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ok what should i do i mean i like this guy well were together but he always is tryin to make me pissed off and crap and is a total suck up with my mom and when he comes over all he wants to do is be with my mom and brother and totally ignore me and if i dont do what he says he gets all pissed off and threatens to leave and break up with me? help! what should i do?!!
Thanks Kayla Ann!
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Wow wow wow...you need to get out of this relationship, you do not want this guy, trust me, please break up with him even if you feel strong love towards him, I understand that you may love him a lot, but if you got married to a guy like that, you will realize you made a big mistake, and you won't be able to take him out of your life because you'll have kids I'm sure, most likely you will, guys who threaten you if you don't do what they say, it will probably become threatening your life, I am telling you now, I can't tell you what to do, but please do not let this go on, don't ever let a guy control you, only you know whats best for you, not him. I hope you get rid of this guy, and if he starts threatening you about something, go to your parents fast. Thanks for asking, good luck.
-TheTeenGirl
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You should break up with him. You may not want to but it's better off that way. He's not treating you like he should. And saying he'll break up with you is not good either. The best thing to do is end the relationship. I hope I helped! ♥ good luck
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First of all, you can be happy that he's at least trying to like your parents. I've brought boyfriends home, who say hi, then just wanna go downstairs and make out. But, he's going too far. Remind him that hes dating YOU not your family. Try going out with him instead of staying in. Or try talking to your family, to tell them to back off your boyfriend. If I were you though, I'd probably get fed up.
Plus if he's getting mad at you because your not doing what he says, you may want to dump him. He might have some control issues that could get worse as your relationship wares on.
~some girl
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Hi Kayla Ann,
Unfortunately, this guy sounds like he's playing games with you. I would definitely back up a bit with him. What he needs is a little dose of doubt when it comes to you. Right now, it seems as if he's pretty sure of your affection for him but you're not getting the attention YOU need. The next time he comes over and wants to be with your mom and brother, I would just quietly slip out of the room. And no matter how long it takes, let him come to you. When he does, appear that you are EXTREMELY busy doing something that doesn't concern him at all. That will do three things. One, it will peak his curiosity. Two, it will let him know that you can live with AND without him if you choose and Three, it will insert a question of doubt in his mind. A few words of caution, when he does come looking for you, DON'T act as if you're angry with him. Act as if it's the most natural thing in the world. Just be nice but quiet. Smile sincerely at him. Also, the next time he threatens to leave and break up with you, say, "If that's really what you want, no problem." Turn around and leave. Trust me, he WILL come after you if you do it calmly without getting angry or crying. He will be wondering what's up and also will think hard about it the next time he threatens you.
Good luck sweetie!
Linda
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Well if he makes you feel so crapy break up with him before he does with you and then makes you feel worse. and no guy should ever make you feel that way.
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your way to good for tht if he treats u like that then just break up with him! good luck! =) x0x
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