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my ex boyfriend
ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth!
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hey babe! i seriously think he likes u. trust me. but if he has a gf, wait. i mean put urself in her shoes, let whatever between them happen cause i have a feeling you'll get your chance. it seems as if he likes u, ;). maybe just have a couple more people ask to make sure or ask urself. if u need more help, u know where to reach me. peace.!
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well i dont know baybe he just uses u for when no ones around or maybe he doesnt know if he likes u or not
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i think there is a definate chance that this kid still likes you. he never said he didnt right? well then what are you worrying about?...just TALK to him. flirt a little. who knows what can happen. at this point anything is possible. just play your cards right. dont look to desperate and dont be too clingy. i think its good that your friends are talking to him too. keep that going. but make sure they dont annoy him. just keep your head high! good luck! :)
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Honestly it is hard to tell. He might still like you or maybe he just wants to be friend. You could always try going up to him or talking to him on the phone/internet and be like "would you ever go back out with me?" and see what he says. It sounds like he might still like you but I can't honestly say for sure if he does or not. It does sound like he does. But I could be wrong he might be someone who likes you just as a friend. If I knew you guys and I saw him and the way he acted I would be able to get a more exact assumption(sp?). Good Luck with whatever happens. I am sorry that this didn't help much but I tryed my best.
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I think he still likes you as a friend...
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well then babe, you came to the right place because i always tell the truth.. whether you want to hear it or not. and in this case its a good thing you want to hear it. you say that he smiled.. which is a good sign. he may still like you. but he has a friend murphy who also likes you. he may not pursue you because of loyalty to his friend, if you know what i mean. that could very easily break apart their friendship, and it's never good to be the girl to get in between that. another reason he may have smiled is because he was thinking back on a good time with you. that doesnt mean he wants to go out with you again. it just means he was happy and it was a good time in his life. for example, say you went to the beach and met this boy. you and this boy like eachother and hang out constantly. but he lives across the country. at the end of your vacation, you are sad to be leaving him, but chances are you will never see him again. and thats ok because you had a good time and you were happy. that boy will always be a wonderful memory, but would it be possible to go back and relive the same dream with the same boy? its not very likely.
you guys went out once, which means you have definite chemistry. and you have liked him for a long time now, so there must be somethign there. but dont get your heart set on just this one guy. there are tons of other ones out there, and your young still! you have plenty of time to date plenty of guys. if this one is really special though, it will work out. and i hope it all goes well for you.
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Well, it sounds like he could still like you. But I would'nt interfere with him and his girlfriend. I would definately wait to see what happens with him and his girlfriend though. Maybe you could hang out with him to get to know him better, and who knows what could happen!
-Hope I helped.
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Dear,
First of all I do not want to sound disparaging but he has a girlfriend so you will have to wait if you want to get back together. I have two theories one is that he misses your company as a friend so he is slowly trying to build a friendship because he wants you in his life but not as a girlfriend. Or of course he might have remembered what it is like to be with you and he wants to get back together. However I think it is most likely to be the first one because if he wanted to get back together with you he would be free in the first place.
About him not giving an answer to the question it is possible that he saw this as a trick question and he did not want to offend you, but there is a chance that it was his way of saying yes.
I think the best thing to do is to gradually build a friendship that could later become something more. You two should start talking to each other again because otherwise nothing will happen and you will just have this odd tension between the two of you. Only time will tell if he really wants to get back together but I think there is a very good chance he does. Whatever you do take it slowly and do not rush him.
Good luck!
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I'm sure he still likes you. But at 14, life moves pretty fast. The brutal truth is that you should not waste your time even thinking about him while he has another girlfriend. I don't say this because of some moral objection or anything, but simply that if he can play one off against the other he will. Guys are like that. Instead of concering yourself whether or not he likes you, just enjoy life and if and when another guy comes long, give the new guy a chance. If this guy does like you and wants you in his life as a gf, he has to do something about it. The next move is not yours.
Hope this helped.
P.S. If he does break with his current gf and pursues you later, then decide at that time what you want. You might have found a great bf you wouldn't trade for anything in that time. Maybe you are available and interested again. Never make a decision until you have to because 1. It may never happen and 2. you never know what is going on in your life at the time until it does happen.
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He might, or maybe he just doesnt want to hurt you.
Who knows. Easiest thing to do is to stop over analyzing and just ask him.
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ok there is a chance that maybe he still likes you.
but ur saying that he has a girlfriend?
i dunno maybe he has some feelings for you, im not sure. but what you could do is get someone to ask him like seriously and wait till he answers with an yes or a no.
good luck. let me know how it turns out iight?
love always
xoxo amore
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ok there is a chance that maybe he still likes you.
but ur saying that he has a girlfriend?
i dunno maybe he has some feelings for you, im not sure. but what you could do is get someone to ask him like seriously and wait till he answers with an yes or a no.
good luck. let me know how it turns out iight?
love always
xoxo amore
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