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make out
i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks
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Yes talk with him about it. Explain that the intiment moments you share with him are meant to be his and noone elses. Explain that whereas you are not embarrased you have been affectionate with him, that it is not proper for the details of how you spend your private time together to become public entertainment. As for why he talks about it, well there are several reasons, I'm sure. One, he's proud. Two, It's probably hard for him to keep secrets, esp. one as exciting as a good makeout session, so he felt like he had to tell someone about it. and three, it's good for his reputation (even if it is bad for yours) He probably hasn't even really considered number three consciously, but it plays a factor for him.
Good luck.
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he prolly liked it..and wants the attention from his friends
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Well.. we know someones an awesome kisser!! Go girl!! Ok.. well.. maybe you should like tease him. For instance, "I can't kiss you anymore, [insert boyfriends name here]. If you're going to kiss and tell, I'm just going to cut off your 'kiss' supply." Who knows, it could be fun!
~Steph~
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he either enjoyed it alot or (it was his first time) lol!!
prob true
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manda
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because he loves you... and he is excited that he knows now that you feel the same way.. also it may have been the first time he made out with someone.. also are you hot? if so hes braggin.. its ok.. it will die down.. the more you do it.. the less exciting it will be to him.. and he wont brag anymore.. it doesnt lower you rep at all... dont worry about it.. its ok to tell people.. the first time i made out with a girl (year 8) was a around a group of people.. we didnt care that people knew coz we loved each other.. dont anymore but you know... :P anyway hope i helped :D
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thats just part of what guys do, they will always tell their friends how far they go with girls and its hard to find a guy you can trust. you should talk to him about it, but dont make a big deal about it unless he does it again. hope i helped xox sara
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Guys always do that. They have to tell their "boys" about everything they do with their girlfriend. And I'm sure their girlfriends tell their friends aswell. But, if you not really liking that people know about your relationship. Try talking to him about it. I'm sure he'll understand.
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i did the same thing is your bf did and that best way that u can teach him a lesson is to dump him and refuse to ever go out with him again. i had a good relationship goin till i did what he did and i regret it still.
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Of course you should tell him! This is the way you feel about it. Just simply tell him that you'd appreciate it if he'd stop telling others about your personal love life together. It's nobody's business but yours, and that includes him.
((~)) C ((~))
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hah guys get pretty proud of their accomplishments n stuff like that, so talk to him about it. hopefully next time he'll keep is mouth shut.
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ok. he just wants to feel like hes made a breakthrough in the relationship and is proud that you two made out. if it makes you uncomfortable that he tells people than just tell him. good luck -mike
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He talked about it so much, because he's obviously interested, and probably wants to score points with the guys. Lots of guys do this, so trust me, you're not the only victim of these "Kiss and Tell" cases. You should talk to him about it because this makes you feel uncomfortable and it makes you seem unhappy.
Hope I helped.
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Tina
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okay...just talk to him...tell him you don't lke it when he tells everyone..but be reasonable...you don't want him mad @ you
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he talked about it so much because he felt accomplished. he was happy that he had done it with you. he might have also done it because if you're young, he might have just wanted to brag to his and your friends. just be honest with him and ask him why he told people that. what happens between you two should be kept confidential. if you mean anything to him he will respect your confontation and not tell people the next time that it happens!
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well you should talk to him like say..is it true your telling everyone we've made out??something like that..
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He probably talked about it because he was proud. If it makes you uncomfortable, I suggest that you let him know. The most important element in a relationship is trust. Just tell him in a nice way, and I am sure he will get the message.
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You should talk to him and tell him that you don't want him telling everyone about your "love" life with him. Don't worry, all guys are like that. You just have to tell him how you feel so he will understand and that he won't tell anyone anymore. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well, I'm not a guy, but I have a pretty good idea why he tells people. It's because he loves you and thinks you're pretty and everything and he likes saying, "I have her and you don't, hahahaha." Lol, do you get what I'm saying? If you don't want him telling people all the time, I would just tell him. Tell him you don't like it and you won't put up with it. He'll understand. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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You should definately talk to him about it. It is no ones business what the two of you did but yours and his. Tell him that it's making you uncomfortable that he is telling people about that and you'd like it if he'd not say anything and just keep it between the two of you. He was talking about it because he was proud that he made out with someone. He probably really likes you and thinks your the hottest thing on the planet and wants to flaunt it around that he made out with you. The majority of guys are like that, so hearing this doesn't shock me in any way. Just pull him aside and say "_________ it's making me feel weird about you telling everyone that we made out. Can we just keep it to ourselves and not have the entire world know about it?" He should be understanding about it. Well, he better be understanding about it. Don't worry about it too much, it's really not THAT big of a deal, but I could see why it would bother you. Hope this helped.
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Talk to him. Tell him you feel kind of uncomfortable with him going around telling everyone about it, even though you don't mind doing it. Hopefully he'll understand.
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