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So, what do you do when the people you used to be closest with begin to ignore you? when they forget you have feelings and make snide comments?
What do you do when people keep secrets from you? When the same person tries to hit on and steal your best friend?
What should I do?
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Its funny thta you say this because the same thing happen ot me. We were best friends and one day she just started ignreoing me. No she is friends with the girl that teased me. Sometimes it is best if you move on, find another bets frined, maybe thta will get her thinking about she misses being your friend. Ask her , ask her why she is ignoring you and if she ignroes you again htne for sure you no she is not someoen you wnat me be friends with.
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If there starting to ignore you then thats not right. If they make rude comments about you then why even bother with them? You will loose a lot of friends through your life. Try making some new friends even though itll be hard to get rid of your old group but if they arent treating you with resepct then drop em.
~Brina~
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Well, you get a new friend and tell this one..see ya!
Tell your best friend if she get's stolen you will never speak to her again.If she's smart she already see's what jerks the other people are being.
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it sounds like these people arent really true friends. talk to them, tell them how youre feeling. chances are they'll either feel really bad, and if they dont then ditch them, not entireley but just dont be as SUPER CLOSE with them. hope that all goes well. check my site and let me know how it goes. <33
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I would not be their friends anymore because they are just not worth it and they shouldn't treat you like that if they are your so called friends!
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ah ha! welcome to the real world honey. Ive been through the exact phase with my friends. You just need to find new ones.Yah its hard but take chances..grown outta your shell...be free!!
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Secrets are secrets. Thats why their secrets. The're not meant to be told widely. If you're to greedy to not understand people dont want you to know everything about them, then you're dumb. Did you ever think you might be the problem in the drifting off of your friend?
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Try to confront them. Tell them how they make you feel. How old are you anyways? If your in the teenage years (probably more younger than older) people change. Sometimes for the better, sometimes for the worse. It seems like these people aren't very good friends. Maybe you should try to get some new friends, try to become closer friends with some other people. BUT if you feel these people are worth trying to become friends with again, and forgiving them, you can. In my eyes they seem like they're not worth becoming friends with again =. Maybe they started hanging out with the wrong crowd. Hope whatever you decide to do makes you happier.
Hope I helped!
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try to talk to them. if they keep ignoring you, SAY SOMETHING! dont be afraid to confront them because then they will just keep walking all over you and talking behind your back. its hopeless if u dont say anything. ask them why they talk about you behind your back and tell them to stay away from your best friend. do whatever you have to in order to get your message through!
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Hey i had the same problem. When i was in 7th grade my best friend started hanging out with other people and leaving me out. I started to feel really bad. What you have to do, or what i did is talked to her on IM. I told her how i felt and said i started to feel ignored. So try talking to your best friend and see how it works out.
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