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okk theres this boi lets say john nd i love him !! a lot hes my first love nd well he loves me too (nd i think its true cuzz i live 45 minutes away cuzz i moved) nd he still talks to me .. nd yesterday i told him that i wanted to see him one last time nd then i didnt wana see him agen and then he said why nd i was like cuzz i think its qwhat i shuld od nd he said i dont nd i said that i think it would be better that way nd then he said something bout space gives oppurtunity nd i get it but then he was like i dont wana lose you nd then we got in the big argument cuzz my friend got me to do it (if you wana or need to see the convo then IM me at
" theOnlyOne4me x " ) and well i dont kno if i made a mistake or not nd i really really need help on if he IMs me then shuld i go w/ it or shuld i stop what is tarted nd say i didnt mean it !! please help soon !! i really need it
xO - Confused
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i wanna see that convo....my sn is xoxbabiiphatx69...anyway...yes tell him you didnt mean it...cuz he obviously really does like you if he doesnt wanna lose you...feedback is Greatly Appreciated thnx!...dont forget to rate!
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I'm not sure if your friend should really think for you. I know you mentioned it, and felt like you needed to do it, which is ok, this is your decision, but if you really love this guy and you regret doing it, it might have been a bad choice, 45 minutes away isn't as far as it seems, but not seeing him so much isn't really healthy either, unless you just wanna use the phone all the time, or you can stay with a friend and spend time with them both for a week in the summer and a weekend during school, but the thing is, you would probably end up hurting your friend by being with him too much, so I am not sure if you should be in a long distance relationship if you're not that type of person, so, its basically what you feel that will tell you whether the decision you made to break up with him was right or wrong. And let your feelings do the thinking and talking, not your friend, she can help you through it, but just don't don't let her "get you to do it" you've got to think with your mind and whichever decision you make with your mind, your friend should support. But you should probably talk to him, try saying, "listen, I know this is hurting you, it may not show on me that I am hurting too, but breaking up with you was hard for me too, and you're not the only one whose hurting here, ok?" try assuring him that you don't feel any better for doing it, which you may feel better because no more 45 minute away boyfriend, but that might be about it.
-TheTeenGirl
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Before you two got into this argument, it sounded like this guy did like you, since he didn't want to stop seeing you and that he wanted to see you. You really need to talk to him and tell him that you didn't mean to say those things to him. If you truely love him and if he loves you, then you should give him and chance and start a long distance relationship, since it could work out with you two. You did make a mistake and you need to fix it before anything else happens. When he IM's you, talk to him and tell him that you want to stop this and that you didn't mean anything that you said.
-Karen
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if you really want 2 b friends wit dis guy den you should tell him you were just playing. please dont rate low lol
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