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He's gone....
What do you do when the only person in your family that understands you is gone?
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Look its hard losing someone. Especialy when he is the only person who understands you. I lost the one person i could trust but not family...... But any way i think you should talk to the best friends you can think of. someone who can give advice or just comfort you in some way. someone you have had great times with. someone who can make you smile. Hes not gone hes a little bird on your shoulder now (buddhist teachings) so when u want to talk to him just whisper to your shoulder. Hope i have helped -Mike
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If you're a christain read the bible and GOD will answer your question.
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You think about him. Pray to him, and he will still be there and understand.
If you want to explain it to me, write back
~Kendall~
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If you mean that they passed away, then you'll have to find someone else you can talk to. I mean a friend, teacher, councilor, sibling, aunt, uncle, parent, grandparent...
If you just mean moved away, then you can visit, talk on the phone, e-mail, instant message...
I'm sorry about a loss if they passed away, but if they just moved away, then you have many other options.
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I know it is hard when a family member leaves home. Your brother is just going out there and living his life and you will one day too. The best advice I can give is for you to get you a big writing pad. Every evening before you go to bed write someting to your brother. When you get a few pages mail it to him. You write a journal and keep him up to date on whats happening too.you may not be able to see him for awhile but you can keep in touch.Writing is really better than a phone call even because you don't have to remember what was said. You can read your letters from him over and over again...he can too. I'm sure he's gonna miss you too.Go buy some paper!
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You can talk to a friend about it, like find someone else that can understand you. Maybe someone like the one that is gone now.
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you bottle it up like everyone else does. then you become depressed and start taking medications. you become a freak and people start talking bad things about you. you grow up with split personalities and your children will be very pale and gothic.
i hope you take this as a "GET OVER IT"
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find a new person
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