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my long time boyfriend is starting to rush me. i am growing in to a very "big boobed babe" as he says, like last night, after we ate at my house he started to kiss me every where. when he went down to the chest kiss, he started to unbutten my shirt, when i told him to stop he told me to just stop talking. when i yelled stop he got up and left my house slaming the door so hard he broke the glass, i have dated a lot of guys, but i am drawn to this one, he wont talk to me and i want him back.... what should i do? (link)
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ok hunny, i know you really like this guy but im sorry. he's really no good for you. he should have stopped the first time you said it. you shouldnt have had to yell it. and now he isnt talking to you. thats not fair to you. you deserve a guy who knows his limits and should know when to stop. this guy sounds like a jerk. i mean he calles you a "big boobed babe," tries to get on you, and because you wouldnt let him he stopped talking to you. that makes no sense. if he really loved you he would still talk to you. and if this were me i would try and find someone new. i know its hard but its for the best hun. just think, there is someone out there who will be willing to wait, and to treat you well. im not saying these things to make u feel worse or hurt you, im just trying to tell you what i would do. good luck hunny!
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So, what do you do when the people you used to be closest with begin to ignore you? when they forget you have feelings and make snide comments?
What do you do when people keep secrets from you? When the same person tries to hit on and steal your best friend?
What should I do? (link)
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try to talk to them. if they keep ignoring you, SAY SOMETHING! dont be afraid to confront them because then they will just keep walking all over you and talking behind your back. its hopeless if u dont say anything. ask them why they talk about you behind your back and tell them to stay away from your best friend. do whatever you have to in order to get your message through!
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i have a boyfriend who i love so much!! but then i met another guy and i think i'm starting to like him..i think my boyfriend is getting tired of me now and he doesn't call me anymore but the new guy does..what do i do??? (link)
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ok. first off, maybe you dont love this guy as much as you think. i dont say that to be mean, but if u think you like this new guy; chances are you do! otherwise you wouldnt be so confused. your boyfriend is your boyfriend. he has responsibilites that come with that. like calling you and talking to you. but yours doesnt do that. so maybe its time for the two of you to take a break. and considering the new guy does call, he is showing that he likes talking to you and obviously wants to get to know you. so talk to him. get to know him. then see what happens from there!
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
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i think there is a definate chance that this kid still likes you. he never said he didnt right? well then what are you worrying about?...just TALK to him. flirt a little. who knows what can happen. at this point anything is possible. just play your cards right. dont look to desperate and dont be too clingy. i think its good that your friends are talking to him too. keep that going. but make sure they dont annoy him. just keep your head high! good luck! :)
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 months now, and we really love each other. i'm 15 and he is 16, and going to be 17 next month. he thinks everything is perfect in our relationship and i feel the complete opposite. like we will go out and it will be the most amazing time ever, but then he finds someone to completely ruin the magic of it all. like he will go somewhere and wont talk to me or lie about what he did etc. ( i know he lies sometimes but i dont tell him i know ) he always asks me why im upset and i just say im not and he always asks me why i dont tell him things and its because everytime i call him to talk to him about something he asks me to call him back and i have gotten so fed up with it i just dont call back anymore and then he like freaks out.. and he has been lying to me about him smoking.. and all he does is hang out with his friends.. he talks about them non stop, like i dont know if he wants me to be jealous or what.. but i guess its kind of working.. i dunno, how can i talk to him ? am i being selfish ?
- i dont want to break up with him though, i mean, i really love him, and i almost feel like i am being stupid for putting up with all that i am, but i dont know, please help :( i'll rate high (link)
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ok. first of all. take a deep breath. if you really love him and he loves you, he should be honest with you. confront him about his lying and ask him about the smoking. you cant control what he does, but at least it shows that you care about him enough to ask him. the only thing you can really do is hope that he will be honest with you now. and when he starts talking about his friends, try and change the subject to you guys as a couple, or great memories you guys have. if he gets mad then just tell him you want him to talk about other things than just his friends. tell him there are other things in life worth talking about. dont be mean. just be honest. talk to him.
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ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl? (link)
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if she told you flat out that she is willing to make out with you, anything is possible. especially because she said she likes you. but be careful not to push to hard. if something is supposed to happen...it will. dont be pushy or rude. just be yourself and see what happens from there!
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