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girl moving
A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??
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This isn't wrong of you. Just because your friends like her, doesn't mean that you have to. Don't tell them how you feel if they mean that much to you. Keep it to yourself.
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It's alright that you can't wait till she moves, after all you can't expect yourself to like everyone that you know or that your friends like. Don't get confused about it, it is simply that, although it's not very nice, you don't like this girl and thats okay because everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
However I don't think you should really say anything to your friends. It would just start an argument over nothing. Be civil to the girl as long as you have to see her and talk to her. If your friend does notice that something isn't right and she asks about whether you've got something against this girl, just say that your don't hate her but your not exactly her biggest fan. Your friend should understand this as it's not up to her who you choose to be your friend and point this out to her if she doesn't understand.
Apart from that keep it zipped and you should be fine. Good luck
Claire xx
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Dont tell them just act sad untill she goes then you can be all happy then
:D luv roxie
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No, this doesn't make you a bad person or a bitch. he chances are that you have a good reason not to like her, and I wouldn't worry about that. If I were you, I'd continue to be glad because soon she'll be out of your life!
Don't tell any of your friends that you don't like her-pretend to be sad too. If you do this, you can't hurt anyone and I can't see much going wrong.
Try to be nice to the girl on the last few days, too. You'll be glad you did someday.
Hope I helped and good luck!
Sophie xxx
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first you should make peace with this person and it is wrong(karmically) and it will come back to you
Solemnstar
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The best thing would be to not say anything at all. It may not be 100% honest, but it's better than saying you hate her, and it's more honest than acting like you care. Whether it's a right or karmic thing to do or feel is entirely up to you.
Cheers!
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Keep it to yourself.You can dance around and cheer at home though...I encourage it.:}
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No, it's okay for you to be happy that the girl is moving. Whenever they bring up the girl that is moving, try to saying something nice about her and then change the subject. Or you can pretend to cry.
Hope I helped!
Ke
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okay im confused too now if you hate her...why is she in your "group?" and its totally ok to hate her but dont tell your friends because then they will hate you and that wont be ok just okay along until she moves and dont think if you tell your best friend he/she will understand haha
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Haha! Well dont tell them that you are happy just kinda play along with it and pretend that you`re sad hehe! No its not wrong of you its fine if you hate her l0l! x0
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fuck what they think.
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I got a question like this earlier. Its not wrong i mean just say its ashame she is moving. Dont be all negative be nice and put on a act like you care. Dont be mean cuz im sure you wouldnt want that negative stuff towards you leaving. -trix
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keep it to yourself and no its not wrong you can't like everyone its a givin fact of life.
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no, smack the shit outta this bitch as a going away present. screw them.
-hitler
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Don't tell them you're happy, that is just mean. Be respectful and tell her you hope she prospers in whatever she does wherever she is to go next, and say you'll miss her. That way, while she is moving, she won't have to wonder what she did to make you hate her. So just be respectful of the girls feelings, even if she hasn't been of yours. Just be mature about it.
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No nothing is wrong with you. You hate her, of course you are going to be glad when she moves away. But you are right, you will look like a bitch if you are happy, even if you have good reasons for disliking her, especially when all of your other friends are so sad. If you don't feel right, pretending to be sad to your friends, it's best not to say anything at all. Secrelty be happy, but console your friends and don't talk about the girl who is moving, because I'm sure they don't want to hear it.
-MIlkCArtON08
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keep your excitement to yourself. even if she is a bitch if you showed how happy you are... yes. they'd think your a bitch. keep the peace and have her leave on a happy note. thats a nice thing to do.
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its perfectly natural to feel happy about it. I know you and your friends might be close, but you dont have to tell them everything you feel. Just try and support the friends who are crying while thinking to yourself "ah yes victory at last."
-meliss
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Haha dont tell them duh ! but I mean u have to c from their point of view to thats their friend and she is moving *tear* lol not ! well layter
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its ok to be happy that shes moving.. just dont show it.. try to comfort your friends and have a good time with them, but yea, your friends might think you were a bitch if you said you were happy, so i just wouldnt say anything
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Why do you have to do anything? Pretending that your sad doesn't seem like a great thing to do and telling them you're happy she's gone is as rude as hell.
So you don't like her. So what? Your friends do so don't put her down in front of them. You can be happy all you want, just don't parade it in front of your friends.
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once she moves itl all be over. dont cause any drama ok? trust me- mike
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Lol.. well you might miss her after shes gone.. well jus keep it yourself cause that would jus make em mad that your happy shes moving.. much luv dez x0x0
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Juts give it a little time just play that you are sad. The girl will be gone soon just let time pass and your utopia will come.
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Dont tell them your happy, but if they ask be like 'Yeah, that sucks shes gonna move". Just keep your hapiness to yourself because if they know your happy about her moving, they may not want to be your friends!
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If you don't like her then it's not wrong of you to be happy about her moving. Your friends shouldn't think you're a bitch for being happy about it if you explain to them why you don't like this girl.
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