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Will you be my mom
so about a year ago, my dad and my step mom got a divorce. It really suc'd like any divorce, but my stEp mom blamed it on me...I still belive deep down that it was my fault, but everyone tells me it wasnt. Ive been through so many consolurs and crap, but i still don't feel good about it. I still rember the last night we talked...she told me how much she hated me...((the mom i had for the last 12 years just told me she hated me))then she refused to talk to me for the last like month she lived with us.
well my real mom's really f'd up, and my former step mom wont talk to me ever again..and i realli dont like my dads new g-f..i need a mom. im a teenage girl...my dad doesnt always get it..Where should i turn? I mean i can talk to my freinds...but i would love more then anything to have a mom...should i try apologizing to my former step mom, or call my real mmom...ee..lost
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well try to get to know your dads new girl friend and she can be like your mom, she can help you with teenage girl stuff. Talk to your dad about this, if you are uncomfortable with his girlfriend tell him and yall can work it out
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yyour life..ee....reeeally..f'd up
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Well the one you dont like, slap her, i mean the one that doesnt like you at all. You need to show her how fists fly. Your other mom say sorry, if that doesnt work, your screwed, you'll have to deal with it.
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Well, maybe you should try to sit down and talk with your former step-mom. I don't see why I should tell you to apologize to her- after all, you didn't do anything...right? Sit her down and ask her why she is blaming you, and see if you can work it out with her. But, try not to yell and things, that would only make it worse. You could also try and call your real mother. But, I think you should call ur step-mom because she has been there for the last 12 years. If it makes you feel better, then you can apologize to her, but, it's not your fault. Unless you have a really good friend, and her mom is like a mom to you, you could talk to her? well, I hope i hepled a littel bit! if you need anything else you can email me: HaLlWaYfIeStA44@ev1.net
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Maybe you should try both.. im sure your former step mom dont hate you she probably jus was really mad or something..jus call her and see how she's doin or something.. and your real mom do the same.. i mean i know you dont wanna fuck up as a mom and i know where your coming from with that cause my dad is a fuck up.. but jus call your mom and anyways and see how things are going and talk bout something that you know about her.. but if something goes wrong with talkin to either of em then i wouldnt try anymore and maybe you could try makin an older friend that could be kinda like a mother figure like a neighbor.. or even somebody in your family like an aunt or something.. hope i helped and best of luck to you..much luv dez
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I think you should try to work things out with your real mom and your step mom. Im sure your real mom loves you and even though your step mom says she hates you, she probably doesnt. Also try telling your dad how you feel. I am here anytime you wanna talk! Let me know how everything turns out. Hope my advice helps!
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this is a really tough question. well what i would do is maybe talk to a friends mom or an aunt that you have! you would probably feel more comfortable w/ your aunt cuz it's one of your family members but your friends moms are willing to help! i promise you that they won't turn you down! hope this helps!!!
~Alyssa
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it's not your fault. your step mom just wanted to put the blame on someone, probably because it's her fault. you don't need to apologize to anyone because you didn't do anything wrong. all u can do is wait, however, tell your dad when you don't like someone, because no one should be brought in to the family that you don't approve of. good luck.
<3Kayla
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your step mom is just lukin for someone to blaime and saw you as an easy target.she should have been mature about it and not blaime a kid.i wouldnt ever talk to your former steop mom shes a waste of space i would ring your real mom and meet up and just hav a heart to heart.also be honest with your dad cos you dont wana anouther mom who u dnt like.just tell him ur scared and he should be able to reasure you that it wont be like that agen.if taht doesnt werk talk to an aunt or a frends mum.hope i helped let me know what happens.xxxxx
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well you can try talking to your friends mom. You can tell her about what has happened in your family, and tell her that she would really like to have another women to talk things through with. I mean you cant talk to your dad about EVERYTHING. So try a friends mom. Im sure at least one of them will be happy to help you. Hope i helped!
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