Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do?
xOalmaOx answered Thursday April 7 2005, 9:23 pm: yu should keep him away from her! watch her! have yur friiends watch her so she doesnt flirt and stuff.. but if yur b*f really likes yu and is a good b*f then i dont think yu are gonna have any problems x0-
YOURmyONLYhope answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 4:46 pm: Okay i know it`s hard to believe but if you put a oppurtunity in front of most guys..they`ll take it in a heartbeat..it doesn`t mean they does`nt love you it just means they are a normal guy.They don`t think before they do something and than when they`ve done it and your angry at them they appologize and give you alll this crap about them needing you..if you love your boyfriend give him a chance..but if he gives her a chance..get rid of him..there are some decent guys out there that won`t even look at another girl because there so madly in love with you..wait for him don`t waste your time on someone that will fall for someone else while there with you.. [ YOURmyONLYhope's advice column | Ask YOURmyONLYhope A Question ]
soonerfreak128 answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 4:41 pm: I think you should just be fine with it because he said he wouldnt go for her. But if he starts to get a little flirty with her, I would actually SLAP HER SILLY!! I would do that if she was doing that to MY bf. So, yea. Bye!
Lovely2 answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 4:04 pm: Trust your boyfriend, if he really cares about you he wont do anything to hurt you, if you cant trust him, maybe you dont like him as much as you thought.
S_C answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 3:54 pm: The only thing you can do is trust your boyfriend. Remember that he's with you, NOT her. That must mean something. If she's a true slut she could get any guy she wanted, and she might like your guy, but obviously he wants you.
He said he wouldn't go for her, and if you truly care you'll trust him.
For all you know he could be cheating on you with her and be really good at hiding it, heck any guy could be donig that to any girl, but the basis of any relationship whether it be family/family, you/friend, you/teacher, you/boyfriend, is T.R.U.S.T. You can't have a real relationship unless you trust each other, and so you'll just have to trust that he cares for you. Just talk to him if you're really worried, but he might get offended that you would think he'd do that kind of thing and it could end up in a huge fight. This probably isn't what you want to hear, but I'm being realistic. If you're seriously worried, talk to him about it, otherwise just trust that your guy is YOUR guy, and ONLY YOUR guy!! [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
kristina24 answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 3:43 pm: Talk to her... politely... that shows that your not actually scared of her "trying" to make moves on your boyfriend because you trust him and know that he won't go with a slut like her. :D lol [ kristina24's advice column | Ask kristina24 A Question ]
gakkuhideto answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 3:42 pm: If your boyfriend really cares about you, he won't have a thing to do with her. She can't take him away unless she physically kidnaps him, otherwise it's completely his decision who he goes out with. And if he dumps you for her, then he was a horrible boyfriend and you should forget about him. But I'm sure he really loves you and will stay with you no matter what! She's probably trying to "take him away" because she knows it bothers you. You should try being super nice to her, it might make her die of shock ;) [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
Solemnstar answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 1:46 pm: dump him babe hes not serious about this and only uses you till he can get somebody "better" by that i mean hes shallow and dont careabout your feeling if somebody he thinks is cuter comes along
dont feel bad though
IveGotPinkJazzShoes answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 1:45 pm: Well if your boyfriend says he would never go for her then you should trust him. the slut will soon see that she is never going to get him and has just made herself look like a total retard as she was throwing herself at your boyfriend and he didnt even notice her because he was too busy looking at you! lol!
Hope i helped! [ IveGotPinkJazzShoes's advice column | Ask IveGotPinkJazzShoes A Question ]
powertrash answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 1:42 pm: There really isn't a problem. You're creating one for yourself.
You just need to trust your boyfriend and ingore the slutty girl, which is what you're already doing. As long as you trust your boyfriend, you shouldn't have a problem. [ powertrash's advice column | Ask powertrash A Question ]
Karen answered Wednesday April 6 2005, 1:31 pm: If your boyfriend promised he wouldn't go for her, then you should trust him, since he's your boyfriend and just ignore this girl who is trying to take him away from you. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
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