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my boyfriend is rushing me
my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do?
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It make seem like you want him, but really look deep down in your heart. Do you really want someone who gets mad because you won't let him violate your body? And, if your around him, have someone with you because he sounds like he could get dangerous.
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Well gosh!! This guy must just be interested in your boobs than anything else! Im soo sry that you still like him but that is a jerk thing to do. If he really loves you then he will take you back! Hope i could help.
peace-lindsey
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God, I cant believe you would actually want a guy like that back! You do not need him, he is bad for you. All he probably likes about you is your boobs, so dont fall for it. You will find another guy, just not this one.
Emily
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Forget the asshole! He was only in it for your body! My ex-boyfriend was like that also. I think you should move on from him, because he may not like you for you, but for your body. It may not be like that, but I don`t know, because I haven't seen anything.. so try to move on, you deserve so much better!! Hope i helped =)
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ok hunny, i know you really like this guy but im sorry. he's really no good for you. he should have stopped the first time you said it. you shouldnt have had to yell it. and now he isnt talking to you. thats not fair to you. you deserve a guy who knows his limits and should know when to stop. this guy sounds like a jerk. i mean he calles you a "big boobed babe," tries to get on you, and because you wouldnt let him he stopped talking to you. that makes no sense. if he really loved you he would still talk to you. and if this were me i would try and find someone new. i know its hard but its for the best hun. just think, there is someone out there who will be willing to wait, and to treat you well. im not saying these things to make u feel worse or hurt you, im just trying to tell you what i would do. good luck hunny!
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Well I think this guy is just using you if he was unbuttoning your shirt, you told him to stop he told you to "shut up" basically, and you told him to stop again he got mad and left your house slamming the door (literally breaking the glass. This guy is definately just using you to get into your pants! If i was you i would just let him go!
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Wow! that is hard. maybe you should talk to him about it and tell him that your not ready to go that deep in a relationship yet. or that you were just surprized and didn't know what to do. but you really need to understand you and if still can't after you talk to him then you need to move on if he doesn't uunderstand you how can he love you? well i hope i helped! Good Luck!:)
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smack your self in the head because that dude is bad news you will get hurt or if your sure make a banner to put in front of the school to say your sorry then talk to him and say that its just not time for "that" yet its kinda complecated to do this but dont be afriad to be embarassed just try to stay public if he does this you know movies resturants things like that.
hope it works out for the best
Solemnstar
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If he truly loved you, he wouldn't do that to you. You don't deserve a guy like that, you can do so much better. You should be proud of yourself for standing up for yourself like that. Many girls are peer-pressured into rushing. Then when you get older you remember "wow, I lost my virginity to *name*, I didn't even love him".
I know a good site to go to, it's www.pureloveclub.com. If you go to chastity Q&A then go to "how to stay pure" it has some categorys. It basically tells you how to say no, and what you should think about when a guy trys to force you into it.
Hope I helped!
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Dump him, You dont need some guy like that forcing you into doing stuff you refuse to do. Get out and find someone else dont let this guy push you around. Why should you get him back hes a perfetic guy and you could do way much better!!!
take my advice and find a new man.
luv roxie
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Are you really really sure you want him back? He was forcing you into doing things that you told him you werent happy about and yet he still carried on. It also seems as if he has an anger problem as this was a complete over reation to what happened. What if next time this anger is taken out on you? I know that maybe this sounds harsh but im just offering a different perspective on stuff. Just think really hard about whether he deserves you because it really doesnt sound as if he's worth it. Hope it all goes ok x
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