ok well here is the deal. Im a freshman and i have been going out with a senior for two days now. but i decided to break up with him today because i felt like we had no chemistry. but i still like him and i was wondering if you think i should talk to him about wanting to go back out with him when we get back to school on monday or just stay his friend?i rate!!
Cath answered Saturday March 5 2005, 8:17 pm: Hi Sweetie,
In my experience the "lets just be friends" things never works and both of you always end up hurt. Anywaym if you still like him but feel like you have no chemistry then... hang out with him. Take things slow. Don't make it as "we're a coupple. Boyfriend and girlfriend. We can just make out and stuff." Make it more like "I DO like you, that's why we are giving it a try. Lets get to know each other MORE."
Hope it all goes great. Take care, good luck and ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
xKendall10x answered Saturday March 5 2005, 4:59 pm: Hmm....If you broke up with him, then he probably is crushed. Ask him out again if you still like him, but remember, You broke up with him, because you said you guys had no chemistry! Make sure that's what you really want, because if you go out again, and then brake up, AGAIN. I don't think you should ask him out, unless you really want to stay that way.
It's your choice
~kendall~ [ xKendall10x's advice column | Ask xKendall10x A Question ]
jcpennypanties answered Saturday March 5 2005, 1:52 pm: just stay his friend, you got the right idea girl..more than likely it wont work hes bout to graduate and prolly go to college, just leave him alone. you'd prolly just end up getting hurt in the long run. [ jcpennypanties's advice column | Ask jcpennypanties A Question ]
AdInA answered Saturday March 5 2005, 1:00 pm: that isn't right.. you don't break up with someone then go after them again asking for another chance. just move on.. if it didn't work out the first time, it probably won't work out the second time. plus two days isn't enough to really have anything for him, so it shouldn't be that hard. you will find other guys, just don't make the mistake you did with the last relationship. [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
passionx0x answered Saturday March 5 2005, 12:02 pm: If you like the guy, then go for it, but if your still iffy about it than wait a while to see if your feelings towards him change. I don't like to say age is a factor, because I'm in the same boat, so as long as you guys like eachother than stick with it. Age aint nothing but a number :-)
mrs_radcliffe answered Saturday March 5 2005, 9:30 am: If you liked him in that way you shouldnt have fallen out with him unless you feel like you just want to be friends talk to him about it and say your sorry that you broke up with him you just need some time to think things through
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hope ive helped! you go girlxxxx [ mrs_radcliffe's advice column | Ask mrs_radcliffe A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Saturday March 5 2005, 8:35 am: well if you really like him you shouldn't have dumped him. i think that if he still likes you and is willing to go out with you. if you do go out try and spend more time with him. make him think that he needs you. and everything will be fine. hope i helped. [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
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