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cant sing in public!
ok well,this is sorta a love life thing, but i dont know it has to do with singing. so i was alone after school in the gym and i was shooting hoops waiting for my boyfriend to pick me up and i didnt know my friend was behind me, so i started singing, and then i shot the ball and when it came back down and i got the rebound, i turned around and he was standing there, and i was like really embarrased, even though he said i was a terrific singer. the only person i can sing in front of is my boyfriend, who also says im a good singer. but i dont know, im really afraid to sing in front of people.
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hey its not a big deal that he heard you sing i mean hes ur friend after all. and plus if he thinks you sing good than you should be happy, and if your bf says the same thing than thats good. so dont be afraid if someone hears you sing, just think that your good at it.
xoxo amore
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Maybe you could try singing in front of some of your best friends and ask them to truthfully tell you what they think of your voice.
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I have the same problem... espcially since i am quite confused because I have most ppl telling me that I CAN sing and then out of the blue my music teacher in al seriousness tells me that I can't sing... So my advice for you is just to get cocky about it a little and pretend like you are the best singer and If ppl dont like it then forget it, and when that nervous feeling comes over you, just breathe and think to yourself... I'm good I'm good... And then you will be fine. My first experience with singing in front of people happened in oct. when my school had this Broadway in concert thing and I had to sing peter pan and I hated it so much and I was all alone on stage unlike a lot of other ppl... and so many teachers and other people complimented me. I am still just a little nervouse... but I just breathe and get over it. HopeI Helped!
-Ashley
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I can totally relate.I LOVE to sing and those who have heard me,tell me I'm good.But getting me to sing in front of people is a whole other story!!!My mom told me one day that she catches me singing around the house all the time.Which,sometimes I do it and I don't even realize it!Since I want to be a singer,I have to work on getting over this shyness.So what I started doing was singing in front of my parents,but not to where they were sitting there staring at me waiting for me to sing!I told them I was going to sing and just had them go on about their business,not looking at me,but listening to me.Eventually,I worked my way up to being able to sing TO them!Also,try taping yourself singing,and then have a family member or close friend listen to it and see what they think.It's easy to sing in all the subtle ways to get people to hear you do it,like singing in the shower,in the car,while you're cleaning your room,etc. It sounds like you must be a good singer,so have confidence in yourself and try not to make it so it's so stuffy and serious,lighten up and losen up.That way,you'll be having fun and people can really hear you sing!!Hope this helps sweetheart-if youneed anything feel free to write me in my inbox! :)
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Lol thats totally fine. I only feel confortable singing in front of like 2 or 3 of my friends :P but you start to get used to it i guess.
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Then dont sing in public.
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hey i think you should work your way up to a large group of peeps. Like you could sing in front of your bf then your bf and your friend then a couple of more people then you will finally work your way up to a big group.
HOpe i helped out.
babygurl14 savanah 14/f
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Don't worry about it. Atleast you can sing at all, many people can't. There is absolutely NOTHING for you to be embarassed about. Stagefright is normal, but you will get over this in a few days, it's really no big deal.
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If you really want to be able to sing in public..the only way to correct it is to face your fear by singing in public. It will get easier as you do it more. But..its ok if you dont want to sing in front of people. Do you know how many people wont sing in front of others? A LOT and im one of them lol. Its ok if you want to only sing in the shower or in front of your bf..its sweet what your bf said and hes probably right! So go to a talent show and sing..or something in front of people if your serious about wanting to sing in front of people.
-meliss
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So, um, what's the problem?
Are you expected to sing in public now? It just seems like someone overheard you, and turns out you're a good singer.
Why are you afraid to sing in public?
If you don't have to sing and no one is forcing you to, it sounds like you're worrying about nothing really.
Relax. You're probably very talented. :-)
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