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No one likes me
I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?
I am 13 years old.
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NO its NOT because of your glasses! i promise! its so funny becuase my cousin Brandi is SO pretty but she wears glasses! every guy likes her for her personality and it seems like you ahve a great one too! please dont feel like its your glasses! its not! and eventually the right guy will come along and like you for who you are! right now most guys are jerks, they just want to mess around with you, make out, etc,they dont really care about you....most of them but not all of them are like that!
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noooooo glasses are cool! no one should hate any one for having glasses! i thik some people look better with glasses! i dont know who you are but im sure your not ugly with glasses! if you feel that ugly with glasses then just get contacts! hope i helped
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well you can try contacts but that will change your image just for them.maybe be more outgoing
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*I* wear glasses. believe me, it doesn't have ANYTHING to do with your glasses at all. If you're interested in a guy, get to know him, and show him all of your great qualities. If he likes you, he likes you. If he doesnt, its NOT because of your glasses, and if it is, he's shallow, and not worth your time. Your time will come, and you WILL find someone.
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I wouldn't worry about it.As long as you got friends that's all you need.Boys don't mature until they get older.I'm sure it's not your glasses.Who said they don't like you?Maybe they do, but sometimes to get a boyfriend he has to start off as just a friend because you need to know eachother first.
Just make an effort to talk to some guys.
xO LiSa*
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Just be yourself. Don't try to change yourself to make people like you. Boys, at that age, are too shallow to realize that looks don't matter. It's what's on the inside that counts. So just hang in there. They'll realize, in time, what they're missing out on.
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u r are not ugly never get yourself down, for one thing and just because boys ont like doesn make ou ugly either none of the guys are right for you you will find the right guy it takes time and if you still think your are ugly then change your look:
makeup
hair
clothes
try contacts 2
when you do that and come back to school the boys will be lining up but remember if they didnt talk to you b4 and now they are since you changed your look then watch yourself dont fall in too deep they might be shallow i hope i helped and good luck!
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get contacts
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hey!..well hun i can garantee it aint your glasses i have glasses too and i am 15 and i have had plently of guys ..and it dont matter what kinda cool stuff your friend has.boys should leik you for you just be your self and have fun guys liek girls who are fun and nice and that are cool and that just are there selfs and have confediance . so get some confedence!.dont worry babout your glasses that dont matter just be you and have fun and have confidence i hope i helped and sorry if i didnt ..have fun
*Jessika*
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i think the real problem is your jealous of your friend zoe.. and you have a low self esteem,you have to be careful cos this jealousy could turn into you hating her so you need to write down at least ten things that you like about yourself and if youre that hung up on your glasses than get contacts.i promise you the moment you start having more confidence you will ahve the boys queing up to go out with you! hope i helped let me know what happens! xxxxx
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ok it shouldn't matter if all the guys want you or not. If you know that you are a nice sweet cool girl then the right guy will come along, it just takes time to get used to the idea of it taking awile. you have to decide if you are willing to change for the guy you like or if you are willing to be yourself and let the real you show because if you don't let the really you show then your not helping anyone, its almost like a big lie. you have to decide whats important and if a guy likes you for who you are because those are the relationships that count.
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"and she gets like an I-POD and an electric guitar and stuff"
Whats that have to do with anything? Do you think that by owning those two things you're cool? Damn, i must be frigg'n awesome then. Oh, wait....I am. Anyways, just cuz you think your ugly doesnt mean guys dont like you. Why dont you talk to one?
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I guarantee that it isn't your glasses, you do not need a guy right now. You should wait for the one that will sweep you off your feet, it may sound corny, but it happens. Be confident. You can't expect someone else to love you if you dont love yourself. Hope I helped. It Is Not Your Glasses!
~Nokomis~
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maybe you should try being more outgoing or somethin. its prolly not the glasses... my friend has glasses and she's had 2 really great boyfriends. be yourself, <3
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I dont think that its because of your glasses.Your time will come when boys want to go out with you and you become the center of their world but until then your just going to have to deal with the cards you've been dealt. Some people just have a certain thing about them that make people naturally drawn to them i.e. your frined. To get a boyfriend you shouldnt have to do anything if a guy doesnt like you for who you are then thats his own loss. One day youll find someone to like you for you are. Hope i have helped.
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Well first of all, I am sure you look awesome with or without your glasses. However, if you truly believe the reason no guys like you is becasue of them, you always have the option of contacts!
Now, let's be realistic: There are many people who have boyfriends on this earth who wear glasses. Even celeberties such as Britney Spears, Courteney Cox Arquette, Jennifer Aniston, and Julia Roberts, wear glasses, and look how successful they are in general!
Now if you are really concerned with being beautiful, try giving yourself a new look! Try changing things such as
*Your Clothes
*Your Hair
*Your Makeup
but remeber, do these things for you, not just for pleasing others!
Now about having an Ipod and having a guitar:
Many people have Ipods...but TONS do not. So if you really want one save up! (there are also ipod minis, which are less expensive).
If you want to play guitar, go to your local music store and ask about lessons!
Now I can't exactly tell you how to get a boy to like you, but what I can say is be yourself.
*Strike up a convo with him (ask about homework, classes, a new movie thats out, a sport he plays)
*Smile at him
*If you are confident enough, ask him to hang out!
GOOD LUCK!!
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Aw! I dont think its because you wear glasses. If thats thats the reason then its just stupid!! Dont worry about it. I think that your personality really matters to people and not your looks? Are you willing to change who you are for guys. Well if you want to and to feel better about yourself then maybe you should ask your parents for contacts. Try doing your hair and make up different. Dont ever change your personality cause you are already nice! x0
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