hey, i'm emily and i TOTALLY luv the OU sooners!! i like harry potter, skateboarding, biking, reading, and hanging with my friends! i like green day and jesse mccartney. if u have any questions, feel free to ask and i will TRY to answer them!
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I am 13 and a girl,I like this guy and hes soooo nice. then my friend gets to sit next to him is history. then she tells me"I like the same guy as you" i want this guy to ask me out, but i wouldn't have the guts to say yes. How do i think this out? (link)
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Well it sounds like you like him more so I would say yes when he asks you out of course! Your friend probably won't care if she knows how much you like him.
Emily
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hey my friends going through suthing right now to get over a guy what are some songs that just mean "basically im over you and dont need you" because im really proud of her and i want to make her a cd of songs wtih this point
thanx ill rate high (link)
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uhh
since u been gone by kelly clarkson
happy ending my avril lavinge
thats all i can think of. LATERZ!
**~Em~**
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Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do? (link)
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I think you should just be fine with it because he said he wouldnt go for her. But if he starts to get a little flirty with her, I would actually SLAP HER SILLY!! I would do that if she was doing that to MY bf. So, yea. Bye!
**~eMiLy~**
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I like this guy. ill call him "carl". and i already went out with him but people told me that he cheated on me so i broke up with him. and after that i got really sad cuz i still loved him. so i called him a week later and we talked for an hour. and we became friends again which made me happy. then he asked my friend if he should ask me back out and she said yes so i thought he was gonna. then one of my friends told me she likes "carl". so i got really sad. then he asked her out and now they are going out. but she told me before he asked her out that they made out a little. i was gonna cry. and i REALLY REALLY want him back. what should i do? i rate good (link)
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I think you should talk with your friend and ask her why she went out with your ex. Also, I think you need to tell your ex that you still have feelings for him and maybe he will understand. If he really does care for you to, then you guyz should get back together!! Hope I helped, bye bye.
**~eMiLy~**
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Theres a girl at my school (not my friend but i talk to her) and her boyfriend recently broke up with her. She's heart broken and feels that she isn't good enough. Now she wont eat..shes refusing to eat and its scaring everyone. She is dropping pounds by the second and is always depressed. I really want to help her, but I don't know her family personally enough to tell them. Should I let her suffer? i would feel wrong not telling anyone. (link)
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I think you need to sit down with her sometime and really talk to her about what is going on. You need to just say that you want to help her and she is not helping herself by not eating and she just needs to kinda get over it. She will find another guy. Hope I helped ya!
**~eMiLy~**
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oh well my friend has this really great boyfriend. and i think i might be jelous..but i dont know. she knows that i thinks hes cute/hot and i promised her i would never go out with him jsut for her. but im knida jelouse of her. what can i do? thanks! (link)
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What I would tell you to do is just forget him. I mean, its her boyfriend and I know you will find a guy for you and what do you know, maybe some day SHE will be jealous of YOU! But its not a good idea either to go out with him if they break up because she might get mad. So, just keep looking for a guy and I know you will find one! Hope I helped, bi!
**~eMiLy~**
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My best friend and I got in fight like a month ago and it awas the stupidest fight ever I cant even remember what it was... well we kinda lost communication cause she just started ignoring me(and what sucks is we hang out with the same ppl so I will be standing next to her but we wont talk) and then like last week i was aim and we started apoligizing and got everything worked out... but at school its like we still arent friends cause i will be standing right next to her and we wont say one word... it feels really awkard... but i miss her so much and I dont know what to do I mean Ive told her how much I miss talking to her... I feel like Ive been replaced... I just want my best friend back and I dont know how to do it? I have cried so much just because of the fact that i cant talk to her and tell her everything anymore... it hurts me so much at school to be standing next to her and not talk... i cant really tell anyone how im feeling cause I just want to cry... I am trying to make my self realize that were just not bestfriends anymore but its way too hard... i need advice do I need to make myself realize were just not the same or do i gotta do something and get My BF back and if so HOW???
PLEASE HELP!!!
SIGNED:I WANT MY BF BACK! (link)
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Ok, well, what I would do is just talk to her when you guys are right next to eachother. Just talk like nothing ever happened, just normal. Then, it will probably be all fine. Bi bi!
**~eMiLy~**
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ok well theres this kid whos graduating supposeably this year and well i reaally like him like love him and well im not aloud to date him because well lets say the my dad is presidist and well the worat part is that hes a ladys man and he flirts but i dont know if he likes me so what should i do because im thise people who are afraid to get hurt but no matter how hard i deny im afrisd that hell have my heart when he leaves and it kills me so go against my family or what plus my brother are the same way and they both go to the same school helppppppppppppppppppppppp (link)
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Well, forget about him because he is graduating anyway, so you will probably not see him anymore. Plus, if you cant date him, I wouldnt even try.
Emily
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my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do? (link)
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God, I cant believe you would actually want a guy like that back! You do not need him, he is bad for you. All he probably likes about you is your boobs, so dont fall for it. You will find another guy, just not this one.
Emily
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ok, so a guy i know and love is stareing at me now that i have boobs... but what if thats all he likes me for? i want to love him , but i dont want him to break my heart. (link)
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I can already tell you that you definetly dont need him because if he is just going to like you for that, I would never have anything to do with him. Plus, that is just gross.
Emily
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Ok...
im dating this guy its gonna be 2 years soon...but hes really jelous like he always think im flriting with every guy i talk to..and i had this best friend we'll call him tyler..well since me and my boyfriend are fighting alot about the flirting thing im hanging arould tyler more and i think im starting to like him more than a friend but i still love my boyfriend and im extremly confused..i need some help fast!
thanks if ur advice isnt mean ill rate all 5's (link)
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Well, I think you should just break up with your boyfriend. Because it seems that even if you go to TALK to a guy thats your friend, your bf will think you are flirting. So, I would go ahead and see if you can get together with Tyler. Just tell your bf that you dont think things are going to work out if he is going to be jealous all the time, when you really arent flirting. Hope I helped!
Emily
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ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean! (link)
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Wow, what I would do is try and call her if you have her number. But if you dont maybe you can IM her or email her or something. If you dont have those, I dont know what to do, sorry.
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i'm 13/female and i've never waxed or shaved before. can someone please help me by suggesting what brands are good and what i should do and how you wax or shave and if it hurts or not and other info thx (link)
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Ok, well, if you are shaving your armpits, it doesn't hurt unless you do it really hard. What I would do is when you are in the shower, put a lot of soap on your armpits and then just shave them and wash it off after. If you are shaving your legs, do the same and this NEVER hurts. It actually feels good when its done! Just put some soap on it, and make sure your legs are wet, and then just pull the razor up on your legs. Just real smooth strokes and do it soft, not hard, but not TOO soft either. Afterwards, like once you are out of the shower, you dont have to do this, but it feels real good to put some lotion on after. Now if you're talking about, well, shaving some of the hairs off your butt because you dont want them hanging out of your bathing suit, I'm sorry, I haven't got there yet!! But I hope this helps you!
Emily
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OK heres the dealio
i HATE showers...they just seem like a waste of time for me. Does anyone know any ways that will make showering fun?? no sarcastic answers please. Thanks (link)
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Well, I hated showers too until I got a shower radio and those are fun cuz you can tune it to your fav radio station and sing to the songs lol. And one time I was even dancing and slipped and that hurt, so don't dance :).
Emily
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I'm hooking up with this guy, and I don't know if he's hooking up with other girls or not. We're not in a relationship or anything, but I would just like to know if he's with other girls or not. I don't want to straight out ask him, and i don't want to involve my friends, so is there a way I could get him to tell me without straight out asking him "are you hooking up with other girls?" All advice is appreciated. Thanks all! (link)
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I think that you should really just ask him. I don't think he would mind and you could get into a conversation first and then just ask him, you know? And that is the only thing I can really think of.
Emily
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Theres this guy that I have been friends with forever and he has always liked me. The other night we were in his room and we kissed but it was just a peck. I didn't even like him and now after that I am starting to like him. Theres only one problem. He's a really mature and great guy and hes my type exactly and I think he'd make a terrific boyfriend except for my mom thinks hes too young for me. I'm 14 and he's 12. I promise you, I think he's more mature than me, hes definatly more experienced he already lost his virginity. I'd have to keep this relationship from my parents. I really want to date him because personality wise, he's great. Looks wise, he needs to have a growth spurt. He will soon. Should I wait a few years till he does? And then my parents might let me, or should I sneak it and date him now and take the risk of humiliation? I really am liking him and I don't want to wait! But I think it might be best...I need opinions!
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What I would do is convince your parents that you think he is right for you. They might be convinced and let you go out with him and he could be your boyfriend. That is what I would do and I hope I helped!
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there's this guy that i like and i haven't told him that i like him but i'm not the kind of person that really does that. Well, over spring break the guy went on a cruise and today he had pics of these 2 girls that he met that were drop dead gorgeous. He kept talking about one of the girls and how they were gonna take him on a cruise next year and how he might move to indiana to be with one of them and i know that he can't have been serious because he only knew them for a week and i know he was just trying to get me and my friend to be jealous but then he kept being all like a jerk and it pissed me off. But i still like him. Its so hard because i really like him but he can be such a jerk sometimes. He can be a showoff and stuff but he's my friend. I don't know. I don't wanna tell him i like him because then he will be like all weird and maybe be disgusted. I don't know. Help me! (sry its so long) (link)
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Wow, I had a problem JUST like this! My friend that was a boy, well, I liked him. What I would tell u to do is just to tell him. He will not care, yea, maybe he will be disgusted but it will wear off him later and soon he won't even care. Plus, later on you will probably not like him anymore.
Emily
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Ok, this past week, I went to Disneyworld to march in the parade with the band. (yes, I'm a bandgeek...) Well, my really good friend, Nicole, was sitting with me on the busride to Floriday (24 hours, yuck!) and the way there and the 1st few days of Disney were fine, but then she started getting on my nerves. At the time, I didn't think she was a lesbian at all. She was just NOT giving me my space and was hanging around me A LOT. She basically wouldn't leave me alone. And from then on, she started acting really weird. I'm gonna tell you the things that she did, but they're not gonna be in order lol. Well, for one, we were at Epcot and playing in the fountain like 4-year-olds, but hey it was fun lol. She kept picking me up and trying to get on top of me. And then, long after we dried off, she had wet spots on her boobs. So disgusting. On the bus ride home, I'm like, trying to sleep, and every time I look, she's watching me. Then later, I woke up later that night and her butt was pressed against mine and if I'm not mistaken, it was moving up and down. Then on the monorail, she has all this room, but is like, on top of me. So I move over, and she moves closer, and that kept happening. Just a lot of that kind of stuff. So me and my new friends Kelly and Molly and my other friend Amber ditched her at Magic Kingdom, and yeah, we're not talking (not that I care). But now, I'm just really freaked out. I told my friends, and we thought about it for awhile, and a lot of stuff she told us before was all starting to make sense and we really think she's bi or a lesbian. So what should I do? I don't really want to be her friend anymore, and I'm just really freaked out. I could probably say more, but I don't want this to be too long, so if you want more details, IM me on x HappyBunni16 x. Sorry so long, but I'm really scared.
P.S. I have nothing against lesbians, just when they hit on me and my friends. (link)
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OK!! Wow ur so called "friend" sounds crazy. What I would do is just tell her how you feel. She might understand and figure out what she was doing and stop. But if she takes it the wrong way, I would just, well, not ditch her, but you know, maybe just be a friend to her, not a BEST friend, u know?
Emily
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