter's advice column | Ask toastnbutter A Question ]
Mksangel1316 answered Friday February 25 2005, 3:56 pm: Well, just pick whomever you like best.
Kissing is really easy, actually.
Just let the guy lead. And it'll become like second nature to you.
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