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what now?
ok the guy I'm crazy about is also a good friend of mine. And for the last week I've noticed he's been hanging around with B and I thought he liked her a lot. And today I saw him writing a note that and he was asking her out. Then after school I talked to him and said, "So did u give it to her?" and he said "yeah, but it's because I'm being forced into it." and so I asked him what was going on, and he told me that B's friend W has been driving him crazy trying to get him to go out with B, and he's sick of it so he asked her out and really only wants to be friends with B. (which made me really happy by the way... ) so my question is, what should I do now???
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Ask him out! Talk to B, and tell her everything. Tell her exactly what you just told me! That he was being forced into it! Tell B EVERYTHING. If she thinks your lying, then get proof!
Good Luck,
~Kendall~
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You have to talk him out of his relationship with B. It's not fair on him or B to carry on as they will both end up being very unhappy. You also have to sort this bitch W out. Either get your guy to come clean to B about it and let her sort W out or do it yourself. If you decide to do it yourself, tell W that everyone has the right to choose who they love and go out with and although it may hurt B because she likes him, your guy just isn't interested in that way. Tell her that she doesn't have the right to force him into anything and should be ashamed of her behaviour!!
Then leave it a couple of weeks and if your really brave, why don't you ask him out?? It sounds to me as if you really like him, so take a risk for love if your feelings are that serious. You'll regret it if you don't, I promise you that. Good luck honey
Claire xx
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smack him upside the head, and tell him not to be so easily swayed.
no, you should just tell him that you wish he hadn't asked B out, because then you can't be with him. then give him a hug and walk away. that way he knows what he's missing out on. talk to W, let him/her know that you like the guy and that he doesn't want to be with B like that.
good luck
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This could get sticky youngin' Is this B a friend of your's? If so does she like this guy? Are you willing to loose a friend because of this guy? Do you think he may have just told you that a friend wants him to go out with B because you showed an intrest in him? These things you should ask yourself before you go for it.
If B is not a good friend and you think he is being truthful, go get him.
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just wait iit out...things should go your way pretty soon
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wait...
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talk to the chick and tell her that you really like him and to please not go out with him for your feelings...
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Being that he doenst like her.. I think its safe to make a move. He told you all that information..so maybe he lieks you!? He could have just said "yea i asked her out" so it wouldnt get out that he doesnt like that girl. Maybe ask him if he would ever see you as more than a friend. Or maybe get a guy friend who would ask for him. ( i suggest a guy friend whos friends with you and him..because this way they can have a "guy" talk) lol. Make your move soon before its official that hes going out with her (although being that he doesnt like her..he would probably dump her in a heartbeat)
If you need help with anything else leave me something else in my inbox..i hope it all works out smoothe though!
-melissa-
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Why do you need to do anything? The only way you're involved with this situation is because you're crushin' on this one dude.
So why don't you just offer your advice and sympathy to B, but let the problem work itself out. Are you good friends with B? Because if you're not, I can only see damaging effects on your reputation by getting involved.
Honestly, the situation sends up a "Stay far, far away" flag in my head.
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First tell W to get a life.
Then get B and your guy together and mediate a discussion between them, tell them to be honest with each other but not fight.
If W persists, tell him/her that he/she needs to get her own boyfriend or girlfriend and mind his/her business.
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