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Hey I'm Mike. I try my best to give good advice so ask away.
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Tonight we made spaghetti and we went outside in our garden to pick rosemary. However, after we put it in, we discovered that it wasn't rosemary at all! It was a different plant. At first, we were worried it was mezereon. But it wasn't because we checked the plant book and mezereon has big red berries. But we're worried that it might be another poisonous plant. Do any advice columnists know what it might be or whether it's poisonous? It looks a little like rosemary, only the spiky leaves are more spaced out and it has white flowers in the summer that are really small (they look like honeysuckle buds but the plant is not honeysuckle). It is a small bush and doesn't have berries.

Someone PLEASE HELP!!! We are worried we are gonna die
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well in my oppinion if u think ur gonna die id say poison control would be a better place for answers then this


ok I have been doing about 60 situps a day and now my stomiac hurts in the bottom of it. REALLY BAD to. Whats wrong and whats going on. I will rate all 5'd 4 good answers. (Please exuse the misspelled words) Thanks (link)
take a break for a day or 2 or do less u shouldent be hurting after 60 situps


any one know any good songs for like love..like songs you'd put in your profile for someone your going out with! thanks! (link)
She will be loved by maroon 5..... Amazed by lonestar..... ummmm ya


anybody no ingredients to make protein drinks to help u get muscles and bigger. Or dus any1 no where to get protein powders like which shops and where bouts in romford, essex, ilford or barking? cos i wanna get some protein drinks or powder an stuff lyk dat. Please help i rate high (link)
well i dono about powders but mix eggs peanuts beans and some meat (all that is loaded w/ protein) -mike


I am in a situation where i know i am eventually going to end up fighting one or maybe 2 people, one is smaller than me and one is bigger, i dont need any paficists telling me not to fight, its unavoidable, can somebody give me some advice on how not to get my ass kicked and preferably to kick theres, im m/15 5 foot 9, and quite strong, just havent been in a real fight before. (link)
ok well kick the big guy in the balls then get the little guy in a headlock and choke him out then go back to the big guy and punch him in the face or ribs or gut. then if u can pick up the little guy and throw him at the big guy.


Can someone please give me an intellegent answer to y people cut? It makes no sense to me. The only conclusion i have come to is mental/emotional weakness. (link)
Well this answer is from a cutter. I dont know why other people cut but i cut myself to let the emotional pain escape through my body somehow yes it seems stupid but it offers temporary emotional relief in exchange for minor bodily harm. Sometimes people cut themselves severely and thats not good at all its due to some extreme emotional depression such as a family death or a fight with friends or familly. usualy something traumatic or stressful will provoke this behavior. hope i helped - mike


A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do?? (link)
once she moves itl all be over. dont cause any drama ok? trust me- mike


Hello everyone i have a grandpa ( sorta ) well he doesnt talk to me ever i try calling him to see if he would like help around his house and garden and stuff but he says no ill ask katie to do that. On Forth of July last year i was trying to help clean up and then mii cousin ran in and spilled water all over the gradage on top of me so when she was sitting in there i did it to her and i got "grounded" to my grandpas basement by my grandpa. He has Ryan, Me , Jon , Katie , and Jessica as his grand children but he is always bragging about Ryan mii older brother and my 2 cousins Katie and Jessica its like he doesnt even notice me and my little brother. Please Help Me (link)
listen babe dont let him get to you. Hes old and cenile and well ur "new grandpa" is here for ya -mike


What do you do when the only person in your family that understands you is gone? (link)
Look its hard losing someone. Especialy when he is the only person who understands you. I lost the one person i could trust but not family...... But any way i think you should talk to the best friends you can think of. someone who can give advice or just comfort you in some way. someone you have had great times with. someone who can make you smile. Hes not gone hes a little bird on your shoulder now (buddhist teachings) so when u want to talk to him just whisper to your shoulder. Hope i have helped -Mike


I currently live in London and may be moving to either Philadelphia in America or Melbourne in Australia. Iv'e been to Melbourne before but don't know what it would be like living there. What the would be schools like, e.c.t.
Iv'e never been to America and have no idea what its like there. Could anyone who lives in Philadelphia tell me what its like? Also, I'm really fit and thin at the moment, but Iv'e heard that in America its hard to get hold of healthy foods. I don't like this whole bribe thing, but I will rate high for any good answers. (link)
America is the land of the free. Unbelievably sweet place to live. I should know i live here. You can do any thing you want as long as it doesnt infringe upon someone elses rights. So come to America!!!!. plus we have like really good sports and tv and stuff like that so ya LIVE HERE.


I LOVE U MIKE!haha its Nicole!Love the advice keep it up!! (link)
HELL YEAH thank you nicole love you too!!!


I am a thirteen year old female and I don't want to live my life anymore. My ex boyfriend and ex best friend are almost going out even though they know I still have feelings for him. My sister has ADHD so my parents have to give her alot of special attention and there are about three family arguments a day. I gave up self harm about a month and a half ago but now I have started again because I am so depressed. I make constant threats of suicide and I suffer from very low self confidence. I am rarely happy and when I am it is short lived. I desperately want my ex boyfriend back and keep thinking that if only I still had him then I would be happy. I have a male friend who I talk to about almost everything and he is very supportive but he can't help me. What should I do? (link)
Come on girl pull through. Because if you kill your self you wont end your pain you'll be spreading it among your loved ones. ive been there 3 times and got help and it worked. u can do it too. remember dont feel like noone cares about you cus everynight theres someone who thinks about you before they go to sleep. im not the spirituak type but il pray for ya. so try and get help if you can or talk to someone else. U CAN DO IT -mike- AIM -strachasaur


mike i love you he he its kelly kokish, sweet advice column i love it bye (link)
lmao i diddnt think ud actualy write me kelly I love you 2 bye


hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
left is right right is wrong


ive been cutting myself and have overdosed for awhile now. been depressed for long time as well. have ss many fucked up family issues which caused to me to start to cut. i finally broke down last march and parents found out, sent me to a therapist who did nothing. she turned me from being depressed to being angry and hateful and i dont want to be. it seems to have just gotten worse now and have been cutting more than ever. it sucks i hate myself and life and see no point in it anymore. i dont know what to do. (link)
this is a serious one.... ok well ive been there therapists do suck. i tried killing myself and well i stopped. i stopped because i thought of who i was hurting. it wasnt me id be hurting. it was my friends and family. and most of all the girl i love. i told them all and they helped me through it therapy free. so just think of who you are hurting besides yourself when you do these things and have strong will/mind/heart and ul pull through good luck -mike


Im not so sure what topic this would be placed under but...

i recived a phone call 2 nights ago on my cell phone and this guy keeps calling hes tried to have phone sex over the phone with me but i refused and i dont no who he is but he says he nos everything about me he has told me my address and street city state number of siblings and so on.. and he called me again yesterday telling me if im shy again that he is going to f*** the hell out of me till i am dead and i dont no what to do he told me i better not tell anyone because he said he would make my death more pain full... could this be a prank? or serious... im confused and dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME ASAP


i rate 5 plz help me (link)
wow this seems familiar for some reason... ok look what you need to do is tell your parents and the police. the police could probably set up some sort of call tracker and then hed get whats coming to him if he messes with you. you have a right to be scared but youl get through it. dogs will keep him out if you have them. so god luck and dont panic. -mike


i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks (link)
ok. he just wants to feel like hes made a breakthrough in the relationship and is proud that you two made out. if it makes you uncomfortable that he tells people than just tell him. good luck -mike


i'm 14 yrs old and the guy i LOVE is a year older than me i've liked him since the first day i've seen him which was the summer of fifth grade and everytime i meet a guy and go out with one i can't seem to think about anybody or anything else than him we've gone out about 5 times two weeks at the most and i just don't know what to do i've told him many times that i totally regret breaking up with him and that i would give everything to be with him but after that he probably thinks i'm obsessed.................................................WHAT SHOULD I DO
~haylerz.............. (link)
Well if you really love him than you should be together. And if you find out that he doesnt love you dont do anything crazy cus that never ends well. so youre not obsessed just in love. good luck -mike


ok so i always like a guy and i always want a bf and then i flirt to make them like me. then i go out with them and like 2 weeks into it or so i stop liking them and want 2 break up with them and after like a month+ i finally break up with them and then i realize taht i still like themand sometimes i go back out with them and sometimes i don't. but then as soon as i don;t have a bf i want 1 again. why do i do this? and how do i stop? (link)
Look before you ask some one out MAKE SURE YOU REALLY LIKE THEM. that way there are no hassels. and if you dont really like them dont wait another 2 weeks to break up with him. just follow ur heart and you will be alright. -mike


guys always use me and then dump me! i am sick of it, i can never have a real relatioship! they just like my looks! what should i do? its not like i give them any sometimes only (link)
Ok im a guy and ya many guys are jerks. But thats not all guys. Maybe try getting to know a guy really well before going out with him. That way you will have a better understanding of what he wants. Or you could just askim out front what he wants out of a relationship. And tell him to be honest with you. Hope i helped good luck finding someone.




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