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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



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If it dosen't seem right, then you need to think about it. He sounds like a really great guy, and you a great girl. So, if you really love him, and want him BAD (hehe) then do it! Maybe just like when he's walking you home or something (if he ever does idk) just when your standing on your porch, let him go 90% in, then u go the other 10%, then kiss! Hope i helped

xKendall10x


Does anybody have any cool, inexpensive ideas that i could do to my room? My comforter now is purple green and blue..im not getting a new comforter. Thanks (link)
Awesome colors! Paint your walls green, (i hope it's lime green) and then buy a cute (maybe fuzzy) chair that is either blue or purple or pink. I don't know what kind of wood (white, brown, black, silver) you have in ur room, but i recommened white or brown. Hang pictures, or posters (that u can get out magazines) and just keep it clean and comfortable. That's what makes a room neat.

Hope i Helped

xKendall10x


me and my friend found a baby blackbird yesterday whilst mowing the lawn.Its hurt its wing. we kept it in a cage over night and put her in a rabbit run this morning.Its mum keeps on coming and feeding him and we don't no what to do. should we lets him go or should we keep him for a couple more nights. by the way next door have five cats!
Cheers James (link)
It's good that you took it into your home. I actually have done the exact same thing with a bird that my neighbors (awful) were swinging around by a swing. They had tied string to it's leg! Anyway, sorry for the interuption. Call the vet, and ask them what to do. I did that. We gave the bird to a helping animal center, recommended by the vet!

Hope i Helped,

xKendall10x


ok ... so my mom said that if i loose 10 pounds shed give me 100 dollers!! the problem is..i dont know how.. i cant exercise regularly cause i never have time im always doing soemthing and i cant really eat special things cause one weekend im with my dad and one day during the week i am with him...i dont kno what to do i need HELP! what could i do to loose weight??????????? thank you sooo so much! OxoxO

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Well, there are different choices that you can do, which ever one you feel most comfortable with. Example 1: Workout. If you choose to work out, then just take it slow. Don't overexersize yourself, that would be bad. Just do push ups, curl ups, running or walking, things like that. Example 2: Like you said, you can't really eat special food. But if you ever go out to eat, then just eat maybe a salad, and some soup or something!

Hope I Helped,

xKendall10x


Theres a girl who is a complete and total slut shes trying to take my boyfriend away from me I dont like her and she knows it i have talked to my boyfriend and he promised he wouldn't go for her...what should I do? (link)
Just walk up to her and say confidently, My boyfriend is all MINE so back off girl."

Walk away

END OF SCENE 1.
lol

good luck


i decided i need to get into shape. so today i did 100 sit-ups (within 15 minutes.. i know, that's a LONG time =(..). is that too much to start with? does anyone have any other good exercising tips, for your stomach? (besides sit-ups and crunches).

also, can you do sit-ups by laying down and then going up, instead of bending your legs? Because i don't bend my legs.. so maybe it's not considered a sit-up.

thanks in advance! (link)
Try to use the jumprope! 100 is way too many. lower it down though, and just take it day by day, maybe eat a little healthier, like an apple after school everyday. And take breaks too! Work like... 1 or 2 days, and then take a break. A tredmill works out your abs and your legs, and arms if u use LIGHT weights. Walking is a great one to use, because it dosen't really wear you out. make sure u walk, not run and using a bike everyday helps too.

Thanks for saying thanks in advance
You seem really nice


Hey Im 14 and im having serious problems most people 14 have already started there period and all and already developed boobs .. well im not even close im really short around 4'11 and im flat as a board and havnt started my period.. guys dont like me and i dont really fit in with the girls.. when did u start ur period and started devolping. please be truthful and what are someways to get more into boys and girly things by still being myself , sincerly

NeedHelp (link)
I haven't started my period either! My boobs are bigish i guess, and all I would do is just go to more parties and stuff to fit it. Shop at American Eagle (expensive!!!) Aeropostle (MY FAVORITE)


ok i've been looking for this song "found a way" or "i found a way" by drake bell. i don't know where to find it at. i tried everywhere.i don't want to buy the cd. where can i get the song? a website or anything?

Clueless and musicless (link)
Well you could go to www.launch.com or get WinMx at a computer store, and look for it on there, and make your OWN Cd!

ur welcome, rate high, good luck,

Kendall


ok..i stole a bottle of perfume,earings,keychain,lipgloss,2 rings, (this was formyself) i also helped out my friend steal her stuff and she helped me steal mine. I never stole anything before..and im kinda feeling bad now. the stuff i took was probably worth $15 or $20 altogether. is there a way i can make myself feel better and get rid of he guilt..besides returning it. And is it true that people steal stuf until they get caught? because ii dont want to make a habitt out of this. have any of you stolen anything before? (link)
She would NOT let you off the hook. Go back to the store, and quietly return the things while no one is looking. It will get that lump off your chest, and make u start to realize that it was wrong.

I hope I didn't get you mad hun!!!


Lovez,
Kenni


well, im typing to you inside my overly large pumpkin. you know like in cinderella. i convinced my parents to get me an internet cable in here. but its starting to really stink like a rotten fish. and everythings beginning to smell including me. i'm trapped in here with no shower. wut do i do?(and no purfume or deodorant of any sort)
ps. remember i'm trapped!!!! (link)
Good idea about the halloween thing! Seriously. You could try to um...maybe yell for help? Can anyone hear you? and um if u have a knife in there, then SAW IT OPEN BABY!


Hey girl! You seem really cool but anyways
ok i have a boyfriend im 14 and he recently
asked me to have sex with him. I REALLY want to (not to sound like a slut or anything) but i dont want him to go on and tell everybody and stuff i want to wait til summer though what
should i do, and since you are around my age i want to know what you would do in this situation
x0Lindsey

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Hey. Your 14 and wanna get horny and have sex? Wow. Already? Well it is totally up to you and it is your decision and i can tell you really want to and that you would enjoy it. Do it safely please Lindsey! Tell your closest friends if you feel comfertable with doing so, and tell your parents LATER ON, if you tell them at all for that matter. I would talk it over with your boyfriend, and ask him if its what he really really really wants to do

Good luck
Good Trust
GOOD BYE! :-)

YOU ARE SO NICE!


ok well theres this guy named derek and hes really nice and really cute and really sweet and well i just adore him. well anyway i flirt with him all the time even though i don't mean to . but alot of other girls like him to. i've known him for almost 3 years so i know him pretty well. should i tell him i like him? i don't want it to ruin our friendship. i tried that once before and now that guy never talks to me. what should i do????

really confused (link)
Wow. Tough one!!! lol. J/k i can help. If Derek loves you, and if u see a reaction (A GOOD ONE) when you flirt with him, then he likes you. if he kinda winces and swings back and forth and doesn't seem interested, then you will get the clue. Maybe you shouldn't tell him you like him. Yet! Gradually bring it up that maybe you and him and ur friend and his friend could double on friday nite or something.

good luck! good time! and goooooood bye


I have a ferret. He is so cute and I love him to bits. He's about 10 months old now, but all he likes to eat is his ferret food! He won't eat chicken or anything else! Should he be eating a more varied diet, other than his ferret food? If so, how do I get him to accept new foods? (link)
Well all ferrets are different. If he starts looking unhealthy then take him to the vet of course. It's alright if he doesn't want to eat the chicken or other things. Ferret food is healthy, so you might want to stick to that. Don't push him into eating other foods when he doesn't want to, but every once in a while, offer him chicken, etc.

Good Luck!


I'm 13 years old and I have this friend named Allyson and an enemy named Roxy. Roxy has hurt both Allyson and mine's feelings and isnt a very..well...nice person but is extremely popular and draws much attention. Allyson tells me that she just wants to be my friend and that she doesnt like Roxy but whenever i see that roxy talks to allyson, allyson gets all happy and smiley. Later though, she denies to have done anything like that. Allyson has let me down before but promises to never do it again. Also, allyson talks to roxy's mom alot they have a good relationship and i think allyson tells her many thing...maybe too many..i dont know if to trust allyson again..i mean shes a great person/friend but...i dont know..if i should trust her again.

xPiinkMaScArax (link)
If allyson was your best friend then she wouldn't be happy to be hanging out with Miss Priss (a.k.a Roxy)Talk to Allyson and tell her how you feel.

Good Luck, Rate High!


this guy we said we would be friends but at times hes really firty with me and acts like he likes me. he will call me and stuff but then the nexy day he will be different and not call me or talk much to me. what does this mean? i really like this guy i think my age is what bothers him the most i am 3 years younger than him but age isnt everything. what do i do? i rate high. (link)
Age is not everything, and if he thinks it is, then you shouldn't be interested in him! If he said he dosn't like you, then he's probably right. But ask him out (BE A WOMAN!) (BE BRAVE!)And if he says no, then you'll know for sure.


ok the guy I'm crazy about is also a good friend of mine. And for the last week I've noticed he's been hanging around with B and I thought he liked her a lot. And today I saw him writing a note that and he was asking her out. Then after school I talked to him and said, "So did u give it to her?" and he said "yeah, but it's because I'm being forced into it." and so I asked him what was going on, and he told me that B's friend W has been driving him crazy trying to get him to go out with B, and he's sick of it so he asked her out and really only wants to be friends with B. (which made me really happy by the way... ) so my question is, what should I do now??? (link)
Ask him out! Talk to B, and tell her everything. Tell her exactly what you just told me! That he was being forced into it! Tell B EVERYTHING. If she thinks your lying, then get proof!

Good Luck,
~Kendall~


What do you do when the only person in your family that understands you is gone? (link)
You think about him. Pray to him, and he will still be there and understand.

If you want to explain it to me, write back

~Kendall~


I'm not sure if Frienship is the right catagory or not... Here goes: My friend, Chelsea, was a nervous wreck. She was so scared about telling her boyfriend she wanted to kiss. I told her to write him and note so she did. She said she gave it to him and he said he wanted to, too. That was a week ago and she says they still haven't kissed. I asked if it's because they never see each other except in school where they would get in trouble but she said he'll do anything else. Just won't kiss. Is he lying to her or nervous or what? Neither of us understand and she doesn't want to look dumb by asking. She's mad because if that is the problem, she'll probably never kiss him because they can't see each other out of school. Also, is this type of question common at all? Thanx!
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It could be that he is nervous or shy, like Chelsea was about asking.
If he wants to kiss her, he will, when the time comes. Don't rush kisses, because when they happen, you'll be glad you waited.


Say I have a friend who i love so much and i never want to get rid of. Could it be possible if we fight so much that we start hanging out and chatting less and even stop being friends? (link)
It could be possible. Your friend is probably missing out, and even though you guys get into fights, best friends stick together. So my advice would to give the girl another chance. And talk about stuff that she's interested in. Then you will become more close.


ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!! (link)
Hmm....If you broke up with him, then he probably is crushed. Ask him out again if you still like him, but remember, You broke up with him, because you said you guys had no chemistry! Make sure that's what you really want, because if you go out again, and then brake up, AGAIN. I don't think you should ask him out, unless you really want to stay that way.
It's your choice
~kendall~




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