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Need to find out...
I'm hooking up with this guy, and I don't know if he's hooking up with other girls or not. We're not in a relationship or anything, but I would just like to know if he's with other girls or not. I don't want to straight out ask him, and i don't want to involve my friends, so is there a way I could get him to tell me without straight out asking him "are you hooking up with other girls?" All advice is appreciated. Thanks all!
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Ask his friends if you dont want to do that just like hint at him whilst talking to him.. like saying "all the girls must really like you.. dont you get asked out all the time?" then maybe he may say "yeah well im taken" or something like that OR, he might say something like "Na i wish" so there ya go just hint at him or ask his pals!
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In this day and age you have every right to know his past and/or current history. Same as he should want to know yours. So I don't think you would be out of line if you asked him.:)
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You --> "So, how's your girlfriend?"
Him --> "Huh? I don't have a girlfriend/how do you know about her?"
You --> "I could have sworn I saw you in town/at the mall with a girl the other day."
Him --> "I don't go into town [with girls]."
You --> "Oh...well, it must have been someone else then. Sorry!"
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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if by "hooking up" you mean having sex with-- you have every right to know if he's sleeping with other girls.
you deserve to have a relationship where you are the only woman. plus...every time you sleep with him...your sleeping with the other girls and every guy they ever slept with too...its pretty nasty if you think about it...that bed can sure get crowded.
ask him...and if a one on one relatioship is what you want...they you should demand it...and if he still wants to have his cake and eat it too...well then you dont need him...believe this--there are plenty of guys around looking for a girl that will be monogomous.. and its a hellofa lot safer when you know your partner isnt sleeping with dirty girls...
louise
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If i where you i would casully say how is your dateing life? you know something like that.
Lovely.
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I think that you should really just ask him. I don't think he would mind and you could get into a conversation first and then just ask him, you know? And that is the only thing I can really think of.
Emily
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I think that you should just ask him. Im not sure of any other ways that you can find out unless you ask his friend and they might now. If you want to "hook" up with this guy then just ask him because you will have to know if he has other girls or not. It shouldnt be a big deal! x0
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